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Stick together not to test before 10 DPO?

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whitelanner · 28/05/2019 07:46

Hey,

First cycle, 3 DPO. I already have pregnancy tests and I know it is pointless to test and I can make my life miserable if I do... Hmm so I really really want to wait. Grin

Anyone else trying NOT to test before a later day? Shall we stick together and support each other? Smile

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mumof1hants · 29/05/2019 22:06

@Moongirl10 it definitely was for me! Through the whole first trimester!!! Fingers crossed then!! X

Carysmatic · 29/05/2019 22:48

Those who's had previous pregnancies, did you ever just feel pregnant? Like just have a really strange sense that your just we're pregnant really early on? Is that even a thing? Or is it more just down to symptoms that let you know you might be pregnant?

mumof1hants · 29/05/2019 23:23

@Carysmatic no I just knew 100%! I knew before AF wasn't due. I just felt completely different one day. It's hard to describe. I hate to say it but we weren't actually trying either.. so I wasn't looking out for any symptoms. I felt weird and lightheaded one day and knew! X

mumof1hants · 29/05/2019 23:24

That should say 'was even' not 'wasn't' x

YouWhoNeverArrived · 30/05/2019 07:35

@carysmatic Yes - as soon as I'd DTD I started crying and told DH "We've just conceived our child". I just knew.

Carysmatic · 30/05/2019 08:24

@YouWhoNeverArrived I just have a feeling, really weirdly I just think that I might be. I feel really calm this month and in no need to test. It may be nothing and I'm trying not to convince myself of anything because if I'm not it'll be totally crushing. But I just have a feeling...

HayleyD84 · 30/05/2019 08:54

Hey all,

I'm now 2 days late for AF and BFN this morning, I dont get it :-( I have never been late before, I am a 28/29 day cycle.
currently about 14dpo.

What would you all do about this...I am going away tomorrow for a hen weekend, if AF or a bfp doesnt show by tomorrow do I drink?

HayleyD84 · 30/05/2019 10:02

Update... AF has just arrived for me :-( so i'm out this month.

I was so sure too with being 2 days late, it is so cruel! I do think the stress has contributed to me being late :-(

I'm going to stop using OPK's for a while and give myself a break, if it happens it happens, I can't take the stress anymore it has really took its toll on me :-(

Good luck everyone xxx

Carysmatic · 30/05/2019 10:11

@HayleyD84 sorry to hear this, I had a very chilled month this month, no OPK or temping and I'm feeling pretty chilled about this month. Not worrying too much about when to test or anything. Defiantly recommend a more relaxed approach. If it happens it happens. Treat yourself to a hot bath and a glass of wine tonight xx

Solid10 · 30/05/2019 10:56

Does anyone have an inc in watery creamy cm 4DPO? Or intermittent pains in the pubic bone/groin area?? Hoping these are positive signs!!!

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whitelanner · 30/05/2019 16:15

So, 5 DPO and I had a green/yellow CM. I only had this once, before my previous period, and then I read, that it could be colored due to tiny blood. So I am wondering if this is implantation? Or I am getting close to it? Or just a coincidence...
I know I don't have any infection or anything, so I rule that out.
What do you think? Did you have this sort of CM before BFP?

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DaisyChainsForever · 01/06/2019 15:45

I'm also out this month Sad good luck to everyone else. Got my fingers crossed for you all.

YouWhoNeverArrived · 01/06/2019 15:56

I was in a lift yesterday and got very irritated by the fact that the bloke in the lift smelled of smoke. DH didn't notice it. So maybe that's a sign?! I'm 9 dpo and trying not to symptom-spot Wink

Morningchorus · 02/06/2019 11:49

Ok, I didn’t make it to 10 dpo...
Tested at 8dpo - BFN, but then promised myself I would leave it atleast 2 days between each test to dial down the crazy.
Tested today at 11dpo and got a BFP!

I’m still v apprehensive because had a chemical only last month. Will test every day for next few days and see how things go. But it’s a start! 😊😊

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whitelanner · 02/06/2019 12:06

@Morningchorus that's great. Congrats! Smile I couldn't wait either. Tested a couple of times but it didn't stress me out because I expected them to be negative. Blush What test did you use for the positive?

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Morningchorus · 02/06/2019 12:35

FRER, using FMU 😊 saving a clear blue weeks indicator for once AF has been missed.

YouWhoNeverArrived · 02/06/2019 18:21

Congratulations @morningchorus Grin

Solid10 · 02/06/2019 22:04

Congratulations @Morningchorus
SmileSmileSmileSmileSmile

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whitelanner · 05/06/2019 07:27

@Morningchorus, is your line getting stronger?
I just got my very first faint positive this morning... I am kinda scared to be happy yet as I know it is still very early. I got 4 days till my AF.

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Morningchorus · 05/06/2019 07:43

@whitelanner yup! 😊😊😊😊😊🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Super happy, much more optimistic.

Fingers crossed for you! 🤞
In the pic - top is 11dpo, bottom is 14dpo.

Stick together not to test before 10 DPO?
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whitelanner · 05/06/2019 07:54

@Morningchorus Wow! That is a nice progress there. Congrats! Smile

My line is super faint. Fainter than your faintest. On the picture it is not even really visible, but I can see it with my bare eyes. But I am only 10 dpo.. or 9. Not quite sure. Smile

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Morningchorus · 05/06/2019 08:31

So still early either way and time to get progression! 🤞🤞🤞🤞

YouWhoNeverArrived · 05/06/2019 08:54

Beautiful progression there, @morningchorus!

And congratulations, @whitelanner!

Carysmatic · 05/06/2019 10:36

I'm out, AF came 😔

megabustravelling · 05/06/2019 10:47

I'm 4dpo, having just ovulated after mc 4 weeks ago. Praying to my rainbow 🌈

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