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Ttc after tmfr

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1987Laura · 02/08/2018 20:46

So i'm due my period on Saturday. I know i will be crying again this weekend when it arrives. We had to make the horrible decision to let our baby girl go when i was almost 22 weeks pregnant. She was born 31/12/2017. We started trying again in March. I don't think I am going to get pregnant again. It took a year to conceive our girl. To add salt to the wound, my broher who hasn't had anything to do with his 3 children for a few years is having another one and he doesn't even want the baby. The world is so unfair!

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KTD27 · 02/08/2018 20:48

Just wanted to send you love it’s so so hard. I had a TFMR last year at 18 weeks due to Edwards syndrome and we lost our baby girl. It was awful. Truly a dark time.
It took months for me to feel ready to TTC so don’t put too much pressure on yourself just be kind to yourself and take it easy. You’re dealing with a lot and it’s tough.
Flowers good luck this weekend. X

39Suzy · 02/08/2018 20:54

Hi @1987laura

So sorry you have had to go through that. I lost my little boy due to TFMR in April and am on that TTC journey now. It is a truly shit experience. I bet your little girl was beautiful. If you want to tell us about her, please do.

I met a lovely group of ladies on here www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3244374-TTC-after-stillbirth

And is you are on Facebook, we have a closed group of ladies who have angel babies and TTC. Just drop @toots123 a line and i am sure she will be happy to add you.

Sending lots of love and good luck for your journey. X

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1987Laura · 02/08/2018 21:06

Thank you ladies x

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toots123 · 03/08/2018 06:24

Also sending you love and like Suzy says, drop me a line if you want to be added to the fb group xxx

LilacIris · 03/08/2018 12:41

I’m sorry for your loss @1987Laura and am another one on the thread linked above and FB group.

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1987Laura · 03/08/2018 15:28

@toots123 how do you add me?

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LilacIris · 03/08/2018 15:45

@1987Laura if you send one of us a private message with the email address that you use for logging into Facebook, we can then add you to the group.

leighdinglady · 03/08/2018 16:12

Sorry you're going through this. We lost our baby via tfmr due to Edwards. It had taken 18 months ttc to get there. I got pregnant again the March. It doesn't have to take so long again. Good luck

leighdinglady · 03/08/2018 16:13

Sorry that was meant to say lost the baby in January, pregnant again in March

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1987Laura · 05/08/2018 11:38

I updating my post. Just got a positve test!

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39Suzy · 05/08/2018 12:10

Fab news congrats!

leighdinglady · 05/08/2018 13:17

Oh wow!!!!!

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1987Laura · 05/08/2018 13:43

I am so happy but i am terrified too

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ineedwine99 · 26/09/2018 16:18

How are things now OP? Found you from one of your old threads and was hoping you had good news x

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1987Laura · 26/09/2018 21:20

Hi so far so good. I will be 12 weeks on sat!x

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ineedwine99 · 27/09/2018 10:46

Great news :-) hope your feeling ok

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1987Laura · 27/09/2018 10:57

Im ok just tired and terrified incase it happens again

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ineedwine99 · 04/10/2018 15:30

Still doing ok OP?

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1987Laura · 04/10/2018 18:42

Yeah. Had my scan on tues. Measuring 13 weeks. Everything looks ok so far. My fetal medicine midwife should hopefully phone my tomorrow with my down's results

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