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FlapJackered · 10/08/2018 13:29

New thread!
@Delilah7 @daisiesandpeonies @Crossfitgirl

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daisiesandpeonies · 23/08/2018 20:32

So sorry @cupcakesandglitter what cycle are you on?

cupcakesandglitter · 23/08/2018 20:35

@Delilah7 @Chivari @daisiesandpeonies thankyou x

I'm on cycle one - I don't think this is AF though. I've miscarried before and I know it's really early but this is what it feels like. 😩 I can't do this, I didn't think I'd be this bad but this is heartbreaking, and I'm only on month one.

I apologise for double messages if anyone is seeing them on other threads, it's easier to copy and paste

purplestar9 · 23/08/2018 20:38

@cupcakesandglitter I'm so sorry for AF. Fingers crossed for next cycle 🤞🏻

MrsReader · 23/08/2018 20:43

Aww sorry cupcakes 😢

Delilah7 · 23/08/2018 20:46

@cupcakesandglitter we can do this together. ❤️❤️❤️

cupcakesandglitter · 23/08/2018 20:58

Thankyou all, I appreciate the support 💕

sunshine1987 · 23/08/2018 21:00

@cupcakesandglitter sorry lovely, sending love to you x

MrsR16 · 23/08/2018 21:18

@cupcakesandglitter sorry to hear that lovely...

ValidUser · 23/08/2018 22:16

Coming up to a 31 day cycle. Never longer than 27 days.

Negative pregnancy tests. 13 dpo (12 at least according to OPKs).

Cracking up here! Just want to know.

ValidUser · 23/08/2018 22:17

@cupcakesandglitter I'm sorry to hear that. X

@Delilah7 how are things? X

Patapouf · 23/08/2018 23:17

Sorry glitter Flowers

valid I’d be going nuts if I was that late with no BFP, hope you get yours soon!

ValidUser · 23/08/2018 23:22

Me too, @Patapouf!

If AF comes, I want gin. If not, I get a baby.

Right now, I'm not getting gin OR a baby. This displeases me.

Crossfitgirl · 23/08/2018 23:32

@delilah7 aww hun. We are all going through the wait with you.

@purplestar9 its good you are fairly regular so you know where you're at. I'm currently cd11, due to ovulate around cd17 (Wed ish) so gonna try dt lots for the next week or so! My cycles have been 21, 24, then 25 or 26 days since coming off the pill in Feb. I was always 27 days like clockwork before the pill, so I'm hoping I may get back to that.

@validuser ah yes I have seen pregnacare in boots, but went for boots own. It was more the folic acid I was bothered about, as it's evidence based, but if the other vits lengthen my cycle (ok, luteal phase) a bit then bonus! I'm more of a "Well I eat enough vitamins in my diet anyway" kinda person in general life, but DH takes all sorts! Vitamin c, d, zinc, you name it! Also... wtf is going on with your cycle! I'm 95% convinced it's just not showing up strong enough yet... It's got to be a bfp soon?!

@mrsr16 have you noticed a difference with the supplements at all? What dpo are you?

@daisiesandpeonies thank you it's good to know there's others in the same situation! Walk in wardrobe sounds awesome! How long have you been there? I have already decided I'm turning one of the bedrooms into a yoga room, so can do some relaxation and stuff! We've been so busy with housey things I've not been to the gym for 2 weeks, let alone had time to relax :-( been soooo stressed!

What have you done that's worked for you? With you saying it's helped a bit? I'm really glad you have found some mindfulness helpful! I need to take my own advice and do it lol xxx

@cupcakesandglitter so sorry hun, cycle 1 is very early days, have yourself some chocolate, some alcohol and get some tlc from OH. There's nowt worse than seeing the red stuff, I'm sorry it feels like your MC before, that must be awful. Stick together @delilah7 I can't imagine how it feels xxx

Crossfitgirl · 23/08/2018 23:36

@validuser I too am displeased on your behalf! It's like torture!!

cupcakesandglitter · 23/08/2018 23:39

@Crossfitgirl thankyou 💕 my bleeding has stopped but I'm still having cramps and I'm also very gassy. Maybe AF will come in full force tomorrow 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have work tomorrow so no wine for me, tomorrow night however...

