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Chooklass · 09/10/2018 06:30

Yammers thread 9!

Yammer rules:

A safe place for those of you who have been trying to conceive for 6+ months and even yams aren’t helping. Come and have a good ol’ bitch and a moan without judgement. Please read the rules before posting!

The Yam Commandments are as follows;

  • Thou shalt not arrive one day and post BFP next day
  • Thou shalt not give advice to others when TTC for one month only
  • Thou shalt not participate in one-up-manship and realise TTC is shit for everyone in different ways
  • Thou shall allow posters to be fucked off with the world and everything in it at regular points in the month
  • Thou shalt not be offended by strong language
  • Thou shalt not tell everyone to eat yams
  • Thou shall accept being called a muppet for testing at 7dpo at 9pm at night
  • Thou shalt not symptom spot during the two week wait and must be prepared for a telling off if you do so.

-Thou shalt not post pictures of positive pregnancy tests. We will be delighted to hear about it but no photos, please and thank you

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impatientmammy · 02/01/2019 22:48

I got a negative with a frer at 9 or 10 dpo. I think this is rare though. Your sounding like your feeling more positive about this cycle though @Owlpatrol 🤞
Good luck @Chooklass xx

Owlpatrol · 02/01/2019 23:05

Yeah weirdly enough u feel positive, I think it was all the boozy nights and turkey over Xmas so fx @impatientmammy I am worried that my cramps are getting worse so I'll see how it goes to the weekend trying not to stress though

Owlpatrol · 02/01/2019 23:05

I* feel positive

impatientmammy · 03/01/2019 07:52

Morning ladies, I think I'm back 😔 I started bleeding in the night last night it's basically period like. Do I need to do anything now to confirm? X

Aph413 · 03/01/2019 10:46

Sorry to hear that @impatientmammy I'm not sure if it's the right advice but once I started bleeding after my bfp I waited out the period and tested again to make sure it was negative.
FP got me this morning. Exactly 1 day late. I even ordered frer last night because I was late. CD101, I think we're going to take a break from ttc because I just can't hack it anymore. 3 month long cycles and nothing at the end of it.

impatientmammy · 03/01/2019 10:52

Oh @Aph413 I hope your ok. CD1 is the worst. I just got a bfn didn't want to be in limbo I'm pleased I know now. Just hope it doesn't take me so long next time x

Chooklass · 03/01/2019 11:03

@impatientmammy I'm so sorry Thanks. Hope you're okay x

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cupcakesandglitter · 03/01/2019 11:58

So sorry to hear that @impatientmammy x

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 18:15

Another day another baby bomb here! Arghhhhh never gets any easier eh

More cramping today I'm 8dpo Sad

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 18:16

So sorry to hear @impatientmammy SadFlowers

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 18:36

Why the hell did I just read the "how long did it take you to conceive?" Thread Sad

strawberrye · 03/01/2019 18:41

@impatientmammy really sorry for your loss, be kind to yourself Flowers

Pinkroseuk · 03/01/2019 18:43

Sorry to hear @impatientmammy
I read that one last night too @Owlpatrol but decided everyone is different so although it can take a while try to stay positive :) fingers crossed for 2019

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 18:53

I know I should be feeling more positive and you're so right @Pinkroseuk just feeling so crappy and crampy again

Pinkroseuk · 03/01/2019 19:05

I know the feeling @Owlpatrol it's very tiring to be ttc and not getting anywhere I find

impatientmammy · 03/01/2019 19:34

Awww @Owlpatrol I stayed clear of that thread I hope your ok. My other half's and little boys birthdays are in December I don't know weather to take a ttc break or if I'll end up hating myself cause it's not like I'm a fertile fucker who can choose when I get pregnant x

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 19:41

Awww @impatientmammy that must be hard and thinking of you. It's so shitty, dp still hasn't gone for his sodding sperm analysis Angry

impatientmammy · 03/01/2019 19:46

Ahhh @Owlpatrol can you leave passive aggressive notes around the house until he snaps? X

cupcakesandglitter · 03/01/2019 20:47

@Owlpatrol I'm with you there. DH hasn't gone for his either 😡 don't know how many times I can bloody mention it to him without nagging as if I'm his mum!

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 20:53

Same @cupcakesandglitter mine just thinks that it's not important but like I keep reminding him that we aren't getting anywhere currently Angry

cupcakesandglitter · 03/01/2019 21:01

@Owlpatrol it's so frustrating isn't it!! It's like oh okay... so shall I just hope for immaculate conception then? You sit on your arse, that works clearly

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 21:49

Mines got two from previous @cupcakesandglitter so he doesn't think he needs to go, I want to have my tubes checked but they won't do that until he's had his tests!

impatientmammy · 03/01/2019 22:04

@Owlpatrol he said he would at one point didn't he? Can you make an appointment on his behalf if he's just delaying? X

Owlpatrol · 03/01/2019 22:20

@impatientmammy yeah he keeps changing his mind, I'm getting somewhere tonight with him, he's agreed he needs to go but needs to book an appointment

cupcakesandglitter · 03/01/2019 22:39

Ahh okay @Owlpatrol .. my DH has no excuse, just lazy 😂 maybe @ImpatientMammy has the right idea, just book one for him? X

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