TTC after pregnancy loss Thread 19- More cake for more babies

[Boboelephant]

I figured it out!

@Lovemysparkle ah I remember now. Sorry it's so hard to keep up and remember which stories belong to who! I really hope you guys get your baby soon. Have the rmc said anything or got you doing anything different?
@DaisyMay25 I'm so rubbish at seeing squinters but I hope you get a nice dark line soon.
@strawberrye hope it's good news today!!
@toasterstrudle I hope your recovery is quick. Be kind to yourself x

@Boboelephant I don't think it's that visible on the picture, gonna use a frer tomorrow and hopefully got a nice obvious line on it

@DaisyMay25 there's defo something. Maybe a shadow or something. But defo something there. You defo need an frer!! 🤞🏻

@boboelephant- all of my tests are 100% perfect (genetic,killer cells not done) & dp hasn’t been tested as I’ve spontaneously fallen pregnant 3 times so these are avenues we can explore! But on advice from the professor lots of sex, relax & be calm (yeh right!!) & as soon as I get a bfp I have to see professor straight away to have meds administered, progesterone & some form of blood thinners

@DaisyMay25 fingers crossed for tomorrow and a frer!!!
@Lovemysparkle I will be keeping everything crossed for you lovely. We had our first losses about the same time (Nov '16 for me) and I hope that we will both be pregnant again asap together!!

Can I re-join you all on the icefloe? I'm desperate to make a leopard seal pun involving AF This is a lovely group. I've been really excited reading about the bfps and really identified with some of the lows experienced with pregnancy loss

I've been lurking since my ?3rd mc. It's unclear if it was a fresh pregnancy or the tail end of the 2nd. I know I should go to my gp about going to RMC clinic but I'm keen to give it one more dice roll.. we've only been trying for 4 months total so investigations feel a bit daunting

SerenaOverjoyed 28 ttc #1 cycle 1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)

@boboelephant- thank you ❤️ I really hope so would be great to be pregger twins😁 I hope you get your bfp ASAP! Everyone tells me (people who have never had mc) it’ll happen when you least expect it & although in my heart I know they’re right I just wanna punch em!!! Whatever happens this cycle or next or next after that I will be here to catch you & all of you other ladies if you need it whole heartedly ❤️❤️❤️

Chart experts!
Since my AF stopped my temp has remained low, according to my app I'll ovulate around Tuesday, should my temp climb before then and drop after ovulation?

@Primrose16 usually the nhs just prescribe baby aspirin to thin blood and progesterone. Since you're pregnant I would ask my GP for a prescription today! My colleague swears that this is what gave her her DS after 2 MCs

@Martydog yay! So glad everything is looking good!!! Fx for you!

@Daffodil77 congratulations!!! Fingers crossed for you!

@BadBadBeans I like your positive attitude! Paint away while you can!!

@Claire138 Hahahaha jiggling your boobs in the toilet!!! This cracked me up so much! And yes drink and enjoy!

@Cakelaur your dog is the cutest

@Wellthisunexpected sorry to find yourself here but welcome !

@YellowDaffodils86 I can't watch it- it makes me cry and/or I end up hating the husband, or midwife or someone always ends up annoying me! Haha

@rdm10 I'm sorry- the sorrow comes in waves - sending you hugs and penguin huddles

@toasterstrudle I am in a really similar position- my best friend/cousin and I had due dates 2 days apart! We were so excited to go through it together but alas mine was not meant to be,.i am happy for her as they were TTC #1for almost a year, while I already have a DD. If I didn't have my little one already it would have been so much harder. But yeah - it's tough

@DaisyMay25 hope it gets darker for you!! Best bday present ever! Good luck and looking forward to your POAS Friday !

PassTheAfterEights 33 Cycle6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 Cycle1 TTC#2
hayleyfx 24 Cycle 4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (C4 since mmc)
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 TTC#3 Cycle 3
Blondcat 36 TTC#1 Cycle 8
Sweetpea0318 38 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 TTC #1 Cycle 4 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee cycle 3 ttc no. 3
BabynameEdie 30 TTC#1 cycle 2
Yellowdaffodils86 31 cycle 2 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 TTC: #2 cycle 4 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC #2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 TTC #2 cycle 1
Hidcat 35 TTC #2 Cycle 1 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 TTC #1 cycle 8
Rdm10 34 ttc #2 cycle 2
Zarala 36 not yet TTC #2 - waiting until after specialist appointment and a few more AFs (3 consecutive MCs since August 2017)

Maybe I should not be on the spreadsheet yet!

Thank you for all the bday wishes I am
Currently hungover in bed! First big night out in forever! Was great! And definitely needed!
We let off balloons for my first MC who's due date was my birthday and sent blessings to it's little soul...despite the alcohol I didn't Cry! It was very cathartic and actually fun, and great to have support of my gfs

@weasledee your temps should rise after ovulation, some women get a pre-ovulation dip in temperatures too

@weasledee your temp stays low then jumps up after ovulation. What @strawberrye said! 👊🏻

@primrose16 I've been taking baby aspirin. You can get it from Tesco. It's the 75mg one in a yellow packet. Less than £1 I think. I was recommended it by someone with a history of recurrent MC. I've also heard about its use a lot on MC threads.

