June bfps for mamas trying for dc#2

[CatRen27]

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The bus is still running, we're sick of bastard bfns, and crossing fingers (and some) for Feb 2019 babies. Come join!

I'm 35 yo
DD is 3yo
Cycle 25 (urgh!!)
Af/bfp due 18th June

After a few months charting and opk-ing, I've decided to chuck it all out and try and dtd every other day. Eek. Only two more cycles until we start ivf in August so crossing fingers we can get a natural bfp before then. Here's hoping!

Sorry to hear that @mayago, that sucks. Best I can say is exercise some self-care then pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start all over again. Fx for July.

@ladybug62 the not knowing is really frustrating I know, I was several days late last cycle but with no bfp and so confused as to what was going on! Fx you get resolution soon.

Sorry to see AF has arrived for a couple of you ☹️

GL to all those testing this morning

AF still hasn't turned up for me and I'm still getting BFN... This week sucks x

Ahh, I spoke to soon 💔 x

@Pudding01 I'm so sorry. 🤞 for next cycle.

AF showed for me late so that combines with my BFP means a chemical I think.

Sorry to everyone else who has their AF

A massive good luck to those testing these week. Fingers crossed!! Xxxxx

@Hisashiburi I'm so sorry to hear that. Hope you're ok.

Sorry to hear that @Hisashiburi, fx for next cycle. I had a bfn and drop in temp this morning, either af on the way or implantation dip, will see tomorrow...

Ah thanks ladies but I'm fine. I knew my cycle was different this month and distinctly remember the implantation pain last week.
So common unfortunately but lots of to be thankful for.

Really crossing my fingers for the June bus. Good luck ladies. I'll be coming back to check how everyone is getting on! Xx

I'm sorry for the af ladies.
What does implantation pain feel like?

Af is due in the next couple of days for me. My body is still trolling me, i measured today and my boobs are two cup sizes up!!!

That's a serious increase @Thissucks1, are you sure you're out?

I'm really nervous about my temp tomorrow after a drop today - if it drops again I'm probably out :(

@mayago so sorry af came. Take it easy give yourself a break and some deserved pampering!

Im cd5 now and beginning to feel more positive since af at the weekend 😊

@Hisashiburi 🤞 for you in July 💐

Hi everyone, I haven't checked in for a while. Haven't had much to report, but after my 32 day cycle with OPK smiley on CD24, I was hoping for a more normal cycle this time round. I'm now CD17 though and still no smiley face....

@Murphyrocks yeah i had the bfn yesterday, no hint of a line.

Fx @Lithops

@thissucks1 you’re not out yet. I only get positives on the actual day my AF is due or after. Does sound positive for you 🤞🤞🤞

Thanks @Peanut1980 but I'm convinced the bitch will show up.

I'm out 😢

@Thissucks1 so sorry Hun.

Hi ladies, I've been a bit absent over the last few days, I've been reading but never found the right time to respond. Been in a bit of a depressive funk as I've not had a lot of work on (I freelance) so lots of time on my own at home trying to keep busy, which isn't great for my mental health I suspect. More shenanigans from my SIL as well, and I'm having to be strong and do what I want to and need to do, rather than focus my life around hers which has been a pretty common theme over the last however many years.. Ohhh family dramas.

I'm straddling the infertility boards now as after 25 cycles and 6 since my surgery, it's feeling less and less comfortable here. I'm obviously so happy for the bfps but it's been a long road of seeing this month after month, and with this being our last cycle before ivf (we've now decided to go ahead in August) my time here is probably over. I"m being a bit overdramatic but it does feel like a bit of a step.

@Mayago - SHIT I'm so sorry this happened. I was sure this was your month. Sorry you're feeling down, and sending you lots of hugs and . It's so hard to even imagine trying again next month, I totally get it. But here I am on CD5 thinking about getting busy in a week and a bit. Annoyingly when AF is due is when I'm supposed to be on a child free few days away with DH which will either mean either: a bfp and lots of happy sexy times... OR af, no sexy times, trying to get excited about wearing a bikini and feeling down.. oh GOD! Hoping cocktails will help!

@Hisashiburi - oh hon, sorry af came. These chemicals are a real arse arent they. You just know it is different, so it gives you even more hope. It's obviously great news that the various steps of the way have been shown to work and hopefully next month you'll get your bfp.

@Pudding - not you too! How are you feeling? Sorry you're out. Hugs to you

@Thissucks I'm so sorry, you felt like you knew it wasn't your month but I bet it's still disappointing. Sending hugs.

@Murphy - good luck I really hope the temp drop isn't anything sinister and you get your bfp. When will you test?

Thank you @CatRen27 think I need to just accept that I'm blessed with one child and thats all we're going to have.

I'm so sorry its not happened the way its supposed to for you guys. Roll on August!
Life would be lovely if we weren't reliant on our bodies doing what we want. Sending hugs.

@CatRen27 I'm sorry you're in this place. Big hugs to you hun 💕 It is really hard when you're trying for so long and aren't getting the result you want, I'm feeling down going in to the 10th month, so can only imagine how you're feeling. Xx

Morning @Thissucks1, I'm so sorry she showed for you. Big hugs.

So, this morning my temp jumped right back up above where it had been before (climbing from 36.6 to 36.7 since O, dropped to 36.54 yesterday then up to 36.75 today) so of course I took a test and think I may see a glimmer of a line, but don't know if it's just my line eyes playing tricks on me! Can anyone take a look and let me know what you think pleeeeease?!

Another photo, struggling to capture what I think I might be seeing...

@CatRen27 I'm so sorry you've been feeling down about things lately. I hope you get lots of support from the lovely folks over in the ivf boards. I'm glad you've bitten the bullet and wish you all the luck in the world when the transfer happens. Thank you for all your support here, you've been great!

@Murphyrocks I do see a sliver of a line on there, tentative congrats!

@Murphy that's a line!! Congrats! 💐