BFN CD13...give me hope!

[MumOfOne2018]

I sat this every month, but I convinced myself that I was pregnant this month.

I had a BFN CD8 and another BFN this morning. AF is due tomorrow.

I’ve been symptom spotting like crazy which I said I wouldn’t do.
Last week has been odd:
Frequent urination (I’m usually a twice a day kind of girl!)
Dull lower back ache
Shooting pains in my bum (tmi sorry!)
Increased cm (white)
Heavy feeling lower abdomen
A butterfly type feeling on my right
Along with headaches and being a bit moody (but this could be AF showing her ugly head)

Have any of you ladies had a BFN to then get a positive after AF is actually late?
Please give me some hope. I feel pregnant-stupid, I know. I’m setting myself up for disappointment but I can’t shift this feeling.
We’ve already decided that we’re taking a break from trying if we don’t get our positive this month, so maybe that’s why I can’t accept this negative!

Hi, can anyone help! I’ve been charting temps this last cycle which has gone completely haywire. Now on cd 47! Usually pretty regular 32/33 day cycles. My temps took a shift on cd37 and are still up but wondering what is going on. Feeling tired and bit icky as well as boobs have definitely gotten heavier. I also had such bad cramping pain on cd44 that I was in bed on painkillers however that suddenly stopped around 6pm. No idea what is going on this month if anyone has had something similar can help, thanks

@MumOfOne2018 Yes there still is hope for a bfp when AF is late. Many mum's have got this 1 or 2 weeks after AF.

However the above symptoms can equally be pms.

I really thought June was my month a friend even told me she had an 'instinct' that I was pg even after 4 BFN before AF. Sure enough AF appeared 2 days early for me. It was hard to take.

Unfortunately you will have to wait until you get that bfp or af shows.

I know it's so unfair.

🤞 for you x

@Crazycathair have you taken a hpt yet??
Im usually 30-32 day cycle but had 49 day cycle in March. All BFNs when tested. I blame it on pcos and also stress.

@Angelmiracle Thankyou. It is so hard to take. I didn’t struggle with my first (didn’t find out I was pregnant until almost 11 weeks. I was young and stupid!) so just expected this time to be the same.

I think I know I’m out. But there’s always hope until she shows. I’m a sucker for punishment x

@MumOfOne2018 DS took 18months I was 9 weeks before realising. Really irregular cycles. Young and naive also. Ttc2 is taking way longer!! When AF came at weekend I still hung onto hope it was IB. But on CD7 now...onwards and upwards 🤞

I feel your pain! Im 12dpo today and af due tomorrow. Was SURE this month was the one; felt nauseous since 4dpo, spots, increased cm, mood swings and even what I thought was implantation bleeding on wednesday night! Cramps have been bad since 4dpo too but stopped completely on thursday morning and none since. Today I've had 3bfns (2ics and a digital!) It couldn't have been ib or I would have a bfp by now :( oh well, I guess it's prob just not my month but can't help clinging onto a tiny bit of hope until af shows up! Fingers x for you; let us know what happens x

Sore boobs too! I never get sore boobs!

www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/When-can-I-expect-a-positive-HPT-if-I-am-pregnant.html

@Angelmiracle...my new June motto- Onward and upward. Bring on CD1!! X

@prembabymum I love those stats! I obviously tested 0.5 days too early [hopeful emoji]

My boobs are so painful! And I’m
Peeing for England. My body is teasing me I think.

FX for your BFP. Maybe this will be our month after all? X

With DD I didn't get a BFP until AF was 10 days late. Even with FRER which everyone swears buy. It Cost me a bloody fortune in tests!

Normally I say you don't get symptoms pre missed period,but what you have described are my exact early pregnancy symptoms.

Fingers crossed for you.

Thankyou @wellthisunexpected and @thismeansnothing🤞🤞🤞

We shall see tomorrow! I have an amazon basket stocked with tests for next day delivery.

@MumOfOne2018 🤞 for you please let us know!!

Hope it's ok to ask but this is a bfn right? Af due today but literally not had any cramps since wednesday night (when I also had the tiniest little bit of spotting too). Really vivid dreams last night and my boobs are super sore! Anything? Just want to know either way!!

How are you doing today @MumOfOne2018?

Sorry @Prembabymum I don't see a second line on that.

@noseringgirl if im honest neither do I! Just clutching at straws until af arrives!

I don’t see a line either...sorry @prembabymum.

@NoseringGirl I’m feeling very confused! No AF this morning. No cramps. But...my boobs aren’t hurting as much which is surely not a good sign for a BFP!!
I’m going to wait it out. If she hasn’t shown by Wednesday, I’ll test. It’s so confusing☹️X

I take it back! Shooting pains currently making their way around my boobs. #ouch!

I'm out; af arrived :( oh well, fingers x for next month!

Prembabymum sorry for your BFN ☹️ But FX for July!
I think she’s about to rear her head here too. I’m having the usual low cramps and feel like it’ll show any minute x

Temps still up, on cd49 now. Was so bloated and nauseous over the weekend but seem ok now. All pms symptoms have calmed down now so not sure what’s going on. I did a hpt a week ago and negative, so think I’ll try one today. Will keep you posted x

I’m out too :( woke up to the witch this morning! I might try and persuade the OH to try one more time before our break. 2 more weeks until he’s home. I have persuasion techniques to perfect!!
FX for everyone’s BFP’s xx

Yes I have pcos too, pretty annoying with all the random twinges and aches. Think my boobs are bigger will have to ask the OH ;) sorry to hear the witch has arrived but at least you’re on Cd1 again, this waiting is so annoying. Will let you know later. FX for next cycle x

Yes, just took two tests and both have faint pink lines! think i’ll try a frer just to check