JULY BUS 2

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@Ginfizz90
@mumofbun
@mimi91
@Tamalama
@GingerRogers84
@mockingjay27
@Hannah1925
@flossy12
@tiredmoma
@lauralozzle

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I'm feeling quite negative already this month... due to ovulate in the next week or so but the thought of DTD every day (ish) is making me feel exhausted before it's even begun. OH is on night shifts which means him waking me when he gets in... it's very wearing. I'm only on cycle 4 but I'm just tired of it. X

@mrssunshinexxx What cycle are you on?

@DramaLama2019 You are similar to me I'm on Cycle 6 TTC no 2 and I'm due to ovulate at the weekend. AF due 25th July ATM as I have only had a 12 day LP the last 3 cycles. But I won't be testing until at least 14 DPO if I get that far this month. I'm trying my best to be more relaxed about it this month and doing well so far as work is starting to get busy. How old is DC1?

@June1987 Sorry about your BFN. I know what you mean about OH's mine keeps telling me there's no rush and just let it happen he hates the pressure of having to BD at a certain time which frustrates me as there is like a 6 day window where it can actually happen.

@mumof1hants Would you not just try the day of your positive and 2 days after rather than putting that pressure on yourself.

I had a plan of BD sat and sun weekend gone only did the sat as OH was working overtime and was too tired last night but not too pushed as no EWCM or anything yet. He is on evenings now from tonight until Thursday. So we are just going to do Fri Sat and Sun this weekend and hope for the best. Hopefully I get my static smiley on fri morning which will be CD 16.

@mumof1hants you may feel different next week. I don't know about everyone else, but I always feel friskier around ovulation. It can be very wearing though, we DTD every day during one cycle and it just lost all enjoyment. We stick to every other day now. Good luck x

@Sophieb15 I'm on cycle 4 x

AF has finally showed her face so heres my new stats

TTC #2
Age 25
Cycle #2
CD #1

I've been getting really bad cramps the last hour as tho its AF, but only on 1 day PO, so I'm now worried something isn't right

@ttc19 the most painful pains today just to ram it in that there isn't a baby in there 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

Been awful all day not a great start to my holiday x

@sao811 could you be ovulating x

@sao811 is it a sharp pain on one side? Likely to be ovulation pain, some women get it time to time (just to add more joy to this process)

@mrssunshinexxx @Mimi91 I had 1 sided cramps on CD12 which I assumed was ovulation. These are like period cramps but it seems too early, now wondering if its something else or im reallly early as its only CD15 today

Well I'm now 14dpo only the tiniest amount of brown discharge. Really thought AF was coming yesterday had cramps all day and brown discharge but now it's all stopped. BFN... Just want my period to start so I can think about next months ovulation x

Welcome to the thread @DramaLama2019 and @MindyStClaire! Fingers crossed for you both this month.

Sending lots of baby dust to anyone getting a BFN/Af, it's not easy. Remember, you are one month closer to getting that BFP!

@Hannah1925 ahh im so sorry 😢 hope you get the result soon xx

@Sophieb15 yeah I think I'm just going to DTD when I fancy it. Will make sure it's a few times over the next week.

I've had no ewcm yet either. Think I might ovulate later this month as I'm sure it's usually started by now. Fingers crossed for ur static smiley!

Thank you @Mimi91. I'm probably just having a bad day. Sure I'll feel more positive once I know O is here.

Oh @flossy12 Hope you're ok. It is a massive kick in the teeth. Hope u can enjoy ur holiday.

@Hannah1925 Sorry to hear about bfn. Really hope ur ok & AF arrives soon so you can move on x

@Sophieb15 6! And I can't believe it. I've waited quite a while intentionally- we wanted to start trying from March this year and we have done so. I sort of expected it to just happen as number 1 was an oopsie pregnancy 🙈 I'm sure it'll happen in its own time- I'm just very impatient so we'll see how it goes.

Due AF today, no sign of it, tested yesterday evening and got a BFN, not a sign of any line! Trying to keep my spirits up and will test again in a few days if AF doesn’t show up, is it possible to get a BFN and then a couple of days later get a positive??

@Yougottabekittenme not that I want to get your hopes up but I was over a week late in my pregnancy before I got a positive test.

However here I am now due AF today and tested again and BFN so I’m bound to have AF tonight or tomorrow. How do people cope? I can’t keep doing this every month and I tried to say this month I would be relaxed about things.

@Yougottabekittenme try again in 2 days, they say a negative is never certain,but a positive will be positive. A girl in my work said hers was originally negative on her AF day then 2 days later had a line! Good luck

@June1987 thanks for that! I’ll keep holding out! The next few days will be telling so hopefully I’ll know by the weekend! I know I honestly thought it would happen so quickly! Trying not to stress as we’re are only 3 months trying but seeing pregnant women everywhere!

@sao811 oh great! Thanks for that! Will do, can’t think about anything else but testing!! 😂 Fingers crossed!

Hello, tested last night as AF one day late, and of course negative - wasted a test by flooding it too so had to do two. Lovely girl in chemist by my work said 'I hope you get the result you're looking for.'

AF here this morning in all her gruesome glory.

I know what you mean about feeling negative @mumof1hants. Maybe next month, but I feel like I always say that.

Lovely to see folk with bfps though. Everyone else, I will see you on August bus. Hopping on now for another scary adventure.

Hi ladies

Back on the TTC bus!!

TTC #2
Age:22
Stopped the pill 3 weeks ago now so no idea when my period is meant to be, we've been dtd loads so fingers crossed!! My first born took 18months but i live in hope❤️ she is now 8m/o and i feel like the time is right x

Excited to be on this journey with you all 🥰

@mumof1hants No EWCM yet for me either so that's a good sign for my static smiley for fri I normally get a big blob of it 2 days before my static. I'm nearly thinking too much BD puts too much stress on us and therefore it doesn't happen.

@DramaLama2019 Cycle 6 for me too I know I'm the most impatient person too but I've gotten upset and stressed about it last few months so def taking the easy less stressed approach this month. I've loads of housework planned for when i'm not in work My little girl is 3 1/2 and a diva...

@Islandermum I'm not sure about usual spotting/bleeding as I've had an IUD for the last 4 years so nothing at all. Think I ovulated around the 2nd/3rd.

@Yougottabekittenme I see pregnant women everywhere too! Thought I was going crazy

I caved and bought a FRER yesterday so I can test this weekend. I know I shouldn't but can't resist! I've been bloated and achy but honestly just think it's wishful thinking.