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The Hut of Gl/Doom Part V- for the unapologetically despondent

986 replies

duchesse · 01/08/2007 08:56

The new hut. Ta-da!

This one is a snug little basement World War 2 type nightclub, with dim lighting, snug velvet sofas, red walls and certainly no politically correct smoking bans. Occasionally certain selected men may be admitted at our convenience.

Sit down, make yourselves at home, and never, ever apologise for feeling like shit. That's about it.

OP posts:
santasmissus · 07/12/2007 22:42

hello can i join you over here? i've looked in on the thread from time to time but have been a bit shy

downbutnotout · 07/12/2007 22:56

Can I join too? Fed up with my wonky womb, elderly eggs and stupid tits (actually latter haven't done anything wrong as far as I know, but they're probably in on it).

WHERE IS MY BLOODY BABY???

santasmissus · 07/12/2007 22:56

af turned up yesterday. very fed up. oddly don't feel stressed about it, just fed up, think either it's not going to happen or it has been happened but it's not stuck. starting to think a singleton is not so bad even though i had always wanted a big brood. i'm not so bothered or can't be bothered ttc and that may be af talking and it'll all change mid-month and 2ww, who knows?

downbutnotout · 07/12/2007 23:03

Sorry - have calmed down a bit now. Sorry for shouting at you too, santasmissus. Sudden rush of blood to the head.

downbutnotout · 07/12/2007 23:14

Btw santasmissus I have one (dd) already too. It should help, but it doesn't always does it? I always imagined I'd have three - didn't think I'd be struggling to get two.

ladylush · 07/12/2007 23:34

dbno - totally identified with your shouting! When all else fails, have a tantrum. Doesn't get you what you want, but lets off steam

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 13:38

lol and this is the right place. the first rule of the hut is: noone talks about the hut!

talk some sense into me ladies... its 3w since my latest mc, and im symptom spotting. will it never fucking end?!!

ladylush · 08/12/2007 20:00

I doubt I'll be any better Lissie tbh - even though it's very unlikely I'll conceive given my tsh levels.

ladylush · 08/12/2007 20:01

Meant unlikely this month - not wanting to jinx myself!

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 20:33

ok, back down to earth with a crash. i hate myself.

dh's friend has announced that his gf is 8w pg with their first. dh told me onthe phone and i cried, he kept saying "we have one" but thats not the fucking point.

i want another. i want one of my lost babies back. everyone else is moving on,and i cant

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 20:52

oh lissie i know there aren't any words that can make it better, and no, having one doesn't change the need/desire for another. don't know about you, but the fact i have one makes the desire for another greater a) because i know the joy she is and b) perhaps more importantly, i want to give her a sibling as i know how much she would love it.

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 20:59

i know. today we saw a baby in the market and dh kept stroking her face he loves babies so muchand is really sweet with them. he even said, when we were writing his santa letter, that he wanted a baby

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 21:00

should also say, don't hate yourself. it's really hard hearing about other people, it's not that you're not pleased for them you just wish it was your turn. even if you're not pleased, it's just coz of stuff and not really because of you (that's what i tell myself anyway

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 21:01

xposted.
am guessing you meqnt ds and not dh

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 21:02

lol thats it. im not NOT pleased for them. im just sad for us.

we've lost 7 babies in 2y and my heart is breaking.

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 21:03

pmsl yes ds

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 21:06

my 2 best friends babies are a few weeks and a few days respectively, and although i am genuinely delighted for them, esp. one as she went through i don't know what to get hers, it's really hard to speak to them. i haven't seen them yet as they live in diff parts of the country. i can't tell them how i feel either and normally i would, coz what kind of a bitch would that make me?? actually i think they know but they also know i am over the moon for them.

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 21:08

wow 7. that must be really tough i read earlier you are being investigated though right?

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 21:09

i know. its just so hard to stay upbeat, thats why i reopened the hut. i couldnt be around people with bfp's iykwim

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 21:10

yes, we are being referred to Liverpool. they have a fab recurrent mc unit, so fingers crossed

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 21:14

yes have been trying to stay positive, symptom spotting for a laugh etc. etc but how long can you do that for without feeling like crap once in a while?

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 21:18

they are looking into recurrent mc for me too, i've only had two confirmed but had dd v. early as a result of pre-eclampsia and they are looking into a link between the two. they said that if dd hadn't made it due to her being so early they would have tested me for this at the time before second confirmed mc, thank God she did though

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 21:28

oh thats awful, how early was she?

santasmissus · 08/12/2007 21:36

29+5
she's fab though and she did really well in nicu/scbu and 2.8 yrs later you'd never know

merrylissiemas · 08/12/2007 21:38

wow, youre not from shropshire are you?

a woman on my antenal wards dd was born at 29w due to PE 2.8y ago

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