November Bus - testing first week of November 2019

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Hi all.

I'm out this month so I thought I would start the next bus. I hope it's our month.

TTC #2
Age 33
Cycle 6
Due / BFP 5 November

Fingers crossed for all.

@Tamalama thank you 😘 I think because last time I had loads of symptoms and got a strong positive at 10dpo I already feel a bit defeated. AF is due on Tuesday/Wednesday so I'll test again then if it hasn't already arrived x

I’m not going to test til after I miss my period... I can feel it coming so don’t want to waste a test!

@Maisy24 I usually got the static on the fourth day. I was just testing once a day. Although last month I tested twice a day as the morning on the fourth day I was still flashing. Got a positive cheapy in the afternoon as ran out of CB but then by the night when my new ones arrived the surge had passed and was still just flashing. I'd test twice a day if I was you. I think my fourth flashing was too early it was about 7 in the morning. When I usually get my static a bit later. I've been feeling so obsessed with TTC this weekend and googling everything. Decided I need to stop and just relax. Hopefully when I'm back in work I'll be distracted xx

@waitingformyturn what day does AF usually arrive for you? It's so frustrating isn't it. You just don't know what to think. I hope you get an answer soon. Maybe leave it a couple of days and if no AF test again. Maybe your predicted ovulation was slightly wrong x

I absolutely hate this, as if it's not bad enough that af is on its way I'm in absolute agony. Laying in bed with a hot water bottle whilst down below is having contractions and spasms. The pain is making me bite down on my duvet and claw at the mattress with my fingernails. I've had this for over an hour now. Just went to the loo, no bleeding yet but doing a wee was agony, like the pain I had doing my first few wees after I had my c section.

@mrssunshinexxx yeah I think I'll be moving on to cycle 9- I'm going to wait until the new year (if I'm not pregnant by then) and then I'll go to the doctor. I'll be 39 next month and part of me feels like just giving up though 😕

@Sophieb15 wow, how quickly it comes around that you're due to ov again! Keeping everything crossed for you 😊

@Nic555 I'm not sure as I've only just started to get the hang of using opks but last month it arrived exactly 14dpo. I just use the IC from eBay so maybe that was the surge and I Ov'd a few days later perhaps?

@Tamalama that sounds awful for you! Hope the painfulsymptoms subside soon!

Yesterday I had a small amount of brown discharge which I don’t normally have and there’s nothing there today...
today is 13dpo and AF due tomorrow so I’m going to test tomorrow if I don’t see anything else 🤷🏻‍♀️
Crazy days!
So easy to get hopes up and then shattered!! I need to stop googling too!

@Tamalama don't give up 💕

@TeeBagg Massive congrats. So lovely to see!♥️

Hi everyone

Hope it's ok to join

I am on CD27 of 30 day cycle

Ovulated on CD14- I had the whitest of white BFNs 9DPO & 10DPO so accepted it was a no this month

I had the tiniest bit of possible implantation bleeding 11DPO

Too scared to test again now, think I may just wait for AF on Thursday

TTC is so draining, thought I was def out for the month but then the IB has given me hope again

xx

@GoAwayAF

I am a serial googler too! IB is anywhere from 6-12DPO so that could be a good sign 🤞🏼

@Tamalama that sounds horrible for you I hope it subsides soon. Are you able to take anything for it to take the edge off it a bit? Sending hugs x

@GoAwayAF me too I google non stop! Then when I have no symptoms to google, I search for stories of BFPs with no symptoms!

Hey all,
Sorry for radio silence for a couple weeks (?)..
Had a really shitty time of it tbh...
After only DTD up to 6 days before ovulation I knew I was out this month, I thought I would project my positive energy onto my next cycle..
I found out Thursday my ovaries are polycystic.. so that’s probably why nothing has happened in nearly 11 months.. I’ve been rather.. broken the last few days...
To top that off from 7dpo (now 12dpo) I have been having very light spotting and of course I’ve been POAS like an idiot for nothing.. just my body being a twat.
Best of luck ladies and congrats to all who have got their BFP xx

Hi @ItsAlwaysSunnyInPhiladelphia I’m sorry you’ve been having a rough time of it. Have you had your hormones checked?
Polycystic ovaries on their own aren’t necessarily an issue, I just wanted to reassure you of that.
X

@ItsAlwaysSunnyInPhiladelphia sorry to hear you're having a bad time ☹️

Af still hasn't arrived for me. Keeps threatening to but not. No spotting yet but cramps on and off since 12dpo now 15dpo. I wish she would get on with it if she's coming!

Spoke to soon started spotting 👹

I'm 11dpo and bfn, feel like it should be positive by now. Maybe at 40yrs old I'm just too old for it

@ItsAlwaysSunnyInPhiladelphia sorry to hear you are feeling down , just wanted to let you know you aren't alone. I'm exactly the same I feel so fed up with it all. I've been off my pill since July 18 and just can't understand why it isn't happening. We were at a gender reveal yesterday which we had to put a brave face on for. Why is it so easy for everybody else. I'm trying to think positive as I'm on CD 13 now so I need to stay positive to BD. It's like catch 33 as I feel down so I'm not in the mood to BD but I know we need to do it to be in with a chance.

Hi all!

9dpo, had some pink spotting this morning and cramps and cold and snuffles yesterday - am suddenly wondering !!

Was planning to test this Wednesday, which was when I expected AF to arrive, but no need as she arrived this morning at 12 dpo only my first proper cycle, so trying not to get too downhearted, but it’s hard! Helps to see that there are plenty in the same boat..wishing all lots of luck, our time will come!

@Jh2019 sorry to hear AF arrived.

She also arrived at 12DPO for me on Saturday, it is so disheartening, but fingers crossed it happens for us next month!

I’m on day 32 of a normally 29 day cycle but I think I ovulated late so I’m holding out as long as I can stand 😂
Felt pregnant early dpo but that’s gone now and I think I’m out. Just waiting ...

Sorry to hear @ceebee21 and @Jh2019. Keeping fingers crossed for dec, no doubt see you on the next thread.

@CouscousEvaporator have you tested yet?!?!

For anyone already out, I have set up a new thread named December Bus - Testing First Week of December... or something like that

@ceebee21 I did a one step a few days ago and there was nothing on it so I don’t want to waste any more lol
Technically I am only 14dpo my luteal phase is just usually short.

@CouscousEvaporator I don't know how you haven't done another test haha. It is so annoying after you get a BFN though and realise how much money you have wasted.

@ceebee21 to be honest I don’t know either. It’s my OH, he just keeps saying “give it another week” so I’m trying to take that attitude 😆