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TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

986 replies

dulwichdays · 29/04/2018 17:18

Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

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Lovemysparkle · 11/05/2018 09:05

@cakeular sending you lots of luck🍀🍀🍀 just remember today is your May Miracle ❤️❤️

strawberrye · 11/05/2018 09:32

Good luck @cakelaur, thinking of you!

Lilimum4 · 11/05/2018 09:44

Omg I'm in so much pain. I'm of to see the doctor in a bit but it feels like my side is being ripped. Cd19 so I was so hopeful now I feel really down. I googled and I think its a cyst on my ovary.

Martydog · 11/05/2018 09:48

Had to go back in for a second dose of tablets.

Primrose16 · 11/05/2018 09:57

@Lilimum4 gosh I hope everything is okay

@martydog I’m sorry you have to go back in again. I hope it works this time. Thinking of you

Laney79 · 11/05/2018 09:57

@Martydog so sorry to hear this. I had trouble with med management -I had one full dose of misoprostol (800mcg) then a half dose 48hrs later but it didn't work.

If you really don't want surgery you could try and get what I had-which is the old regimen (and current medical abortion protocol) which appears to be much more successful. It's a drug called mifepristone 48 hours before another full dose of misoprostol. They used to give that for miscarriage but NICE changed the guidance in 2012, seemingly based on little evidence and finance concerns (mifepristone is more expensive) -there's a trial running now to try and see what difference the combined drugs make in terms of success. My nurse was pretty clear she felt it works better, and it worked for me. I did lots of research too into it and from what I saw the two drugs are much more effective than the one.

I hope it's over for you soon. Huge hugs xxx

Blondcat · 11/05/2018 10:02

@cakelaur goodluck today.

POAS Friday and finally got my bfn (never thought I would be so happy to see a bfn) on cd9 and af finally seems to have stopped.

Boboelephant · 11/05/2018 10:07

@YellowDaffodils86 yep I'm pretty chilled so far too. I think it's that I've learnt there is no point getting excited about every symptom as they always seem to end in af! So I will wait and see and hope this is my month.
@BabynameEdie thanks hun. I hope so. And for you too! I've decided there is just no rhyme or reason to it. I get really strong symptoms but they also change every month. I've had heavy boobs, tingly boobs, achy boobs, cramps, no cramps, spots, no spots, tingly legs the whole shebang. And then the stupid witch shows up. Our bodies can be so frustrating!!
@Cakelaur I hope you are looking at your baby's heartbeat right now!!
@Martydog so sorry you have to do it again. Hope this time it moves quickly.
@Lilimum4 so sorry. Hope you're ok.
@weasledee hopefully you just ovulated late. Or have a late implanter. It's still early.
@Blondcat glad to hear you got your bfn and can move forward.

hayleyfx · 11/05/2018 10:17

@Cakelaur I have everything crossed for you, I’m so hopeful for you!! 🤞 I hope there’s a strong little heartbeat still! 🤞
@Lilimum oh no I’m sorry. I hope you’re alright!
@Martydog I really hope this is over soon for you. Sorry you’re going through it again. Hugs Flowers

rdm10 · 11/05/2018 10:21

@Lilimum4 hope everything’s ok.

@martydog sorry you’re having to go through this.

@cakelaur good luck!

8dpo here and the boob prodding has started! Although they’re not in the slightest bit sore and I have absolutely no symptoms but I’ll keep up the crazy!
Hope the tww isn’t too crazy for everyone (at the moment 😉)

Cakelaur · 11/05/2018 10:40

Ladies!! It is possible!!! It's real!! It has a heartbeat and wriggles. 2 arms, 2 legs. Measuring a day ahead at 8+4. It can happen!

MAY MIRACLES!!! I love you guys so much!!! The support you give is just phenomenal. I hope May brings you all miracles!!

TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies
Claire138 · 11/05/2018 10:44

Aw @cakelaur I am so delighted for you! I have been anxiously watching the clock for you! Absolutely wonderful!!! ❤️

Primrose16 · 11/05/2018 10:46

Awwwwwwww @cakelaur that’s brilliant.

BabynameEdie · 11/05/2018 10:47

Oh @Cakelaur I've had to pull over because I'm almost crying with happiness for you! Wow, am full of tingles and just so relieved you've had some amazing news. You deserve today so much! 💕🐧
More May miracles on their way I hope 🤞🤞

strawberrye · 11/05/2018 10:47

@cakelaur yaaaaaay!! So happy for you!

Lovemysparkle · 11/05/2018 11:06

@cakelaur that is such a Beautiful picture ❤️ I’m so happy for you, breathe,relax & most of all enjoy this very special day🎉🎉🎉

zarala · 11/05/2018 11:14

@Cakelaur yayyyyyyy!!! I am also all tingly and so so so happy to see this!!!!!
Ahhhh! What a wonderful feeling this is!
😍😍😍😍😍
So beautiful to see and here's hoping for some more BFPs soon!!!!

Cakelaur · 11/05/2018 11:20

Thanks ladies!! Sending hugs and baby dust to all. Genuinely the best day of my life! Can't wait to see the bfps coming this month.
🤞🏻

Boboelephant · 11/05/2018 11:24

@Cakelaur woohoo!!!!!!! So so happy for you!! This is the best news! 😀❤🐧

weasledee · 11/05/2018 11:33

Brilliant cake!! I'm sneakily checking my phone at work for the update!!!! Smile

HidCat · 11/05/2018 11:51

@Lilimum4 I hope you're ok. 🤞it's nothing too serious.

@Martydog good luck with the second dose xx

@Blondcat that's good news, hope you get the fertility cape!

@Cakelaur Congratulations! So pleased for your little bundle! There is hope for us all lol.

DaisyMay25 · 11/05/2018 11:55

@Cakelaur that's great news! You booked in for a 12 week scan too?

Martydog · 11/05/2018 11:56

@cakelaur so pleased for you.

Cakelaur · 11/05/2018 12:05

@DaisyMay25 12 weeks scan on 6th June. Booking appointment next week. I'm gonna try and stay calm and not book a private 10 week scan. But I'll see how nerves go. I'm further than I've been before so we're winning!

Lovewinemorethanhusband · 11/05/2018 12:31

@cake , congratulations bet your so so excited right now xx