Thanks chart ladies

@daisymay25 joining you tomorrow! So nervous 😬
@lovemysparkle I had a rant last night at my hubby about how the hell do people relax!!! We all know it but I still don’t know how to do it!
@rdm10 sorry you are having a rough time at the mo. As Zara said it comes in waves for me too. As difficult as it is, try and keep positive...I need to take this advice as well!

@claire138- it’s so frustrating that bloody word “relax”!!! Some people who have tried to give me advice I’ve answered with- I appreciate your advice & probably agree with you but unfortunately mc takes away the ability to relax!! Our bodies are an amazing thing & although I can relate to people who are worried/stressed about ttc or having a successful pregnancy can actually prevent getting a bfp (I think this is my case 😩) there are women all over the world in the most unprivileged conditions & they can continue a successful pregnancy so I’m sure one day I will get there!! Those people didn’t know what to say to me !! & I wasn’t being rude but politely saying until you or anyone else has answers or solutions I will patiently wait my turn & you can stick your “relax” up where the sun don’t shine!! But in a very polite way of course!!

@zarala and @Daffodil77 I’m scared about taking something without a doctor. Will it be okay to take then? I did debate taking it.

Ok so my second hCG is 31, having been 27. Safe to say this is not a normal, viable pregnancy. Spoken to my GP who has spoken to the gynae registrar who apparently is as confused as the rest of us! Waiting to hear back from the gynae consultant.

Oh @strawberrye babe I'm so sorry.

30, TTC #1, cycle 1, day 2

I got the all-clear from EPU on Tuesday. FINALLY had a negative PG test 4 weeks after ERPC. (Had MMC, two failed medical managements and then 3 and a half weeks of positive PG tests following surgical management - it's been exhausting. Not had AF since Jan 10th and nothing to show for it).

The doctor I saw told me if I want to start trying again see Tuesday as the first day of a new cycle for dating purposes.

I'm not holding my breath this month, especially as I have no idea what's going on with my cycle, so won't be properly trying until next cycle, but miracles do happen...

Congrats to those who've had BFPs since I last posted.
Good luck to those who are still trying. You're all amazing and so supportive of each other.

@Lovemysparkle thanks! I agree with you and @Claire138. How the hell do you just stop thinking and relax?? No idea!!
Good luck for tomorrow Claire!
@strawberrye oh hun I'm so so sorry. I hope the consultant can tell you what's happening soon.

@strawberrye I’m so sorry 😔 hope you’re okay. Sending lots of hugs

@strawberry so sorry xx
@laney how are you doing ?

Looks like even the consultant is confused! As my levels are so low it's no use in scanning me, and as I am not bleeding or in pain they don't seem to be that fussed. I have to wait to have my hCG checked in a week, then if it's falling it can be called miscarriage, if it's rising then they'll scan .e to exclude ectopic. Don't know what's worse really, 2 miscarriages in a row or having a miscarriage then ectopic, so I don't really know what to hope for

@strawberrye I'm so sorry. That's really shit. Especially the waiting. :( We're here if you need to rant.

@primrose16 i think it's fine to take as long as you don't have clotting issues already

I'm still hanging out here if that's ok. Did a digital this morning and it was not pregnant, but it's probably too early. My free was about the same as Tues night which makes me concerned as it was fmu today. Not getting my hopes up yet.

@Claire138 I stopped talking to my bff about TTC when she was saying to relax. She meant it in the nicest way and I am an obsessive TTCer but it's such useless advice. This time my dh had finished studying, we went on holiday and he qualifies very early in tww. I suspect that all has a lot to do with it. But I couldn't have done anything proactively to make that happen.

Good evening pingu's of the floe, hurray for the register 🐧🎉 have collated hopefully everyone into standing list below, feel free to add any more deets! Heads up to whoever kicks off the new thread, please paste in the list!

Delighted for your news @knitkitty, happy DTD! & glad all's well @martydog
Very sorry for yours @strawberrye, what shit shit luck - thinking of you x
@zarala sounds very healthy and lovely, hope your head has eased but glad you had a great time! hoicks onto floe by tail feathers
Welcome @toasterstrudel & hope you're feeling as ok as poss today and welcome back @SerenaOverjoyed, know what you mean re daunting - I might or might not have had a couple of chemicals since MC and prospect of investigating at this point feels very soon and unwelcome, good luck for this cycle
snort in the direction of @peachesarenom 's doctors 😠
@babynameedie @daisymay25 if you crack and test massive fx for you both, hope your rainbow brings you good things edie x
big flipper wave at @boboelephant @rdm10 CD7, #stillchilled
@claire138 happy world penguin day plus one!

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

Outside of the huddle for me, nothing to report. Except Clearblue asked for all their surplus tests back at the end of the trial, that pissed on my chips - obviously no baby but thought at least I'd have half a dozen CBD's in the bank 🙄

Looks like DH is off to LA for work on Sunday, so to avoid missing FW I'm going too cackles