Can I have a hand hold please?...AF 2 days ‘late’

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I’ve been ttc 2.5 years. We have confirmed MFI. In the process of applying for IVF. Have sacked off opks and temping and trying just to enjoy sex before IVF starts but with a focus around the essential week as it were. According to FF AF is 2 days ‘late’ now I could have ovulated late causing a lengthy cycle. If I ovulated around the same time as I do normally I would be around 14dpo ish. Normally I would be spotting by now with first day of AF on CD29. Its CD31 with no spotting and white CM. I keep getting a crampy type feeling like AF will come but it hasn’t yet. And my boobs hurt.

I need a hand hold not to get my hopes up or excited. I don’t want to test and get my hopes up in case it is just a case of late ovulation until I am officially late like CD36 or something. My DH is working away for a while so I’m in this on my own as I don’t want to get his hopes up either.

Please hold my hand??!

A first respond rapid results as that’s all they had. Didn’t think it would matter at this stage. Is there still hope??!!

Until AF rears her ugly head you’re still in I’d say but I’m no expert.

Hi 👋🏼 you're in the exact same boat as me negative tests & on cd 35. Usually 31 day cycles. I have no idea what's going on I had a small bleed once when wiping on cd 26 then some brown spotting for a couple of days only when wiping & now cramps for the past week but no sign of actual period at all 😒

Could you go to the docs for a blood test? Best way to find out if pregnant xx

Doctors won’t blood test yet. Yep loopylou it’s rubbish isn’t it?!

Have you tested yet? I've been using the cheap amazon one step tests and just been reading the reviews, so many people have posted saying they've not had a positive at all or didn't get one till af was a week or so late so I'm stupidly still hoping 😒 I'd rather just come on if I'm not so I know either way 😔

Yep caved and tested this morning. BFN 😫

Sorry, the flowers seem a bit pathetic don't they. So sorry for your huge disappointment. Hope it happens soon for you.

FFS brown spotting this morning. Here we go

I’m so sorry if this is AF on it’s way. Our bodies feel so cruel when ttc throwing in the odd irregular cycle. Unmumsnetty hugs xxx

What a joke. Full AF now after being a whole week late. My body had taken ‘cruel’ to a whole new level.

I could be joining you very soon don’t worry. My AF is officially a week late Monday. It’s doing my head in. Tested twice bfn😪 don’t really feel pregnant. Just typical this is happening at such a crucial time. Hugs xx

Oh sorry to hear this OP