TTC first baby... mega thread!

[Crossfitgirl]

For those of us TTC first baby, a continued thread for August 2018 :-) a place to share our new mummy journeys!

delilah I would probably start using OPKS from CD7.

@patapouf you did it in the 3 days leading up to ovulation. You even did it on the day of ovulation?? How can you say you're out?? You are completely and totally in!! We did it ONCE, right at the beginning of the fertile week, 4 days before ov. If anybody is out it's anyone that has missed the fertile week completely.
It's actually made me feel a bit shit seeing people dtd far more than me and just at the right time, If people are worried about not doing it enough, when they have done it more than me, then fuck me I'm definitely out 😭😭😭
Sorry I don't mean to be insensitive, if anything I'd like to reassure those doing it loads in the fertile week that you're still totally in with a chance.
I even want to give myself a slap on the wrist and say pull yourself together as I know I still am, but we put SO much pressure on ourselves it's untrue . We need to chill out and appreciate our efforts xxx

I only DTD twice in my fertile window and got pregnant still! Once at 4 days before OV and once the day after OV day so I don't even know if that time counts!

Don't worry @Crossfitgirl, you still have a chance

@Crossfitgirl we did it on the 5th day before so your in with more of a chance than me! We don't do it enough, I'm shocked at all these people that manage every other day! Something always ends up in the way ;( when is AF due?

@Patapouf I'd say you're defo I'm with a good shot hun! For sure. And thank you think that's a good idea xx

@Delilah7 I'd start day 7 to. I worked out I think I ovulate a lot earlier than I though. Mine seemed to be day 8 or 9. My body told me day 8 was the start and then I tested day 8 and 9 and they were slightly positive and then negative so I must ovulate early. I'm confused with it all

@Patapouf I would say that's plenty and you're in with a real chance!
@Crossfitgirl I've been reading on other threads how people did it 4 days before ovulation and they got a BFP! Although I was worried this morning I've had a talk to myself and am trying to be positive.
@Delilah7 I used OPK's from cd8. And positive came on cd14.

How are you feeling @MrsReader?

Just want to send some love to everyone who sounds as though you’re feeling down a bit down and fed up of the 2ww.

It’s difficult to fully understand as I know I’m a newbie but -as I’ve heard many of you say before- you’re not out until AF comes. Sending positive thoughts to you all. The 2ww is torturous and this is from someone on cycle 1!! Lots of admiration to all of you going strong and coping so well- you rock! FX for you all xx

Thanks @gjchapman and mrsreader, just feel so crap this week. After the total failure that was getting DH on board with planned sex, a stressful week, and just been to a child's bday party where we were literally the ONLY childless couple.
Its just really hit home how much I want this.
Seeing how much better others seem to be at this has got to me this afternoon!
Now I feel like a poor mumsnetter for not just being supportive etc.
I've had a few drinks cos I'm so convinced I'm not even in with a chance.
AF due next Saturday. Anyone else due next weekend?
Xxx

@gjchapman I'm going to be attaching pics of mine each day so bare with me when I start 😂😂😂

@MrsC87 thanks Hun xx

@TBay we appreciate that ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks @tbay and @mrsc87.
It's been a tough week so far!
We like to torture ourselves on here don't we! But you're right, until AF shows we won't know for sure.
@delilah7 it depends how long your cycle is, but if unsure then yeah start on day 7.
Mines 26 days and clearblue tell me to start on day 7, ICs tell me day 8.
What OPKs have you got? The instructions are different for each one x

@patapouf if it helps, flo tells me the highest chance of getting pregnant is on ovulation day. So you've nailed it xxx

SMEP started! Lots of EWCM and only day 9. Wonder if my coenzyme q10 and evening primrose oil are helping.

@Crossfitgirl mines 28 day's. I got the cheap ones of amazon Hun x x

@Crossfitgirl highly sensitive 20mIU says they're the ones they use at NHS x

@MrsC87 I'm good thanks, apart from worrying about every little twinge!

@Delilah7 a new cycle, another chance 🤞 ❤️

@Crossfitgirl I should be due next weekend but not sure how long my cycle is at the minute. At least if AF does come I’ll get a better idea of my cycle length! Crossing fingers and toes for some good news for you next week! ❤️

How many weeks are you now @MrsReader?
I use the amazon ones too @Delilah7, found them easy to use and got a positive. Plus they are cheap 😊

@MrsC87 I'm 4+4, still early days! Got my 8 week appt in 3 weeks 😄

@TBay yep fingers crossed!! We need some positive news in our family.

@MrsC87 thanks Hun hopefully they work for me!

Evening lovelies, hope you are all well. Try not to get too down @Crossfitgirl - you are not out yet and it only takes once.

to everyone else who has had a tough weekend, especially you @Delilah7. How is your dad?

Sorry there is so much to catch up on and I am being so brief but just wanted to check in with you all x

@delilah7 @mrsc87 yeah those are the ones I used too! Like £5 ish for 30! I got a pack of 4 little sample bottles too, small enough to pop in my pocket for peeing in wherever! Hehe. I am not sure whether to use the CBD again. They are good for fertile days, but tbh I feel happy enough that I know when I ovulate now to just work that out, particularly as I'm temping now too.
@tbay we could be cycle buddies then! How long was your cycle before do you know? I guess fx for either AF or not for you, as it's a win win either way!

@validuser what do those supplements do? I've heard of evening primrose for PMS etc, but not the other one? Xx

@Crossfitgirl May I recommend "The Impatient Woman's Guide to Getting Pregnant."? I'm not sure how, but coenzyme q10 lengthens luteal phase and does something good to eggs.

@CrystalBlaze you ok Hun? Thanks for thinking of me. He's ok I guess. Still all abit numb but we can't do anything more or feel any different till his MRI. Just hope it's nothing bad :(

@Crossfitgirl wish I had a small little cup!!! Need to take plastic ones to work 😂😂😂

Thanks @crystalblaze, how are you getting on?

@validuser I have just purchased it on Amazon kindle 😁 thanks for the recommendation, the reviews sound like it's both factual, research based and a good funny read! Going to read it on holiday in a weeks time :-) xxx