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4DPO today - anyone joining the 2ww??

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ElsaTam · 05/11/2019 22:54

Hello! I am 4dpo and already starting to look for preggo signs.. i know i know!..
This cycle I had again tender breasts during/after ovulation, but today at 4dpo I noticed that they are not that “full” anymore (I confess it left me a bit worried!).
Okp positive on 31st Oct and ovulation on 1st Nov. Temperature raised on 2nd Nov and kept high (had a small drop but today even higher than before). All good (I think??) but the breasts don’t seem tender anymore (Although progesterone levels seems good). It is the first month I am checking temperature. We are trying to conceive since July/August. September had a chemical pregnancy.
Whomever is out there in the same boat - please share your symptoms! Also, if anyone had experience with losing breast symptoms after ovulation.. please share your experience! Thanks!

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ElsaTam · 23/11/2019 18:02

@Tiamo04 welcome to our chat! Maybe cramping is due to the implantation? 3/4 days seems quite early, but who knows? For me the opk's would only be darker around the ovulation time. But can't say much about it. Good luck for this 2ww!!! Try to relax... I guess it might help! I will try that direction in this next cycle!

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Aggie53 · 24/11/2019 10:13

Ladies is this true !! 😳😳😳could I really be pregnant omg I can’t believe ! I’m about to faint I only tested now just decided to do it for peace of mind as all my symptoms seem to be gone .. though af coming !!! Jeeee

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rhirhibumblebee · 24/11/2019 10:20

@Aggie53 Congratulations!! 💕 Definitely true xx

Aggie53 · 24/11/2019 10:23

thank you @rhirhibumblebee i still cant believe .wasnt prepared for it i mean im shocked ! delighted and shocked

rhirhibumblebee · 24/11/2019 10:40

@Aggie53 exactly how I felt! I'm so pleased for you xx

ElsaTam · 24/11/2019 11:15

@Aggie53 congratulations!!!!!! Omg this is so amazing! I loved your attitude since the beginning... i am gonna wait, i am gonna wait.. and look at this BFP!!! Love it 💕💕💕 wishing all the best my dear! This BFP's gives to us lots of hope for the our next cycles 😍

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Aggie53 · 24/11/2019 11:23

@ElsaTam@rhirhibumblebee ladies im still sitting here on my bed and i cant believe. I only did the test to get confirmation that im not ..to get rid of little doubts i had in the back of my mine !!! i thought the test was showing nothing and then i saw faint line and was getting clearer and cleared and my eyes bigger and bigger :) my boyfriend is working at sea so he is gone for 2 or 3 weeks i will have to wait when he comes back with the news jee !!! thanks for being here for me as i dont really have any one around to talk to. xx

Tiamo04 · 24/11/2019 14:27

@ElsaTam how are you?

Yea I am trying to relax no cramping today and feeling a better :) I don't think I'm pregnant though don't have any of the symptoms everyone talks about just cramping, spotting and nausea at 3-5 DPO and that was it... Will keep you posted though x*

ElsaTam · 25/11/2019 10:00

@Aggie53 ❤️❤️❤️ not easy to be alone and not having a support group around! Bug hug for you xxx

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ElsaTam · 25/11/2019 11:18

@Tiamo04 you have more symptoms than many! Don't think you are not pregnant or that you are pregnant.. it's still early and who knows?? :) crossing fingers for you! 🤞🏻🍀 BFP soon!!! ❤️

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NewUsername0123 · 25/11/2019 16:02

@rhirhibumblebee hope it went well today? Did she suggest a scan?
Yes I work in a similar setting but in the community so had to tell work just in case somthing was wrong they were totally fine about it!!
How are you feeling?
@ElsaTam hows it going? I hope your managing to relax and this 2ww is easier for you!!
@Aggie53 congratulations that's a deffinate line!!!!
How exciting!

Aggie53 · 25/11/2019 19:00

@NewUsername0123 thank you so much i still cant believe it seems not real i have so many mixed emotions !
@ElsaTam yes thats true but i guess i will manage , wish i could live close to my family or at least in the same country to have some support but i guess i woul have to do it all by myself and with my boyfriend being at sea on and off wont be easy !! all scare me to be honest . thank you for your all support and kind words !!!

By the way i did another test this morning 2 strong lines !!! definitely BFP !

