1dpo currently 2ww anyone else?

[Kayleigh0713]

I'm currently 1dpo, these next two weeks are going to be agonising. This is our second month of TTC. I ovulated earlier this month then last month and managed to DTD twice around ovulation date.

Need someone to be symptom spotting mental with me and to keep my occupied the next couple of weeks haha.

Obv no symptoms yet as to early!!

Woke up this morning after cramping last night and have brown discharge and drops on blood in toilet 🤔 it's only been 18 days since my D&C and although we have been DTD and I'm pretty sure I ovulated I'm thinking it's more likely to be an early af rather than implantation bleed? Guess I'll just have to wait and see if bleeding gets heavier, and if it is af then I should be happy that my body is getting back to normal sooner rather than later. Don't want to get my hopes up I could be pregnant again 😣

Hey @Mystie I had a MC around 2 weeks ago and I was only around 5 weeks but still really crap to go through. I'm hoping I've caught this month I'm now 2dpo, wish I could fast forward by a week, I think 10Dpo is the earliest I'll let myself test xx have you had any more bleeding? Xx

@AliSxo bleeding has got heavier along with heavy cramps definitely af 😔 feel so deflated. After reading so many posts of women falling pregnant immediately after a MMC I really thought it might happen for us. Seeing blood and having the pain again brings it all back again, feel so tearful 😢

I feel your pain mate it's literally crushing I'm sure it brings it all back and you feel crap, the only advice I can give it just to be kind to yourself and do everything to cheer yourself up. Also it's a fresh cycle now and they do advise anyone to at least have a period before trying again after a miscarriage, I really hope next month is the one for you 💗 xxxxxxxx

@AliSxo thanks for your message I know you're right of course, I'm sure it will get easier tomorrow. My own fault for being so optimistic! Next month I'll be more realistic and try and switch off a bit. Thanks for the words of encouragement, they have definitely helped this evening

Hey @Mystie don't blame yourself for being optimistic, I'm the same now I'm 2/3dpo and already planning when I'll test with a FRER, I know I'll be so gutted if AF arrives. Doesn't help when other people announce their pregnant and you have to be happy for them but at the same time it's the last thing you need to hear. You're onto a new cycle and no reason why you won't catch, sending you lots of love xx a positive is your body is getting back to normal, a lot of people struggle to have AF/ovulate after a MC and it drags on which makes it worse xxx

@AliSxo thanks hun, fingers crossed for your BFP in a week or so, let me know how you get on! X

@mystie so sorry to hear that! Iv been there so i know nothing anyone says makes you feel any better!
But as someone said.....this is a fresh cycle now so fresh start! Good luck xx

@Rjandy2014 thanks hun. Just ate half an apple pie to cheer myself up 🥧

Evening ladies, hope you don't mind me jumping on!
So sorry to read so many losses. I've had two now, the last one was March after an accident and Inhave been waiting for Hubby to ready to try for #2 since. He announced he was ready Friday... i think in O Thursday 🤦‍♀️ so I'm sure I'm out this month but I'm hoping not!
This is my ovia app. I says a 7.5/10 for Friday 🤞

Hi Kayleigh, yes I read that a high cervix is a really good sign that there's a pregnancy.

I've not got much in terms of symptoms though although my boobs are starting to hurt and I'm very gassy (but nothing changes ) feeling optimistic about this month but testing on Friday (12dpo) because I'm spending so much money on frers

@Mystie sorry to hear AF has arrived. I also had MMC and my ERPC was on 1st October... I am currently in the TWW but just have this awful feeling AF is coming early next week.

I keep thinking I would be one of the lucky ones that gets pregnant straight away after a MMC, I think it is just desperation to be pregnant again tbh... I am dreading AF - I haven't had a proper one in a few years due to the implant..

xx

@ceebee21 sorry to hear about your loss. Not going to lie getting my first af sucks! Almost feels harder than when I had the D&C for some reason just really built myself hopes up since that day to mask the grief and now it hasn't feel like I'm back in that place and am going to have to deal with it again. I'm sure that in the long run (god willing) it will help to have had a cycle to let myself physically and emotionally recover from the loss I just wish someone could tell me it definitely would happen then I would be able to relax!

