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TTC after pregnancy loss Thread 19- More cake for more babies

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Boboelephant · 12/04/2018 11:29

I figured it out!

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BabynameEdie · 25/04/2018 20:03

Ps OMG I can't stop the googling! I'm a crazy lady!!!!!

Wellthisunexpected · 25/04/2018 20:06

Edie just tale a test. My last pregnancy, I had 2 days of bleeding before a positive test. Assumed I was out. Unfortunately it ended in miscarriage (which is why I'm here).

Hello. Can I join?

I'm 34 and we've decided to try for DC2 from next cycle - we have DS who is 2.5. In March I got pregnant very unexpectedly whilst on the pill, and it made us rethink our "one and done" philosophy, well mine, DH has always wanted 2!

So here I am. Currently awaiting AF since the MC.

peachesarenom · 25/04/2018 20:10

ThanksBoboelephant I agree!

Wellthisunexpected · 25/04/2018 20:13

Oh wow, just reading back! So many bfps - awesome Christmas babies! Really hoping they all stick for you.

We decided not to try this month (since the MC) as we don't want a new years baby again, DS is 1st Jan!

PassTheAfterEights 33 Cycle6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 Cycle1 TTC#2
hayleyfx 24 Cycle 4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (C4 since mmc)
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 TTC#3 Cycle 3
Blondcat 36 TTC#1 Cycle 8
Sweetpea0318 38 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 TTC #1 Cycle 4 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee cycle 3 ttc no. 3
BabynameEdie 30 TTC#1 cycle 2
Yellowdaffodils86 31 cycle 2 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 TTC: #2 cycle 4 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC #2 awaiting AF

YellowDaffodils86 · 25/04/2018 20:24

@BabynameEdie 😂🤔 well was it a period? Only two days long, which is fairly short.
The only way to really know is to take a test in a few days.

Sloeberrygin · 25/04/2018 20:30

I can't keep up with this thread! Huge congratulations (or a gentle hug) to all the people with BFP's.

I'm now potentially 8DPO... though who knows as this is my first cycle after mc so it's guesswork really! so I'll be joining POAS friday Grin of course I have zero patience so I also tested this morning (bfn obviously)

PassTheAfterEights 33 Cycle6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 Cycle1 TTC#2
hayleyfx 24 Cycle 4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (C4 since mmc)
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 TTC#3 Cycle 3
Blondcat 36 TTC#1 Cycle 8
Sweetpea0318 38 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 TTC #1 Cycle 4 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee cycle 3 ttc no. 3
BabynameEdie 30 TTC#1 cycle 2
Yellowdaffodils86 31 cycle 2 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 TTC: #2 cycle 4 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC #2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 TTC #2 cycle 1

Claire138 · 25/04/2018 20:43

OMG it’s world penguin day today!!!
Happy world penguin day my fellow penguins!! 🐧 🐧 🐧
@yellowdaffodils86 have to laugh or I would cry 😝
Thanks @boboelephant I really hope it’s not much longer for the both of us...for all of us!
@babynameedie have you any tests kicking about? I would be POAS if I had a strong feeling!
Welcome @wellthisisunexpected sorry for your loss. Hope you’re doing ok.
@sloeberrygin I’m just a day ahead of you and driving my self quickly slowly insane! Good luck 🤞
@dulwichdays I’m glad you did that as I was just about to...love a list myself 😂

YellowDaffodils86 · 25/04/2018 21:00

Anybody enjoy one born every minute?
I actually feel like i can watch it again tonight!
I haven't been able to the last couple of weeks.
Smile

Boboelephant · 25/04/2018 21:04

@BabynameEdie go and take a test!!!
@wellthisisunexpected welcome and sorry for your loss.
Excited for POAS Friday ladies!! Just to observe but still!

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BabynameEdie · 25/04/2018 21:23

@Claire138 @YellowDaffodils86 @Boboelephant 🤦‍♀️I know I should poas but what if it's a BFN? I'm not sure I feel mentally strong enough to see that at the moment. It's hitting me hard this week for some reason!
BUT so many more bfps which is super amazing and boosts my hope skywards! Congrats to you all and my fingers are so tightly crossed for your beans.
I saw a rainbow as driving this eve 🐧💕gotta mean something! 🌈

HidCat · 25/04/2018 21:28

So many ch going on here today!

PassTheAfterEights 33 Cycle6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 Cycle1 TTC#2
hayleyfx 24 Cycle 4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (C4 since mmc)
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 TTC#3 Cycle 3
Blondcat 36 TTC#1 Cycle 8
Sweetpea0318 38 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 TTC #1 Cycle 4 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee cycle 3 ttc no. 3
BabynameEdie 30 TTC#1 cycle 2
Yellowdaffodils86 31 cycle 2 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 TTC: #2 cycle 4 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC #2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 TTC #2 cycle 1
Hidcat 35 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)

DaisyMay25 · 25/04/2018 22:02

Oh god so many!

