@Cnizzle @BambiOnIce80 @Kescilly @PixieN @LeonieKate thanks girls, hope I haven’t missed anyone.
The family situation is about as sorted as it’s ever going to be - my husbands parents are splitting up, they were married 40 years, he had an affair. My husband is not handling it well. It never rains eh?
I ended up telling my Mum and Sister about the CP and they have been amazing. My Mum is a bit scatty most of the time but she knew just what to say, she had multiple miscarriages before me and between me and my sister. My sister told me interestingly, she was the only one out of her group of 7 Mum friends that didn’t suffer a loss at all that she was very lucky to be in the minority.
I really copped it health wise, I had a mild UTI after the bleeding and cramping stopped, then blinding headaches for a week and just to top it, some sort of eye infection. By last weekend I felt like I was ready for the bloody glue factory and still can’t believe how grotty I felt considering how early on it happened.
Anyway, I’m feeling much better. I’m back to tracking my ovulation on cbfm and I still haven’t ovulated, although I feel like it will happen in the next couple of days which will make it about 5 days late.
I work in HR and a lady came to see me because she’s 10 weeks along and is suffering with horrible morning sickness, she doesn’t want her boss to know why she’s off sick because she lost her last one and she’s paranoid it will happen again. I had a hard time with that this week, it’s the first time anyone has come to talk to me about something like that, and what are the chances it would happen so soon after my own early loss!
@CNizzle before I even ever wanted kids I used to get annoyed with people asking about whether I wanted them or why I didn’t have them. My heart goes out to you, it’s hard to know what to say, isn’t it? Xx