Decided to buy an Ava fertility tracker bracelet for this cycle onwards I know they're expensive but seems like a small price to pay if it works. I think the daily peeing on a stick just makes me so obsessive and I really don't want it to take over me

Hi can I join in, I had positive on ovulation stick last Thursday... we had sex Thursday, Saturday and Sunday.. I hope that was enough.
Though I did not get ovulation pain this month? Weird... just a sensation in left ovary ( one I don’t usually ovulate from) I hope I ovulated 🤔

Checking Cm at the moment.... wet-sticky consistency. Cervix harder but a little squishy.

@Mystie I've never heard of an Ava Bracelet but i think it would be fab for women who take a while to conceive

I hope it helps you

Think I'm about 4dpo today and so far, nothing. Obviously 😂

So sorry to hear that AF caught up with you @Mystie at least it'll be a fresh month and you can start over again. Good luck lovely x

@EThreepwood I'm now 5dpo and slight cramping today and boobs feel slightly fuller but I think they normally do this month. I think I am probably out this month anyway I don't have a feeling like this is the month for me.

I really hope we see some positive results on this thread this month.

How's everyone feeling? And when are people testing are you all waiting for symptoms and missed period before testing and will you test early?

Good luck all!! X

Also I literally cannot feel my cervix now its so high! I've never been able to not feel it. Last month it started to get low after a week before AF was due. My AF is due in another 9 days so I'll see how it goes over the next few days. I've got tingling sensation in my nipples aswell but I'm pretty sure before AF is due my boobs do swell slightly so this could be nothing but fingers crossed!!

5dpo is still early! You likely wouldn't have even implanted by then. So don't panic

With my pregnancy with my daughter i got flushed checks around 4/5dpo and they stayed until about 8/9 weeks but I didn't get that with either MC so wondering if I'll get the same when i get pregnant this time?

Think I'm 4dpo and probably test waaay too early should wait until 4th is but I'll likely test from next weekend 😬

What cheapies does everyone use?

I've got to easy@home in the draw at the moment

@farmmumtomillie I've heard those easy@home ones are supposed to be good much better then those one steps they always seem to have evap lines I've found. I'm not going to test until I have proper symptoms or late for my period this month well I'll try not to haha. Otherwise I'll just spend a fortune. Where did you order your test from might take a look and order some just incase x

Oh awesome, i shall still too them, then!

I've always found 'one step' are completely different!
These were amazon ☺️

I use one steps but buy the wide strip ones as the regular ones are so small. I also love wondfo’s, have ordered some more of those.

I’m 6dpo in the morning. Feeling very weepy been crying a lot today and yesterday too. Really sucks actually. It’s either hormonal or chemical reaction as nothing has changed in my life lately.

Had a little bit of a skin breakout too. I guess it’s good getting symptoms as last month hadn’t many at first and was bfn.

@Wewin 🤞 they all sound promising! How you feeling this morning? Do you plan to test early and if so, when?
I'm also 6dpo this morning and have woken to a breakout 🤞 my cheeks are really flushed since yesterday evening as well and that happened with my LG from about 4/5dpo and stayed until 8/9 weeks. Not noticed much else other than i seem to have 0 patience and snapped at my daughter and husband a couple of times and then felt real bad

2 days til I test and I am so excited I really feel this is it... Reading myself for a call ain't I?

@EThreepwood good luck 🤞 what makes you think this month is it?

Hey @farmmumtomillie @Wewin I'm also 6dpo today, think I'll test Sunday at 10dpo, how about you? I was exhausted yesterday and really not craving anything sweet which is unlike me xxx