PassTheAfterEights 33 Cycle6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 Cycle1 TTC#2
hayleyfx 24 Cycle 4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (C4 since mmc)
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 TTC#3 Cycle 3
Blondcat 36 TTC#1 Cycle 8
Sweetpea0318 38 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 TTC #1 Cycle 4 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee cycle 3 ttc no. 3
BabynameEdie 30 TTC#1 cycle 2
Yellowdaffodils86 31 cycle 2 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 TTC: #2 cycle 4 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC #2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 TTC #2 cycle 1
Hidcat 35 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 TTC #1 cycle 8

rdm10 · 25/04/2018 22:58

Hi ladies, I don’t post much but I am here reading. Huge congratulations to all the BFPs and welcome (but sorry you find yourself here) to all the newcomers.

@boboelephant and @passtheaftereights I’m also on cd6 so we can all go crazy at the same time!

I’m struggling at the moment- I would have been 20 weeks this week and it’s, unexpectedly, hit me really hard plus a close friend has just announced she’s pregnant. So I’m just a bit of a teary mess 🙁

rdm10 · 25/04/2018 23:00

PassTheAfterEights 33 Cycle6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 Cycle1 TTC#2
hayleyfx 24 Cycle 4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (C4 since mmc)
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 TTC#3 Cycle 3
Blondcat 36 TTC#1 Cycle 8
Sweetpea0318 38 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 TTC #1 Cycle 4 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee cycle 3 ttc no. 3
BabynameEdie 30 TTC#1 cycle 2
Yellowdaffodils86 31 cycle 2 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 TTC: #2 cycle 4 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC #2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 TTC #2 cycle 1
Hidcat 35 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 TTC #1 cycle 8
Rdm10 34 ttc #2 cycle 2

Lovemysparkle · 26/04/2018 05:32

Love my sparkle 39 ttc#2 cycle 6 (after rmc tests)

HidCat · 26/04/2018 06:59

@rdm10 I hope you're ok and feeling a bit more positive this morning. I think pregnancy milestones are so hard after a loss, I was the same at what should have been 20wks and I'm sure others here were too. It will get easier.

Boboelephant · 26/04/2018 07:47

@rdm10 hi there cycle day triplet. Sorry you're having a tough time. The milestones are so hard.
@Lovemysparkle have you had your losses since your DC or before?

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toasterstrudle · 26/04/2018 07:56

This is such a lovely positive thread, I'm now going to move away from the miscarriage boards and stick around here. Had surgical management yesterday after a 12 week scan showed bad news. Should have been 13 weeks today, but it's not to be. Not TTC yet as I'm still bleeding everywhere me but it is on the horizon. Onwards and upwards.

Toasterstrudle, 30, TTC no 2 (in a bit!)

toasterstrudle · 26/04/2018 07:58

@rdm10 it's so hard to hear of others being pregnant when you're actually really happy for them but can't help but feel sad for yourself. One of my best friends has a ds the same age as mine and is about to have her 12 week scan. We were excited to be pregnant together again and just never really thought this would happen. I'm so happy for her, but I know every milestone will sting due to the similarities. I'm just going to try and find other things to focus on and remember how lucky we are to have ds already.

weasledee · 26/04/2018 08:10

Hi toaster, sorry you find yourself here. Sounds like you've had a hard few days..... I had something similar last year, bad news at 12 week scan and then baby passed away at 14 weeks... it's not easy but it does get better in time. Plus this is a great supportive group of ladies Smile

strawberrye · 26/04/2018 08:14

@toasterstrudle welcome and sorry to hear about your loss. That sounds really tough re your best friend. Sending hugs.

Getting my second hcg result today ladies, wish me luck!

Lovemysparkle · 26/04/2018 08:17

@boboelephant- my ds is nearly 14🙈 & I was on my own for 12 years (ds’s dad never ever been around ) so although was desperate to have another dc I never met anyone to go through the amazing journey of having another bubs & I kinda excepted that I wouldn’t have anymore dc’s, that is until I met my wonderful dp (soon to be hubby in 7 weeks!!) and amazingly my dream to be a mummy again came a beautiful reality (dp has no dc’s) I have briefly mentioned before I do have other sort of medical issues from when I had dc but I was on the mirena coil only for 3 months came off of it in September 16 had af 6 weeks after coil (dp was away on holiday when af arrived) dp literally stepped off the plane & I got my bfp so that was my 1st mmc then 2nd mc in may 17 & 3rd mc july 17 so big age gap but my ds is sooooo desperate to have a little brother or sister he’s so good with kids, we are going to keep on trying till towards the end of this year as if nothing happens it will then have been a year & a half since my last mc so will then go back to doctors/specialists as I am 40 in early January 🙈

Lovemysparkle · 26/04/2018 08:21

@strawberrye - thinking of you today I hope & prey all is ok for you❤️ Good luck🍀🍀

Cakelaur · 26/04/2018 08:31

@strawberrye good luck today babe!
@DaisyMay25 how we doing today??

DaisyMay25 · 26/04/2018 08:34

@Cakelaur I'm alright took another test and I swear I see another faint line again. My breasts are so so sore the, the only reason I'm inclined to believe it is because (like last time I was pregnant) I keep waking up through the night for no reason.
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