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SMEP - feel free to join! :)

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danielasummer · 03/12/2019 07:34

Hi everyone, just making this thread as it seems a few of us will be trying SMEP to TTC! Adding these lovely ladies in from another thread but I hope everyone feels free to join! All welcome :)

@Devgirl31 @fayy123 @NCON @MrsKJW19

Some stats about me:

TTC #1
27 years old, DH is 28 years old
Missed miscarriage in October 2019 at 7+2 weeks
Still in that cycle (no AF yet)
Long and irregular cycles, some anovulatory
Suspected low progesterone/hypothyroidism (I think this based on symptoms, not diagnosed yet!)

Hope we can all provide support for each other in this crazy TTC journey.

Feel free to introduce yourselves :)

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Shazzzzz · 22/04/2020 21:50

@HE88 fingers and toes crossed that this is your month!🌈

This is my second cycle after my MC on 21st Feb x

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Littlepeas2 · 23/04/2020 08:31

@ChampooPapi twins!!! That is amazing!! Congratulations 🙊
@Shazzzzz wow!!! Look at them lovely clear lines!! Congratulations ❤️

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Swimfreak60256 · 23/04/2020 08:38

Hello loves!
Weird Question. My husband and I are trying to figure this out but need help! My AF was three days late and only lasted a day but had bright red blood. Then it stopped for two days and I saw light pink spotting when I wiped (TMI) .My AF usually lasts 5-7 days and is heavy but this is way different . My boobs are sore, I still have cramps 5 days later, I’m moody, have a headache and nauseas.I took a test 2 days after the bleed and it was negative. Should I try again? We would love to have a baby and would be over the moon to be pregnant. But unsure of what this is or if any one has experienced something similar to this?

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Ltay2 · 23/04/2020 20:01

Hi Ladies - just wanted to say I have read most of your thread now and wish you all good luck with your TTC journeys! It has been so nice reading through and getting to know you (albeit in stalker mode! 😂). I am not following SMEP exactly, but we are on Cycle 2 of trying for our first. Current in TWW starting today!

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Seafrontsky · 25/04/2020 08:55

Hi ladies, first post from me so forgive me if I've not got the lingo down! Just wanted to say hi as this seems like such a positive supportive thread. It brings me hope there are so many babies!
I'm feeling really down about the journey, it will be 2 years we've been trying in june. Had no positives at all. I have two DC already so I'm very lucky, just one last one to round off the troops. Both kids were conceived 1st or 2nd cycle so this is truly confusing. Had a complicated c-section with my last so am thinking that may be the problem. Or that I'm now 38? Had all blood tests, AMH, sperm tests all fine. Also been doing acupuncture and fertility massage.
Anyway, am nervously hopeful for this month. Plus side of covid is DH and I seeing much more of each other so SMEP is more fun!

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Lucy5546 · 25/04/2020 11:17

I haven't been on here in weeks but decided to come back and check up on a few people. Glad i did now!! Wow
So just wanted to say @danielasummer @ChampooPapi @Shazzzzz i am absolutely thrilled for you guys. Great news to come back too! I wish you three all thw luck in the world and sending mucho love for the next couple of weeks!
To everyone else still trying keep going it will happen one day!!
Awh this has made me so happy today Smile

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ChampooPapi · 25/04/2020 13:43

@Seafrontsky @Ltay2 hey lovelys, sorry no one has responded yet so wanted to assure you it is a really supportive thread, but the op is now pregnant, after a long journey as you will have read, so she is rightly taking some time out from social media/mumsnet, and when she comes back I would imagine she will be joining the pregnancy threads. She has been utterly fantastic, .so glad you've read the thread as it really does reflect the support she gave and the time she took to always respond to everyone.

I personally am now pregnant with twins and just completely knocked out by morning sickness so I'm pretty much useless here now too.

Also this thread is nearly full so someone needs to make a new one and carry on the smep torch and support going! Otherwise this thread will just go really quiet now as so many who joined have either got pregnant or taken a break from trying ect.

Start a new one and make another amazing womens support network going. It'll be immediately put at the top of the trying to conceive threads, and everyone will see it's a new one so anyone new will be more keen to join then one with only thirty messages left on that was started in November or whatever.

Baby dust and love to you all ❤️👣✨

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ChampooPapi · 25/04/2020 13:44

@Lucy5546 thanks gorgeous! We did it ! 🌈

How far along are you now? I'm just over 9 weeks

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Lucy5546 · 25/04/2020 20:13

@ChampooPapi im soooo thrilled for you. And two beautiful little rainbows for your troubles. Hope i see you on another thread. Be great to keep in touch on this journey. Im nearly 21 weeks now. Its flying in!! Wow 9 weeks hopefully it flies in for you!!

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Seafrontsky · 26/04/2020 08:38

Thank you @ChampooPapi and huge congratulations to you! I'll pop on over to another thread. Best of luck to you and all the other ladies on here.

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fayy123 · 29/04/2020 11:30

Hello everyone! Hope you’re all well and safe! & congrats on the BFPs such amazing news! I’m officially 3days late now and tested this morning and it’s BFN. I have a very regular 26 day cycle and have never been late, I’m pretty much kno when the second AF is about to hit me. I’m just confused at the min, and I’ve had no sign of AF coming. I’ve been getting twinges in my pelvic area and sensitive boobs. Also had a bit of a UTI around the time of ovulation but that’s now all cleared up thanks to Cranberry juice. Has this happened to anyone before? X

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danielasummer · 04/06/2020 16:36

Hey how is everyone doing? I've been so awful on MN lately and literally never come on here anymore otherwise I start researching scary things -.-

Hope you're all well x

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Shazzzzz · 04/06/2020 18:00

@danielasummer i have been the same too, currently 10 weeks and trying to keep off my phone as much as possible 😊 how are you doing? X


@fayy123 sorry i didnt reply to your post i didnt even get a notification anyone had commented after me, hope are you? Xx

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Niisa · 04/06/2020 18:36

@danielasummer @Shazzzzz how are you ladies??!!! 10 weeks already? Times flown!

All good here - currently 3dpo but haven't fully been following the SMEP. We DTD Saturday, Sunday & Tuesday. According to app, ovulation was Monday. I've not been testing or anything this month, just taking a more relaxed approach. And for the first time ever in my life, I've noticed ewcm hahaha I've had it pretty much the last 6 days so I'm quite hopeful this month xx

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Shazzzzz · 04/06/2020 19:21

@Niisa it feels like it is going quick! I have my dating scan soon. i had a private scan just over a week ago and everything was ok but im still nervous about this one!

Fingers crossed for you! I only DTD twice believe it or not and the dates they gave me at my private scan means i got pregnant 2 days after i DTD 😊 xx

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