TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

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Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

Can I re-join? I've been lurking since my last mc. I have loved seeing all the bfps sorry to those who have experienced loss recently I guess solidarity is the name of the game here?

I dunno what my body is doing. I usually have 35 day cycles and I'm on cd31. I had a very definite bfn on a frer yesterday and no boob tenderness, but today I've had LOADS of cm, which is unusal for me. I thought I'd wet myself ..is this a thing?

@HidCat @DBoo @Cakelaur okay thank you ladies! Feeling more relaxed now, I’ll make sure there’s plenty fresh air getting in. I’m just such a worrier, I overthink everything during the TWW!! Haha 🤦‍♀️🤣

@DBoo I got my BFP on Sunday - In fact just done another test right now as I just don't believe it.

When I had my miscarriage I had headaches and really sore boobs.

This time nothing - No symptoms.

I actually told hubby Friday not to be hopefully as no symptoms and packed a jumbo pack of tampons for our weekend away.

@BabynameEdie I think I am hoping it'll be positive for me too because our charts were so similar but that's what scares me more. Getting hopes up and then getting a bfn. I'll prob test tomorrow. If I don't chicken out. Temp went very slightly down today- 11dpo.
@PassTheAfterEights I hear you mate!! Dangling too. Are you going to test tomorrow?
@Anyday88 and @rdm10 sorry af got you. Fingers crossed for next month!!

Thanks @patienceofatoddler just what i need to hear. Can relax and stop bloody analysing everything then writing any chanve of a bfp off.

Oooh ooh ooh it's so exciting, lots of wonderful news. Hoping there's more to come.

@SerenaOverjoyed
Yes! My last 2 pregnancies I had loads of CM! And then had BFP! So maybe it's happening for you! I didn't get BFP until I was late on AF, and had BFN using boots cheap testers at around 12dpo...so Fx its a sign for you too!

Omg so exciting guys!
Congrats @Patienceofatoddler @BabynameEdie and @L1zz13 !!!
This is amazing news
And I am wishing you all very healthy and sticky beans!!!!!
Good luck to the rest of you guys in TWW!

@HidCat yup like the others said highlights is fine! I did mine throughout my pregnancy and my nails!

Oops so sorry @L1zz13 I meant congrats to @Lilimum4

@Boboelephant I’m feeling so hopeful for you 😬 I don’t want to get your hopes up but I just have a feeling this is your month!! Fingers crossed for tomorrow (if you test) 🤞🤞

I hope everyone is enjoying this gorgeous weather!! Enjoying it while it lasts, which won’t be long I’m sure 🤣

Ahhh my god so much to catch up on. I briefly flicked through at lunchtime and saw your post @BabynameEdie!!!!!!!!! I had to suppress my squeal of delight as i was surrounded by colleagues.
Ahhh but im so pleased for you, pretty clear not much of a squinter!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

@Lilimum4 congrats too!! It cant be cyst related surely!! Early too at 8/9dpo!
Have you spoke to doctors yet?

Sorry to those that have af, always a shite moment but on to the next cycle!

@Boboelephant i think im just as nervous for you as you are. things are looking good though for you, if you have similar chart to babynameEdie?? Im not so good with charts.
A massive 🤞for when you do crack open those FRERs.

@lilimum4 and @babynameEdie congrats on your bfp's.
Not really sure where I am I think possibly just entering tww but as first proper cycle after mc who knows. Not tracking just enjoying some fun dtd. Wish fw was for holiday next week but think that is too late. But we'll be doing plenty of dtd anyway .
@hidcat I agree with others about the highlights.

Congratulations BabynameEdie and Lilimum4 Best wishes for a healthy pregnancies.

I believe I'm in my fertile week now but we have guests over until Saturday so hoping there's some strong swimmers in there from Sunday's antics in case I ovulate early. I reckon I'll ovulate sometime between Sunday to Thursday though so hopefully we'll get some BDing done in time. My dreams have been telling me I'm having a really short cycle and am ovulating early, which could be true, but I'm hoping it's not happened yet.

@hayleyfx and @YellowDaffodils86 thankyou so much. I am terrified as usual. It doesn't get any easier each month and whilst I am so truly happy for everyone on here that has got their bfps I'm aware of being left behind and feeling a bit like the old cheese sitting at the back of the fridge! Are you still waiting until Sat @YellowDaffodils86?

Hey bobo you're not left behind!! I'm still here on day 2 of AF

@Boboelephant hey you wont be left behind.
Haha, iv cracked! Mainly because this morning i spent my first hour at work feeling really sick, i was thinking of going home and assumed a caught a bug, but then it started to fade and then i was fine. I also felt a little icky when i woke up, i put it all down to tiredness.
But with that and the bfps that have happened today i thought id just see.
Big fat stark negative of course, its only 10dpo so who knows. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦‍♀️
But i will not be testing now till sat/sun.

@weasledee and @YellowDaffodils86 Oh I know guys! Just a bit tough when the familiar names start disappearing. @weasledee hopefully this is your month too!
@YellowDaffodils86 good luck for the weekend.
I keep getting pain in the top of my rib cage the last couple of days. It's so uncomfortable and gets me hopeful. Stupid body signs!

@Boboelephant you're not left behind! You can't bloody get rid of me!!! I'll be here til you get your BFP... which for the record is gonna be this month!! I just feel it! I'm so excited for you! Cannot wait to see the test! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@YellowDaffodils86 don't worry babe. 10dpo is mega early. Good luck for the weekend. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Haha @Cakelaur! 🤣😍🐧 Thanks love. Let's hope your kid isn't going off to school and I'm still holding up the thread! 🤞 for tomorrow!!!

@BabynameEdie @Lilimum4 congrats on the bfp

@Boboelephant I meant to say earlier but got caught up at work, that my temp dropped yesterday too, at 11dpo. It rose a tiny bit today at 12dpo. You are still in the game for this month. Wish we could all be there with you to wait for that test tomorrow. It will happen for you, either tomorrow or if not then soon and no one thinks you're old cheese 😂🧀 xxx

@YellowDaffodils86 thank you thank you 💕😍 am still very tentative about it. It doesn't feel strong enough and I don't feel like I have any symptoms at all. Just taking it a day (an hour?!) at a time and we'll see where it gets to. When are you testing? You're so strong willed, you and @Boboelephant ! Xx

@YellowDaffodils86 oh sorry didn't catch up properly. I had stark white bfn at 10dpo too. Do not panic! Xxx

Old cheese solidarity @boboelephant 💕 will test tomorrow. Feel I already know the outcome. Will you test?

90 mins on phone to bff who had 12 week scan yesterday (boy!) for a much much wanted and difficult IVF conception. Genuinely utterly over the moon for her but felt a wobble for the first time. Have prayed and prayed not to be very pregnant while she was going through IVF, not that she'd have begrudged it in any way. Had miscarriage a week after she did, didn't say anything as she was in much worse bits than me, now feel like a shit for shutting her out and know she'll be so angry when I tell her.

This whole fking thing is a bitch from hell. Tear stained rage filled waddle to centre of huddle please.

@PassTheAfterEights it's awful trying to protect others feelings when all you want to do is open up to them. I hope you're ok. Lots of 🐧 hugs for you!

Come in to the huddle @PassTheAfterEights it's snug and safe in the middle 🐧🤗
Hugs to you xxx