2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

[Skygirl1983]

Thread number 4!!

@Blondeandbroody I hope so, because I'm far too invested in everyone's journeys now I've been watching for so long I need to see everyone get there BFP!
@nt1992 yeah I'm might do thank u, I am much more of a lurker though 😂 so hopefully this thread will continue xx

Hi everyone,
You all seem like lovely, funny people - I've been following you for the last week or so. Just wanted to say I'm sad how all this turned out - we all have our own journeys and no one should be nasty or judgemental about anyone else. Anyway, you guys give support and info to those following the thread, as well as to those who join in. I hope you'll come back and give some updates. Good luck everyone!

Morning everyone. Here's to a positive day for everyone x

Oh god!!
I've just logged in and caught up! What the actual fuck!!! I watched miracle on 34th Street (favourite Christmas movie ever) last night and went to bed with my heart 3 sizes bigger and then come to read all this. ☹️ I really hope this thread doesn't die because of that, it's my favourite one and keeping me sane with the TTC journey being able to talk and read about all your experiences with some laughs along the way!

Hope you're feeling better @nt1992 ! Don't let the haters get you down. Easier said than done I know, but please don't leave because of it!

@CiaraJ01 time with the in-laws was so so good. Chilling, eating, walking in the woods. I've read some horror in law threads on MN and it's really made me appreciate mine even more! 😂 how is back home?? Wooohooo! That's work done! Keeping my fingers crossed for your BFP!

@Littlepea90 im the same, I keep my DH away from all the "boring" parts so it doesn't feel like a chore. Now just hoping it all goes to plan 😂😂 CD6 wooohoo! I think I'll drink for Christmas and Nee Year, unless I find I ovulate and then maybe won't. Though predicted ovulation at the moment is after the festive period so I may be in the clear 🧐 it's so hard isn't it to make up excuses on why you're not drinking on a day like New Year's Eve (at least for me as I do love a glass of wine).

@Skygirl1983 your yesterday morning sounds awful! Hopefully today is better AND it's Friday

Cervix, oh god!! I found that too hard to track and gave up 🤓 so I'm very impressed with you ladies being able to do it!!

@sojo44 that is good film!

The one with Matilda in it?

WTF has happened people. This thread is for the people following & supporting each others journeys. I’m way too invested in everyone now for it to end, I want to see everyone get their BFPs first.
Some people are just idiots & say what they like without realising that there’s actual people’s feelings involved, would they say that to a persons face- probably not, it’s much easier to type whatever you want without worrying about the consequences. I can’t see the original messages but get the idea, it doesn’t matter how many children you’ve got, what cycle you’re on, ttc is ttc & it can be really soul destroying & having people that actually understand the journey makes the world of difference. Where else can you talk about cm, cervical position, DTD so openly, I think the sense of anonymity helps too, people say it’s easier to open up to strangers. It all seems a bit bully-ish to me & I hate bullie, don’t let them push anyone out, this is our thread, if you want to be supportive & add something constructive to the group then post away otherwise F off, seriously life’s too short to be full of hate & negativity. 😡

@sh84 totally agree! Way too invested in everyone's TTC journeys that we cant let one person ruin it for all the rest of us

How have I ruined it! Honestly you’re all so much drama. Let’s just get on with the group and move on from it 🤷🏻‍♀️ I joined because this was one of the more active thread and now its silent. If I want attack by those 2 wouldn’t have got my back up. They were bullying one person on their own

So vipie are you champoo?

Nobody attacked you, it was self defence if anything!! And fully deserved might I add.

Just drop it or leave the thread so it can continue to be the friendly supporting thread it was before you came along.

@Louu99 don't forget calling me a blonde fool and little pea a stupid pea 😂😂😂😂😂 kills me.

@Vipie the only person that was bullying was the person that came on just to stir up shit. Everyone else was just defending someone who has been an active member for a while! No one else had a problem with what the targeted person was posting. Just one individual. Sadly you get people that do that!! This is the only time in the 5 threads that we have had going that anyone has been like that. It's just a shame that they ruin it for everyone else!

It’s vipie not viper, horrible girl!

@Blondeandbroody you’re a fool as well

Anyway let's do a reminder of where everybody is at because apart from one or two I don't know every bodies journey?

me:

TTC #1
Cycle 1
Cycle day 32
This is my first cycle after the mini pill which I stopped on 18th November when I started an AF which I had semi regularly whilst on the pills
I haven't a clue what's going on with me to be honest!

@Vipie you conveniently @ everyone else when you were directly referring to them, and then just threw it out there to get a grip? Sometimes semantics and direction is important!

You've ruined this part of the thread for us too, so ciao!

I'm on cycle 3, ttc no4 (but first with hubby, you DD is 12) got married in August so only now really invested in it all. I'm around 7dpo but taking things easy and chilled and seeing how it all goes with it being early days for us.

TTC 1st baby
Cycle 2 (the shock, the horror)
Day 7
Had some symptoms I thought were pregnancy last month, but AF proved me wrong. FW next week 🤞🏾

Hello ladies, I have been lurking here for some time and found your journeys really useful. I think I'd like to get more involved now (if you'll have me?)
I am ttc #4 cycle 1. My cycles are so irregular that I don't know where I am - I usually track ov by CM only but this month I have had 2 completely separate lots of EWCM. This means I am either 11dpo or 5dpo and I am somewhere between 2 days late and expecting AF in 5 days time
Sorry for the long post.

Completely new to this site and new to trying to conceive. Recently married and trying for our first baby. Just here to get tips and advice on everything really. I’ve been off the pill for 5 months now, periods regular and I’m due my next one (on Christmas Day!!!)

Hoping we’ve been successful this cycle 🤞🏼

Does anyone have something to explain the abbreviations on here, feel like I’m reading another language 🤣🤣

Good luck everyone ❤️

Hi peeps, I'm not sure if this is the right thread for me as I've been doing IVF but I can't see anywhere else to join for ladies ttc and testing before xmas that are going through IVF. So me, i was trying for 7 years with my present hubby, 10 with previous, I've had every test known to man, 6 cycles of ivf, 19 transfers, 5 miscarriages and 1 life birth that resulted in my son and now we're trying again before I get too old. I'm 4days past a 5 day transfer and going crazy in this 2ww. I'm also a poas addict, like a series addiction to preggo tests.

Hope it's ok to join, ikle xxx

MrsH0692 welcome. You can normally Google the abbreviations and get an answer, that's what I do if I'm not sure. Apps like baby centre actually put it in brackets for you. Are there any in particular you want help with?