ElsaTam · 25/11/2019 20:01

@Aggie53 that's amazing! It was already super strong, don't worry, it is real!!! ❤️
We also live far from families, but with your boyfriend being in the sea on and off makes it all different! You will manage of course, but might be lonely at times. When I was a mom for the first time we were living in another country and I had no friends there as well and of course no family. It was harsh sometimes, I won't lie, but managed as well and to be honest the babies just make our lives so bright at the same time! We reborn and also need to learn about life in the new condition we have and let go our old selves, sort of. It's beautiful ❤️ I would suggest you to slowly check if there are any moms groups in that country (here we have a big community in a whatsapp group for moms and moms to be). It is really supportive! Wish you luck my dear! Anyway, we are here as well eheh xxx

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ElsaTam · 25/11/2019 20:02

@NewUsername0123 I am good! Not yet in the 2ww time... only in the training part! Ovulation is end of this week 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 working on it 😍

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rhirhibumblebee · 25/11/2019 20:15

@NewUsername0123 It went well thank you! Got my green notes and bounty pack which is weird. The midwife rang EPU but they didn't want to see me! Said all sounds fine 🙈. So no early scan for me 😩. How are you? Xx

Aggie53 · 25/11/2019 21:25

@rhirhibumblebee well that’s all good news then ! Congrats you can relax now you deserve it :)
@ElsaTam everything you said there it’s all in my mind the fears of being alone and letting go of old ourselves it’s just scare me ! But your words make me believe That somehow I will manage all I have to ! Just my emotions are all over I just want to be happy for it and not so anxious and scared ! When you said it’s all beautiful it put smile on my face thank you 😊 ❤️❤️❤️ I would definitely look for support group other expecting mums perhaps !!! Wish this cycle will be your turn ..and for other ladies here ❤️ I will think of you all ! I wonder how long have you been away living in another country ! Must be tough

Tiamo04 · 25/11/2019 21:48

@ElsaTam thank you trying not to look into it too much but currently 7DPO and this happened when I went to be and decided to take another OPK... AF only due in 10 Days Confused donno what’s going on here... sorry for the pictures 🙈 2WW is honestly the worst!!!!

How are you anyway?*

4DPO today - anyone joining the 2ww??
4DPO today - anyone joining the 2ww??
ElsaTam · 25/11/2019 21:50

@Aggie53 Inlive abroad for 12yrs now, met my husband 5yrs ago. I confess I love to move around! I didn't think about finding these support groups when I became a mother, but now I see it would have been amazing if I would know. I had some baby-blues, but no post-partum depression. Everyday, no matter the weather, I was making sure I would get ready and we would go out for a walk and a coffee. Me and my daughter. We still love to do that she is 4 ❤️ I look back and although it was hard at times, I am so proud of myself/us. Motherhood is not all roses, but it is beautiful as it is, sometimes so raw, sometimes so soft, but always beautiful. Even when things don't go how we expect/want/plan. Relax and know that you will always be the best mother for your child ❤️ life is beautiful isn't it?
Such blessings are happening to you mamas! I am also waiting for my blessing, my rainbow! But it will be as it has to be. I am very grateful for having with me my amazing girl and for having had my angel with me for a little while 🙏🏻

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ElsaTam · 25/11/2019 21:57

@Tiamo04 is that an OPK at 7dpo plus spotting? Sounds amazing!!! i think spotting is a very very good sign! Never had such but from what I read many mamas immediately are sure of implantation with that!
OMG! I love that in this chat so many positive outcomes are happening! ❤️❤️❤️ keep us posted!!!

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Tiamo04 · 26/11/2019 07:11

@ElsaTam Fingers crossed but trying not to overthink or stress out about it... besides this yesterday had no other symptoms at all🙈 not sure when to take a test though but think I’ll wait till the 5th of December when AF is due but gonna be hard... would be the perfect Christmas present❤️ Xx*

ElsaTam · 26/11/2019 09:14

@Tiamo04 I don't think you need to stress about having no other symptoms.. most mamas don't have any symptoms anyway! :) good luck dear! Crossing fingers for you 🤞🏻
I swear I will do my best not to concentrate too much on this this cycle ahah
I am not even stressing with opk's this month. All I do is having fun with my hubby and take temps (second month I am doing this, it's interesting). I truly believe I will ovulate in 4days, as it was in the last 3cycles. The rest will be as it has to be! ❤️
In the end of December I will quit if not preggo this cycle, but not even that is worrying me, I already decided.
Xxx

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Aggie53 · 26/11/2019 13:48

@ElsaTam you deserve the best !!! the fact that you are so appreciative of life and what you have will bring you blessing in one form or another !! you have beautiful daughter and loving hubby ..thats already a blessing:) but darling whatever makes you happy !! i feel you im abroad for about 17yrs now and not planning to get back to my mother land ! im like you traveler ..mostly solo traveled through the world lived in different country . I feel like this time i want to settle no more moving (unless later on with my own family ) my life will change but I wanted this to happen !!!
By the way my sis tried with second baby for 8 months decided to stop trying and then .. upss no tracking ovulation nothing just happened !!! 4 months now !!so everything is possible my dear!!!! xxx

justmumming1 · 27/11/2019 06:48

hey @ElsaTam catch me up, when is your next ovulation? x i think I am around 3rd/4th xxx

Tiamo04 · 27/11/2019 14:10

@ElsaTam I’m officially 9DPO Today and decided to take a HPT Just for the fun of it and to see what all I’ve been feeling means... there’s the faintest of lines😭 don’t wanna get excited or say anything to OH so I’ll test again at 11DPO to see if it gets darker... fingers crossed xx*

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Tiamo04 · 27/11/2019 15:18

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