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mrssunshinexxx · 22/08/2019 08:06

For all those lovely ladies due at the back end of Sep

Ttc 1
Cycle 6

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Firstimer703 · 18/09/2019 16:03

@Sophieb15 this is so true! I'm wrecked just with one. Not sure I can actually manage a second!!🙈

Sophieb15 · 18/09/2019 16:32

I only have one too and have decided that I am really lucky to have one so if it doesn't happen there's nothing I can do we are going to get a puppy next month for my little girls birthday 😁 that will keep me occupied 🙈🙈🙈

sao81 · 18/09/2019 19:36

@mrssunshinexxx glad your feeling better today
@sophieb15 that is me already and my little girl.isnt even 2 yet 😂

Sunflower2019 · 18/09/2019 20:04

My dd is now 11 and at high school, I’m 32 so still reasonably young but I’m scared at the thought of sleepless nights again already 😂 xx

Firstimer703 · 18/09/2019 20:21

@Sophieb15 my little boy loves our dog so much, you are making a fantastic decision!

ForGoodnessCake · 18/09/2019 22:23

I've got 12, 10, and 7 year olds, a
10 year old pupper and a 2 year old pupette, this house is absolutely bananas and I'm off my head 🙈

Firstimer703 · 19/09/2019 07:31

@ForGoodnessCake OMG you are off your head 😂😂😂 Respect to you! I know I could not cope with that level of madness 🙌🏻

mrssunshinexxx · 19/09/2019 07:54

I'm really struggling :(
With a husband who works away I just don't see the light at the end of the tunnel how we can ever have enough sex every month to cover fertile period because he's not here
Everyone says it only takes one but then people say you have 25% chance every month and people go at it like rabbits I just feeling so did heartened sorry for being a mope just don't have anywhere else to talk to about it xx

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MrsLEB · 19/09/2019 08:44

@mrssunshinexxx I feel for you. It must be hard. It's hard getting it all in anyway! Hopefully, as with us all, one time it will just fall perfectly for you and I'm sure it will. I feel so jealous of the people around me that seemingly get pregnant so easily. It might not be the case as I don't know their journey but that's how it feels :(. Even from family who know what we're going through I haven't really had many 'comforting' stories of "oh don't worry it took us [x] months too" I don't get it!!

mrssunshinexxx · 19/09/2019 09:03

@MrsLEB thanks for your reply it's comforting to talk to people on here yeah and even my mum doesn't know as I don't want the pressure and usually I tell her everything but both her and MIL keep asking when we are having a baby ( they mean it in a nice way) because they wouldn't expect us to be struggling because I don't think enough people talk about it xx

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Sunflower2019 · 19/09/2019 09:12

Hey girls, so this morning after a restful night I decided to test at 12dpo on a clear blue... literally nothing! After what I thought was an implantation bleed I had my hopes up! Af due Saturday so guess I’ll be waiting around for it... laid in bed thinking what’s wrong with me, is it my age? My lifestyle? I know I’m being silly!
Hope everyone else is okay today!

@mrssunshinexxx I can see why you feel this way, have you spoken to him? You’ve got a nice holiday coming up, if it’s in fertile window Wink xxx

MrsLEB · 19/09/2019 10:35

@mrssunshinexxx we kept it quiet initially too. Unfortunately I had a mc at 7 weeks in July and had to stay in hospital so the cat was out the bag. Everyone has backed off asking now though funnily enough...everyone who I have spoken to though has said when they 'just relaxed' it happened. I'm finding that hard though 😂

@Sunflower2019 don't lose hope yet as you haven't reached the full 14 days! With my first pregnancy literally on the Saturday I tested and there was nothing then on the Monday bam a clear line. I've got my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼

Sophieb15 · 19/09/2019 11:21

@Firstimer703 I've always had dogs but when we were buying our house we had to move in with my parents for a year and a half to save and they would't let me bring my 2 dogs Sad My lab went to our friends and i still get to see her but I had a little mini jack russell and she was my baby and I haven't seen her since she went to a friend of a friend. We are in the new house now just over a year and my and my LO had to beg my OH to get one he finally caved yesterday. I think its mostly to try take my mind off TTC because it hit me very hard last month and I'm sure it will do the same sat/sunday.

Sunflower2019 · 19/09/2019 11:25

@MrsLEB thank you! It’s silly as this month I just felt off and my bodies felt like it was doing something, all night I had back ache and stomach cramps and my stomach feels tender today.. was thinking a faint line would show, but I think I’m just kidding myself at the same time! Did you have any symptoms when you got the negative test? I have two frers but I’m thinking not worth testing now? Xxx

Sophieb15 · 19/09/2019 11:27

@ForGoodnessCake WOW a mad house what kind of dogs do you have?

@mrssunshinexxx Try not feel disheartened all you can do is try your best. It will happen for you it just takes some ppl a little longer. I got pregnant with my DD after 3 years off the pill and the month we got pregnant we only DTD twice and it was really early CD 5 and 7.
Look at me last month and this month we couldn't have done anymore and still I'm not pregnant. So it really doesn't matter how much you DTD when it's your month you will get your BFP.

Sophieb15 · 19/09/2019 11:35

@Sunflower2019 Wait until Sunday and if AF doesn't arrive try a FRER then at least then you will be after missing your period.

I'm 11 DPO today but know I'm already out as boobs and cramps started a few days ago. The doctor is supposed to ring me with my results of my scan today so nervous about the phone call.

Hoping to get the puppy in about 3/4 weeks if we can. We want a non shed small dog as it will be a house dog most of the time the only time it will be outside is for maybe 2/3 hours during the day when my OH goes to work before I come home. We were looking at a Cockapoo anyone have any other suggestions can't get over how expensive they are.

MrsLEB · 19/09/2019 11:42

@Sunflower2019 all I had was I kept getting period cramps and thinking oh af is coming. I tested purely because we were having people round that night and wondered if to have a drink. Then when it was negative I just thought ok them cramps are definitely af on the way & then Monday bfp!

ForGoodnessCake · 19/09/2019 11:50

A shaffy and a jackadoodle, yeah it's pretty mad in our house, we just moved 5 months ago, to a detached house in the countryside - no neighbours, so the kids and dogs have free reign and love it, I'm so moody today lim AF is due, but I know she's not yet 🤞
I've got a big drunken night out on Saturday, so I'll test in the morning of that and take it from there xxx

Sunflower2019 · 19/09/2019 11:50

My dp just gone to work and I’ve just checked it and now there’s a blue line? Prob an evap? Or? Even more confused Confused xx

ForGoodnessCake · 19/09/2019 11:51

Oh post a picture x

Sunflower2019 · 19/09/2019 11:53

Here we go... strangely I done one of these last month and didn’t see an evap on it at all even after hours!

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Sunflower2019 · 19/09/2019 11:53

Not sure if you can even see it? Oh god now I’m gonna be more in limbo :/ xx

Sunflower2019 · 19/09/2019 11:55

This might be better? Xx

Sophieb15 · 19/09/2019 12:17

@ForGoodnessCake Is it sat you are due too?

@sunflower2019 I can see a faint line. maybe try a FRER with FMU in the morning?

ForGoodnessCake · 19/09/2019 12:32

Not due til next week I'm somewhere between 7-10dpo.

You need to get a Frer there is a line on that!!!
When are you due af 😍

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