TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

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Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

Sorry to hear of the struggles people are going through right now. ❤️

My results are in! HCG blood test 35! 8 weeks post mc with a full blown AF 5 weeks post mc.
Saw a nice but bit of a numpty dr after. Who talked the talked.
Funny really as I suggested he book me scan with EPU and do a blood test. He said let's just have a scan. But, as he's a numpty he had the EPU talk him out of doing a scan and recommended another blood test.
I'm having another blood test tomorrow morning.
So no actual answers. He thinks unlikely for retained products as I've had no symptoms but most likely it's just taking fucking ages to come down. 😤🤯😤🤯😡

Proper stressed and anxious to the stage where every minute of the day I feel nauseous.
I would so love this to be a new pg. But to be a new pg I would have to conceived prior to my heavy AF. Just not poss.

Going to try and move on. My next AF is due in 10 days or so (according to Flo) so will patiently wait for that. No more wasting time POAS for me. For the time being at least. Lol

P.s. (whispers...) I will POAS. I'm addicted 😂

@ek78 sending a 🐧 squeeze. It's always hard hearing about others with similar due dates. Mine would have been June and July so dreading the next few months if still not pregnant.
@L1zz13 I'm sorry this is so confusing for you. I really have no idea what's going on. Did you do a negative pregnancy test before getting your af? At least if they are doing another blood test tomorrow you should have some answers sooner than 10 days away!

5dpo here and the sore breasts have kicked up a notch. Owwwww!!!!

@martydog I’m so sorry, sending hugs. How are you today?

@lovemyysparkle we’ve been the reverse this week as it’s fw and DH has had to coax me into DTD. Everything we have been through has been quite the passion killer. Ah well, need to crack on with it, no sex = no baby!!

@bobo 🤞🤞🤞

@Eastend2015 thankyou but I'm not getting overly hopeful this month. I have realised since the MMC that I get very strong progesterone related symptoms so it's probably nothing. Very uncomfortable though!
Good luck with fw.

@Boboelephant it's that common after mc! Could that be why I've had 'morning sickness' like nausea, super bizarre dreams, my egg aversion is back and lower back feels pms like 24/7!

@Lovemysparkle I can't believe your OH has kept it bottled up so long. I hope you've both found some peace in opening up and getting everything out. 💐

@L1zz13 I hope you're ok. Sorry to hear that it's dragging on even after AF.

@Martydog how are you today? Sending you hugs
@Lovemysparkle that's really interesting that Your OH said that- maybe that's also the reason why my DH doesn't want us to try so soon - partly worried about me and my body needing time to heal, but I wonder whether he also just doesn't want to go through the heartbreak again. He really doesn't speak about it at all! When my first due date passed last month it didn't seem to bother him- but I wonder if it did?
@L1zz13 that's so annoying they wouldn't scan you! At least it could have given more answers! Oh well let's see how your blood test comes out tomorrow- fingers crossed for you

On a positive note, I had my appointment with my Chinese doctor recently and she was amazed! She told me i am almost ready to TTC again! My body has recovered nicely apparently so she wants to see 2 more cycles and then she will put me on some herbal remedies to strengthen the uterus to encourage a successful pregnancy. So that made me so happy to hear!
I am going to wait until after August I think and I just hope we get BFP before the end of this year (ideally before October as that was the due date of my last MC)

Anyway good luck and patience to all of you entering TWW and enjoy FW the rest of you- remember JKS!!! 🤸🏼‍♀️🧘‍♀️

@L1zz13 I really hope it’s good news for you! Try and relax

@L1zz13 fingers crossed for good news. If it helps, at 35 the probably wouldn't have seen a baby. I'm sure the scan woman told me that to see a baby you have to be over 1000. But if it's 35 and on the up, it should increase pretty quickly. 🤞🏻

Please say a prayer, cross your fingers, put in a good word what ever it is that may help. I have my scan in the morning and I'm a nervous wreck.

Thanks for all the support. I think I may have to go back to the epu tomorrow as I have only had a small amount of bleeding most when I wipe, sorry for tmi, and that has stopped now. I have to phone them tomorrow and let them know what's happening so they can make a decision about the next steps. I just want it to be over, last time I miscarried spontaneously so didn't need any management I just hope this doesn't hang on for weeks as I don't think I could cope with the surgery.

@L1zz13 maybe! It's really frustrating but all I know is that I now have back pain 3 weeks every month and as soon as I ovulate I get sore breasts, leg pains and nausea and I used to get nothing!
I back up what @cake says. My last pregnancy I was scanned at 5 weeks and they couldn't see anything at all. My bloods were 650. They said they had to be 1500 to see anything on scan. Two days later, there was bubs. Fx your hcg goes up.
@Cakelaur crossing everything for you hun!!! What time is your scan? Sending you all good vibes 🤞🤞🐧🐧
@zarala so glad that things are heading in the right direction and your body is healing.
@Martydog I hope things start moving for you.

@Boboelephant @Cakelaur I wouldn't have expected to see anything either. But at least to rule out anyway nasty or sinister would have been reassuring. I'm feeling much better. Gave in and took some ibuprofen for the back. Now at the pub with hubbo. Cheers gals x

@Martydog Hang on love. It's out of your control. What will be will be. Xx

@Cakelaur good luck for tomorrow, have everything crossed for you. Xx

@Boboelephant i have a few progesterone symptoms too. Oddly not been too obsessed with tww yet. Give it time!

@BabynameEdie how are doing?
And others in tww?

@Martydog hoping all goes well and doesn't drag on.

@L1zz13 What is going on i wonder, be interesting to see what the next blood test say.hope you are doing ok amongst all this confusion.

Cake, I'll be thinking of you tomorrow!! Everything crossed for you....... x

@Boboelephant 🤞🤞good sounding signs but know you've had strong post ov signs before so am sitting here quietly confident for you, but not jinxing anything 🐧

@YellowDaffodils86 hey! All good thanks, best friend getting married on Saturday so am pretty busy helping her get things sorted which is great. Am 6dpo and have no symptoms at all, cm completely gone and boobs tingling but not achey. Pretty sure it's a bfn this month. How about you? How many dpo? Tell us your progesterone symptoms?! (She says with far too much excitement in a calm and measured way😬)

@Cakelaur you've got this! I believe in you and your little bean ☀️🌸💕🍓 sunshine and happy, healthy vibes coming your way. Whatever the outcome, we're here for 🐧 huddled xx

@Cakelaur good luck today. Keeping everything crossed for good news. 🐧🐧🐧

Thanks everyone! I'm sh*tting myself! Appointments at 9.30. So not too long to wait! Love all of you 🐧

Good luck @cakelaur!

@Cakelaur I have everything possible crossed for you. I do hope it goes well-you are giving me hope it is possible to get a good outcome after all this horribleness xxxx

Sending positive vibes @cakelaur. Good luck today.

@Cakelaur good luck lady!!!! I know those nerves all too well! Really looking forward to good news ! Sending you hugs!!! 🙌🏽🐧

@cakelaur good luck I hope everything is ok.

@Cakelaur good luck! Sending you sticky bean thoughts

Poas Friday!!! And a BFN, I'm now hoping it was a late ovulation......