TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

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Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

Not looking good ladies cyst is very large.

I'm waiting to see doctor again to discuss what to do. I'll admit I'm really scared now

@Lilimum4 oh no that sounds awful you poor thing. What do they do? Are you still on pain?

Oh bless you @Lilimum4 sounds horrible.

@Lilimum4 that sounds really scary. Hopefully they can give you some good options to deal with it quickly. Xx

@lilimum have they said what they are going to do ?
I've officially gone nuts only 8dpo and just tested obviously bfn I don't even know why I did it as no it wasn't going to show anything !

@Boboelephant @Cakelaur @Primrose16 @Lovewinemorethanhusband. They did a hcg test bfn but only 5dpo so I'm on wait watch and see. He wants to go in and take it out but he said it could damage the ovary. With my age and endo that could be a game ender for baby making. So I said could it go away on its own he said its unlikely. So I said I'd like to think about it. But this pain is quite bad tbh xx

@cakelaur yay for great news congrats x

@martydog hope things start moving along for you soon

@lilimum4 hope you are ok sending you big hugs

@lillmum have they given you pain killers ? How long will they let you wait it out before deciding on what to do ? Sorry your going through this xx

Hi @cakelaur been watching both threads since my bfp and your news is truly amazing. I'm so pleased for you. Have they given you a due date now you are past the 8 week mark?

@Cakelaur so thrilled for you and what a picture xx

@Blondcat i know its weird it switches and you want a bfn and not a bfp. Glad its here and you can start afresh now.

@Lilimum4 hope all is ok.

@BabynameEdie
@Boboelephant
I know, i dont bother getting any hopes up in the first week you cant possibly tell, its all progesterone rising.
My boobs are achy and full and shooty pains in sides, bloated, not as regular(tmi). Feel hormonal too, a bit pms-ey.
Also still have CM.
I can feel a little impatience creeping in slightly.
I think im 5dpo today.
FX there are some bfps on the horizon

@rdm10 haha boob prodding! Standard tww behaviour 8dpo over halfway!

@Cakelaur 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊
I went and sneaked off at work to check my phone around 11 to see of you had posted😂Super pleased that it was all good news, the scan picture is lovely. I couldn't wish this bean sticks anymore than if it was my ownXxx

Thank gods its Friday, looking forward to the weekend.
Hugs to all that are having tricky times. Hoping all come out the other side soon.

@Lovewinemorethanhusband yes they are sending me another appointment for Monday or Tuesday so I guess I'll have to make my mind up then.

Gorgeous news @cakelaur congrats. Not sure if u realised but all ur details are on the scan pic.

@blondcat I took tablets 4 hours ago initially I had some pain but still haven't had any bleeding. ☹️

@Lilimum4 that's so hard. I'm sorry you're having to through this on top of the ttc anxiety. Hope you're able to get a good outcome.
@Martydog hope things move for you.
@rdm10 Haha I've been guilty of that. I keep staring at my boobs trying to see if there are extra veins! Only 6dpo here... 🤦‍♀️
@YellowDaffodils86 fx they all mean something this month!

I’m really behind on everything but just to say congratulations @cakelaur! And thanks @bobotheelephant for your kindness 🐧 I’ve now got AF so at least that bit is over and I can get back on ttc properly.

@DBoo haha. I did think about that but I'm not too fussed about identity. thanks babe.

@Kingy2910 they've moved me forward a day but said it could change again at 12 weeks. It's now 17th December.

And to everyone else, thank you for your support as usual. You are all amazing women. Xx

Great news @cakelaur
Hope it happens soon for you @Martydog
Hope the pain eases and you get a good outcome @Lilimum4

I am driving myself mad here!! I’m sure there is something on these tests even though it’s supervfaint!! Would love your opinions x

@Martydog I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. I really hope things get moving quickly for you x
@Lilimum4 I hope you're doing ok, that sounds really stressful. Hopefully you'll be able to talk things through with them at the next appointment.
@Cakelaur wonderful picture!

@Cakelaur omg yay!! I’m so happy for you hun. That honestly put a smile on my face!! 😀

Hooray @cakelaur so please for you, stay sticky little bean!

@martydog sending hugs and I hope things start moving for you soon.

@lilimum ouch! I’m sorry to hear that. Is surgery the only option?

@anyday88 maybe in the top left and middle one. Try a frer!

Need to jump on DH tonight but apparently he has a “blister” from too much cycling, not sure I fancy rubbing it better lol!! Trying the jks approach and no opks in an effort to make it a bit less stressful. We’ll see!

@strawberrye hope you are feeling better again this weekend, has BBT settled at all? Hopefully you'll be back on the TTC wagon soon
@babynameedie thank you! it was ace, much much needed and appreciated break from camping with my PIL's, in the nicest poss way it's just not ideal! how you doing this end of the week?
Haha @boboelephant you crack me up; had a couple of weeks miserable heartburn myself but think was poor diet choices. both on a health drive this side of the 1000 calorie breakfasts, few more avocados ;) (still on the lash though)
Waves @dboo nice to see your name but v sorry about the circumstances & hope you're OK too @knitkitty
@martydog so sorry to see your name again, hope you're as ok as can be expected squished in the centre of the huddle. @lilimum4 thinking of you too.
@weaseldee massively fx it was late ovulation & better luck tomorrow
@cakelaur gorgeous picture, so happy for your news!
@blondcat yay for your BFN, glad you're back at the start & @ek78 glad AF got you too. Chinese lady sounds ace @zarala - huge good luck all for next cycle
@anyday88 also think there's something, do you have any FRERs? any news today @L1zz13?

Flipper high five to all I've missed & sorry for the epic catch up, this thread is like a new puppy you can't take your eyes off!!

6dpo here, heaps of lotiony cm (soznotsoz), sore nips (standard) & nothing else, but haven't been looking. Clearblue trial control arm OPK's arrived, bit of fun for next month 🙄 might POA cheapie Monday.

Hoping next Friday will be a POAS Friday / BFP fest 🤞happy weekend all!