TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

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Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

@Eastend2015 hello there. I'm really sorry to hear that you've had such a tough time over the last couple of months. Sending hugs.

Haven't had a chance to catch up properly but thought you would all like this

@Cakelaur sounds like it started as a nightmare but has ended as a dream!! Enjoy!!! Your pup is so friggin adorable too!
@strawberrye I'm so sorry again that you are going through this. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy soon. I am hoping for your sake that it is an early mc not an ectopic because as awful as the loss still is, at least once your body has passed it you can start trying again straight away and it's not a sign of a blocked tube. It sounds as if your body might be starting to let go so I hope the process goes as smoothly as possible.

@Lovemysparkle good luck for the tww! Does look like you covered your bases. 👍
@DaisyMay25 sorry af got you but onto 2019 babies we go!
@ek78 and @KnitKitty and @HidCat hopefully they are good signs for you and you are wearing the cape! I did get ovulation pains after MC though just fyi.
@Claire138 glad you're going well hun! I'm ok. Cd13, getting all the fw signs so fx body goes through with it this time!!
@Pointtotheceiling welcome and I'm sorry for your loss. This group is amazing! Fx you catch again soon.
@Eastend2015 welcome back. So sorry you're having a tough time. Definitely use this thread for support and get the counselling!!! Therapy advocate here!!
@YellowDaffodils86 lovely picture!! 🌈🤞

ek78, I suppose it could be ovulation? Does that generally feel like period cramping too?

HidCat funny you should say that, I often get blood in my nose around the time of my period, but not nose-bleeds per se.

YellowDaffodils86 How lovely. Hopefully a good omen!

Boboelephant sorry for my ignorance, what does "wearing the cape" mean?

@KnitKitty apparently you can be more fertile in the few months directly after MC so we call it 'wearing the fertility cape'.

What do we think? Soo close?

Boboelephant oh I see! Thanks for clearing that up. I like it. Makes us sound like a bunch of wonder-women. Which we basically are, right?

@YellowDaffodils86 ooh yep!!! So so close! I'd call that positive as it probably will be same colour overnight. Keep bd'ing! I'm a bit envious- still almost invisible lines for me!

@KnitKitty no worries! Yes definitely. I didn't get the cape sadly but I have no doubt that we are all a bunch of wonder women!!! 😀🏋️‍♀️🤸‍♀️

@HidCat TEST TEST TEST!!! I have blood when blowing my nose. And it's a pregnancy sign. More blood flow to everywhere in the body!!!

@Cakelaur if AF is a no show by the morning I'll do another lol. You're such a bad influence 😉

@YellowDaffodils86 go go go! Action stations! 😂 but as @Boboelephant an v envious...boring faint lines here 😏

@Boboelephant its got steadily darker over last few days, hopefully peak arrives tomorrow. Aw i don't want to leave you behind! Hopefully we you get a peak soon, and we enter tww at a similar time.
Hows the marathon 🤸🏻‍♀️

@BabynameEdie how are you? Where are you at? Iv lost track?

@Cakelaur look bloody amazing! Enjoy! Glad things have settled!

@strawberrye thinking of you, hugs x

@Lovemysparkle
Glad you had a good hen do, what did you get up to, iv forgotten if was yours or not?
FX for this month for you, looks like you have given it a good go despite the logistics!

@DaisyMay25
Sorry for AF😒

@ek78 i know what you mean, the what ifs get you, super speculation. However you know, sometimes things happen when you least expect it.
@KnitKitty i had lots of odd twinges post mc and before first AF, i think i felt ovulation where as before i never had a clue but also never paid attention.

Hello to newcomers, sorry for your losses and that you have found yourselves here.

To everybody else a little hello, keep on going with whatever stage you are at, waiting for AF/FW/TWW or waiting for first cycle to start.

@Laney79 im so pleased things have moved on for you, you have had such a tough time. But all going in the right direction now.

OMG hurry up O! 🙈

Right that's me officially on the tww. Anyone with me? So glad no more BD for a bit!

@BabynameEdie mine look the same its driving me crazy

Oooh fingers crossed for you @Curlypop 😊🤞
@Lilimum4 it's so frustrating isn't it. Keep thinking I must have missed it but been poas since end of AF so pretty sure that's impossible! Also wonder whether my opk obsession delays my O due to worry and anxiety around it! 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows!

Hi everyone new, sorry you've found yourselves here but it's a wonderful life raft of support 🐧💕

@BabynameEdie I know what you mean I'm starting to wonder if I will ever ovulate ever again. Poas seems to be all I can think about, that and DTD. Think I'm going a little nuts

Here's mine what do you think. I'm thinking the last one is getting lighter!
They have only really darkened over the course of the day.
Right ovary is feeling a bit stingy.
Bit pissed off tbh!
All the excitement of having Af and feeling super horny has left me and to make matters worse hubbo is not in the slightest bit interested in shagging!

Curlypop! I'm in the tww 2 DPO

@ L1zz13 oh dear hope you feel more like it tomorrow. Know the feeling hun

I think I must have missed the ovulation day this cycle. The problem is I don’t know for sure so still have hope but all OPKs the past week (CD16-CD23, 33 days cycle) shows no line or very faint lines. And because we still have hope so been BD’ing every other day and even hubby is tired from too much of that LOL!!

The last 3 days my lower tummy has been feeling unusual, quite bloated and discomfort/ mild pain/tenderness similar to how I felt straight after the MC last summer. Probably will do the last BD tonight for this cycle and wrap it up :(.

🤞🏻 @HidCat I've got a good feeling about this!!!
@YellowDaffodils86 hope you jumped DH!! That's a good opk!!!
@Curlypop congrats babe! It's always a bit of a relief when you can relax a little after O! Haha. Until the TWW really kicks in!! Haha 🤞🏻 this is your month!!
@BabynameEdie what cd are you on?
@Lilimum4 oooh exciting another one hitting the TWW soon! Hopefully O comes soon.
@L1zz13 they are getting lighter but I'd say no surge just yet... but keep testing. Are you doing twice a day? What cd are you on?
@Smoothieyummy hopefully your hard work will pay off. How many cycles since your mc babe? Sometimes they can be a bit messed up and take longer than usual.

Loving how many people we have in the TWW... and almost in the TWW. This is gonna be the best month yet... can we get a roll call..: who's FW, who's TWW?

@Smoothieyummy I had this last cycle and thought I'd missed it but it was just really late - day 20 (or something like that) of a normally 24-26 day cycle! So it might be worth keeping on with opks for a couple more days if you can bear it.

@Cakelaur hope you're having a relaxing time away! I'm on cd 12 which used to be O day but think I'm a bit later since mc so am keeping on with marathon and opks!

BFN for me this morning. Assuming ovulation didn't happen when I thought it did, should've kept going with the opks, doh!