June bfps for mamas trying for dc#2

[CatRen27]

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The bus is still running, we're sick of bastard bfns, and crossing fingers (and some) for Feb 2019 babies. Come join!

I'm 35 yo
DD is 3yo
Cycle 25 (urgh!!)
Af/bfp due 18th June

After a few months charting and opk-ing, I've decided to chuck it all out and try and dtd every other day. Eek. Only two more cycles until we start ivf in August so crossing fingers we can get a natural bfp before then. Here's hoping!

Thanks @HidCat, I've now taken the thing apart (obsess much?!) and attach the pic - would really appreciate your thoughts?!

And thanks @catren27 - concur with the new attached?! Would just hate to get all excited to find out it wasn't real! There's a second test on there with my second wee of the day (sorry if tmi!) to rule out a dud test. Newer one on top.

Yeah defo concur @Murphy- this is exciting!

Thanks @catren27! Even if it is positive I'm only 9dpo so very early days, and with me in my 30s and dh in his 40s the chances of early mc are very high, so trying not to get ahead of myself. But tentatively excited!

@murphy that is definitely a line!! That is exciting.

I'm really sorry @thissucks1. Fx for next cycle. Hope you're ok x

I'm so sorry you are feeling like this Catren and that family troubles are happening. The infertility board is a good source of information but I appreciate that it must have been difficult after so many cycles. Hope you manage to have a nice weekend z

Thanks for your support ladies, it's really appreciated. Quite the melodramatic rant but I needed to get it out! Also just to top it off I'm covered head to toe in some sort of allergic rash. I am sooooo itchy and hope it's gone for fw, as there's no way I'll touch dh in this state. Tbh I'm not sure he'd want to touch me!

@murphy yes yes risk factors shmisk factors. That's a fricken line so you're Preggers Until Proven
Otherwise. PUPO!

@catren27 haha that made me lol! I'll have to use that with dh, he's being very tentative about not wanting to get excited! So sorry about what you've been going through, hope things get better soon.

Oh that’s so exciting @murphyrocks 😁

How wonderful @murphyrocks! Very glad for you.

I am still waiting. 6days late and no AF and no bfp. Very regular cycles usually. Doctors booked for tmw so hopefully they'll do some bloods and maybe make sense of this.

I'm out again, af has just arrived 😥
On the plus side that was a 29 day cycle with a almost positive opk so let's see what happens this month.

I’m out AF arrived this morning. Feel OK about it though x

@Peanut1980 aw so sorry the witch showed 🙁 🤞 for July xx

Are we starting a July BFP thread? 😊 Trying really hard to stay positive. Inside I'm crying 💔 x

@Mammyofasuperbaby So sorry af got you too 😣 At least your cycle is regulating!

I really believe we will get our BFPs even if it takes a lot of patience!🌸

Hey @pudding I've joined the normal July bus, although might keep posting here too as there are ttc#1 people on there who are going through a bit of a different situation i think. Maybe I'm being elitist..?! You lot are so fab it might be nice to stick together a bit longer?

Good point @CatRen27 🙂 I'll be staying here too, if we all want to continue together? I'm on the normal July one too now x

Yes keep this one up please!! I like following those Im familiar with 😊 Can't cope with the ttc#1 who get a bfp after 1 or 2 cycles 😂🙈

@pudding01 I'm so sorry you are out for June. Don't worry you're not alone! I really thought June was my month! Feel naive for being so hopeful but then you're told to 'stay positive' even though its a set up for disappointment. We cant win!!

Lots and lots of best wishes to all of us ttc#2 it will happen!!!

Totally @angel, i think they're called 'drive by bfps' 😆

Ahh yes I knew there was a term for them 😂

Once we hit July should we all put our stats up again, where we are in the journey and anything we're trying differently this month?

I might need the inspo 😁

Oh deary me. We think we have it bad - the latest thread cant manage dtd during fw because of dc1??!!

Please count me in!! TTC #2 is really different to TTc #1 x

The more support for July the better @Hisashiburi

Sorry af got you!

I've run out of OPKs on CD18 . Loads of EWCM the last couple of days though, so I'm going with that... I'm also technically, I would think, on a July bus, but it seems too early for that somehow!

@Angelmiracle we could start a July titled thread with a new roll call next weekend, keeps the title current at least. Agree it is nice talking to others trying for their second (or more).

@Lithops I started the July Bus on 5th June (I think)! Seemed daft knowing that I wouldn't get a bfp / period for another month and still being in the June one. I think the early month CD1 lot get an additional limbo if the bus doesn't turn up before mid month lol.