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Positive pregnancy test? HELP

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Broodyaf · 24/12/2018 22:54

Can someone please help me out?
Is this a positive pregnancy test or an evaporation line? Test taken an hour ago (didn’t check it straight away)
Praying for our Christmas miracle! 🙏

Positive pregnancy test? HELP
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Broodyaf · 28/12/2018 19:29

Vickster, don’t be so hard on yourself. I’ve been trying a long time and if ur like us, there’s for more hard work than fun involved! People have told me to relax, don’t think about it and it’ll happen... they clearly haven’t had to try too hard.
I’m more down atm cos I’m thinking it’s a chemical pregnancy, but OH is still positive and says we’re still pregnant until it and when AF comes. And ur OH seems to be the same. They don’t feel what we feel cos it’s our bodies. That’s what I’ve been telling him anyway 😂
Like all these wee symptoms yet BFNs.
Aaaaaahhhhhhh we’ll have no hair by the time we do get out BFPs lol xx

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 10:56

Broody still no sign of AF here, I’m getting really annoyed and grumpy now. Any news your end?

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 12:14

Vickster still no AF my end either and OH landed home from shiftwork this morning with an armful of different tests... I done 3 different ones and all negative!!!!
But I have soooo many symptoms! I even have a lump in my throat (feels like a tablet is stuck) and someone else said last nite they had it too! And my gut makes serious noise after I eat ... another uncommon symptom
OH is still adamant I’m pregnant!!!
Aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 12:34

Broody how far along would you be? I know the local scan place round by me offers a reassurance scan which around 40 quid where they confirm pregnancy location for anxious mothers. This may not be an option financially but could be a last resort?

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 12:44

I’d only be 3 weeks as I’ve a v short cycle (20-21days)
I’m from NI and there are no resources like that here, just serum and blood tests from GP.
OH has been reading heaps of different threads from people who knew they were pregnant but HCG levels were too low to detect

www.babycenter.com/400_pregnant-but-no-hcg_14233005_547.bc

www.babycenter.com/400_negative-hpt-but-still-pregnant_1825563_156.bc

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 13:37

That’s my secret hope atm, that this time next month we’ll both be pregnant and laughing about this!

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 13:38

Me too! My OH isn’t one to get his hopes up like this but he’s adamant I’m pregnant and says it’d Be like me to be odd and not produce enough HCG lol
Do u have many symptoms?x

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 13:52

I keep feeling sick and dizzy, I’m super tired, my boobs are huge with massive veins and my stomach is hard and bloated.

I’m finding this exhausting I just want AF to arrive so I can get on with TTC. I highly doubt I’m pregnant so just want it to stop now. Your positives were much darker than mine though so im mote hopeful for you

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 13:56

Vickster I wouldn’t be givin up yet cos u have a lot of symptoms... we could be 2 cases of people who just don’t produce high enough levels of HCG. And I’m more confident that ur pregnant because ur so late. I’m only due AF yday/today.
We’re not outta the running until AF arrives xx

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GreenTulips · 29/12/2018 14:07

Try the cheap tests again

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 14:10

I have none of the wee cheap strip tests left but I’ve ordered them online. They’ll be here wed/thurs
Hopefully AF doesn’t arrive before they do 🙏

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ReggieKrayDoYouKnowMyName · 29/12/2018 14:32

I was in this position exactly three years ago. Eventually ended up getting faint lines on FRs around 6 days after period was due and they got stronger. I must have ovulated later 🤷🏼‍♀️ But it was a horrible time of uncertainty. That uncertainty is is now 2ft tall and running around in her prized Elsa dress. Keeping everything crossed for you.

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 14:35

Thank you so much Reggie! Did u have all the pregnancy symptoms and just know u were pregnant even thou the tests were saying u weren’t??

See Vickster, we’re not goin mental for no reason! 🙏

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 15:03

BroodyAF definitely hope for you, I’m now 8 days late so if it was going to be anything I’m 100% sure it would have showed bynnow. I just want AF to hurry up and stop taunting me, I’m so hormonal atm it’s ridiculous Blush

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 15:07

But why are u so adamant it’s gonna come. Ur so late that I’d be taking that as a positive! I know the fact that ur not getting BFPs is making you doubt it all, but since I had a good chat with my OH last nite I’m listening to my body and it’s giving me all the pregnancy symptoms. And ur having them all too. Yes it’s cruel and emotional is an understatement but until we get our AF we just have to TRY and think positive. It’s so bloody hard, part of me wants AF to come and get this over and done with, but a bigger part of me is saying I’m pregnant!

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Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 15:14

Vickster look at a new threat that’s just started today called “please help”
Just noticed it ...

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 16:06

I think because I’ve had a chemical before (a few years ago) and had positive tests then so I’m sure I’m not one of those people who doesn’t make HCG. I work in a school full of pregnant people so I’m hoping this is resolved 1 way or another before I go back on the 7th.

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 16:37

Yeah I know what U mean.
How did u know it was a chemical? Did u bleed around ur period or what?
Have u any other children? Can’t remember if I asked u.
This is my 1st (hopefully 🙏)

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 17:14

The chemical was unplanned and was not in a great situation with an ex. I had positive pregnancy tests from a week before the period and at 5 weeks had a big bleed. At the time I thought it was a miscarriage. No I haven’t got any other children I am TTC no.1 with DP who is amazing, he’s just really scared of me getting my hopes up and being disappointed because we want it so much.

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 17:20

Aaawwweeee that made me well up about you and ur partner wanting it so much and him being so good to you. My fiancé is the same. Like I said, this is our 21st cycle of trying and there’s nothing else we want only a baby. He’a Full certain I’m pregnant. Just pray it’s not a chemical, but if it is, at least it means we’re able to conceive so it wouldn’t be the worst or the worst news xx

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 17:36

I’m sure I read last time that you’re more fertile after a chemical too so there is always that!

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 17:39

Yes I read that too!
I just want this to be it thou 🙏🤞
But if not, hopefully v v soon cos we’re both sick of it and gettin down over negative month and month

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TTCVickster · 29/12/2018 17:49

I just hope it’s this month and I’ve somehow got it all wrong!

Broodyaf · 29/12/2018 18:05

You and me both. The “fun” out of trying has long gone 🙈

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Sshsecretenclosed · 29/12/2018 20:30

Been following this thread. @Broodyaf we have been trying for nearly two years, without even a hint of a bfp. My fx for both of you ladies xxx