FlapJackered · 24/08/2018 07:10

@cupcakesandglitter - sorry lovely 💐 although funny it has stopped? May you're not out after all yet? 🤞🏻

@daisiesandpeonies - thanks lovely, I will look into mindfulness exercises. How are you doing, what cd are you?

Gah @ValidUser I feel your pain! Hope you're keeping sane.

@purplestar9 when is af due for you? - when do you think you will test?

I am 10dpo today. Achey boobs and nausea but that is not unusual for me before af.

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purplestar9 · 24/08/2018 07:17

@Crossfitgirl I can't remember my cycles before the pill, i was on the pill for about 11 years but I do think I was regular 28 days which is why I wasn't expecting to have longer cycles when I came off!

@FlapJackered based on when I think I ovulated, I believe AF is due on tuesday so if it's a no show I'll test Wednesday I think. How about you?

Delilah7 · 24/08/2018 07:19

@ValidUser strange. Tummy is defo weird but I'm just gonna say that I think AF will be coming at some point. You ok? X

@Crossfitgirl just shit I wanna know whether AFs coming or what. Im never irregular so it's going to do my head in. No cramps as of yet for period though!

MrsR16 · 24/08/2018 07:27

@Crossfitgirl to be honest, I haven't noticed any difference at all! I'm now about 5DPO so still a little while to wait before I'll start testing

ttcat32 · 24/08/2018 08:20

Morning ladies 😊

Haven't been on for a few days so been trying to catch up this morning....

How are you all?

@cupcakesandglitter are you doing ok this morning?

@FlapJackered Have you decided when you are going to test?

@ValidUser not sure if anyone has mentioned this but I saw a couple of people on other threads mentioning that they thought the pregnacare vitamins had lengthened their cycle

9dpo this morning, I swear this 2ww is dragging in! X

FlapJackered · 24/08/2018 08:31

@ttcat32 @purplestar9 I think I will test on sunday but may buckle and test tomorrow.

Feeling very sick which could be because of a very different diet on holiday, or could just be af symptoms just a bit worse, but of course I am reading into it! 🙄

@ttcat32 when do you think you will test?

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ValidUser · 24/08/2018 08:47

Thanks @ttcat32. If it is it's probably a good thing because my LP is on the short side.

@Delilah7 I'm good but still late and still testing negative. Day 31 of a 27 day cycle. 13-14 dpo.

My concern now is if I am pregnant could I have implanted late? Apparently this can affect the viability of a pregnancy. Le sigh!

purplestar9 · 24/08/2018 08:54

@FlapJackered did you say AF is due on Sunday?

ttcat32 · 24/08/2018 08:56

@FlapJackered would like to hold off till Monday will definitely test Sunday 😂 have zero symptoms so very unlikely but at least it will give me something to pee on 🤷‍♀️

Admiring your restraint at 10dpo! It's so hard not to read into everything! AF not due till Wednesday for me so thinking even Sunday will be early

🤞 for you! Xx

ProseccoBee · 24/08/2018 09:13

Morning everyone! Just got back from my holidays and gosh can’t believe how quickly this thread has moved! Been trying to catch up this morning with a cuppa. So many highs and lows happened! I’ve had a bit of a time myself, before I went away I was overdue Af and took four tests all negative so had convinced myself defo not pregnant then when I got there had a few glasses of fizz and as the days went on still no sign and was feeling so guilty in case it had just been to early and I was actually pregnant and had been drinking! Each torcherous day went by and it ended up being cd 58!!! When AF arrived. Don’t know how the hell that happened never ever ever had a cycle that long before! Had really started to convince myself that I may have been pregnant and then boom not! Then I convinced myself it was a chemical pregnancy and now I don’t know what to think! Sucks the whole ttc! Honestly think our bodies play tricks on us!

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