looking for nutty fun loving ttcers to share tips!

[thisisouryrfx18]

Wanted to start a thread for slightly bonkers ttcers who can laugh at themselves & boost one anothers moral😉 shy posters scared to talk about the nitty gritty shagging at all hrs and discussing cm in detail need not reply!😜

@italianwifey no such thing as tmi on this thread lol im no charting xpert tbh just trying to download a fertility app atm c how i get on

@italianwifey feel like we should be doing a degree in human anatomy!

@thisisouryrfx18 which one are you using? I seem to have about five on my phone now haha!

@italianwifey I enjoy seeing charts but I have no idea what they mean, I think that dip could be an implantation dip though? Fingers crossed it goes back up tomorrow and stays up! Fx for you, 7dpo would make sense for it too
Sometimes I get sore boobs but nothing and you're supposed to 'dry up' so to speak but I haven't but I guess no two months are the same!

@italianwifey ive been told by some of the girls on here to try fertility friend, ovia kindara, or cycles on the i phone gonna check them out n c what one looks best

Bitch the Witch got me. 😭

@thisisouryrfx18 I'm using FF at the moment but also quite liked flo! And used to use clue.

@DaisyMay25 I wouldn't worry too much, are you temping? If you are I think that's the most reliable way to tell! But I think if you're using opk and they are having one or two days where they look positive and the rest not that's probably a pretty good way to tell too!

@BDFT sorry to hear about the bitch witch!! I'm sure I Will be right behind you in a weeks time and will kick myself for getting hopes up over nothing!

Thanks @italianwifey. I had implantation cramps 9dpo, textbook ib this morning 10dpo and then late this afternoon at arrived. I hope you fair better than I did this month!

No ! @BDFT how are you feeling? hope ur treating yourself to a wine or doing something to cheer urself up x

Heya love. I did get.myself a bottle.of wine on my way home. Had a cry with my dh (me crying not him!) Still glum but I'm sure I'll feel better tomorrow. It's just shit to be honest! Thanks hun. Hope you get a good rest this month! X

@italianwifey could DEFO be implantation dip!! Excited for your temp tomorrow!!! Especially alongside sore boobs!!

@DaisyMay25 it could be happening tomorrow. Sometimes takes longer than 24hours. Could happen overnight. Defo positive opk. So it will come! Are you temping too? Or been watching cm?

@Cakelaur I don't temp because some days I have to get up at 3am for work and other days not til 9 so I don't think it'd be accurate. Lots of ewcm today so hopefully it's be over night, just dtd for the next few days to cover everything though

Yes @DaisyMay25 this is your month!! New year baby!! 🤞🏻

BDFT bless you, I'm so sorry AF has turned up. It is shit. FX you have a Good period and next cycle is the one for you

My temps have dropped. AF looks imminent (due Friday). Really thought this month was the one. Saying F*ck it and having a lot of alcohol and coffee over the weekend.

I'm so sorry @TwittleBee ....AF sucks. Hope you're okay and get looked after this weekend, wine and coffee sounds like a good plan.

Ah @twittlebee I'm so sorry! Yes to alcohol, coffee and heavy lifting this weekend! I hope af goes quickly so you can crack on. Let's make may our month! X

@TwittleBee your still in til af arrives dnt want to give you false hope but @Cakelaur said she had a weird chart then bfp I would buy another FRER and try it today least that way its in your hands to c not af if that makes sense @BDFT I was the same when I got af this month and im not an overly emotional person. Feel like ttc is really getting to me now, I end up feeling guilty telling OH when af arrives cause I know he really wants a baby too. He does the usual man thing and says it l happen but I can see that he gets upset too its shit! Sending you lots of hugs x❤

Everything crossed for you girls @italianwifey and @DaisyMay25

@TwittleBee I'm absolutely gutted for you. Wish I could just give you a big hug. 💐

thisisouryrfx18 yeah I guess, just I don't feel positive after I had 2 BFaintP and now a BF*ckingN along with temp drops. Plus chart is following last cycle's pattern now

BDFT Yup we didn't want Xmas/NY babies anyway ey? Not sure what else I can try this month, it will be cycle #9 for us and last cycle we done veyrthing, both stopped alcohol, cut caffeine, ate greens, all the vitamins etc, BBT charting & OPKs, DTD every other day etc

@TwittleBee sounds like you are doing all the right things maybe just carry on giving it a go? When I went to to the docs this week he told me to relax about it a bit... I think although it gives us the best chance sometimes it just piles the pressure on. Obv it's hard not to but try not to lose hope, I've got plenty of friends who conceived around 9/10 months into TTC.
Think I am out ladies, had some spotting which sadly is usual for me and just precedes AF which is due in about 5 days! Good luck to all the rest of you, fx for some more BFPs x

@TwittleBee I know id be thinking the same thing if I was you tbh like you said just treat yourself over the wkend al b doing the same then we ll b back to ttc ALL OVER AGAIN god its exhausting! We have to keep our chins up 💪not much else we can do x

@italianwifey not another af! X keep us posted fx for u ❤ Do u think we re all syncing up(if thats how u spell it lol) i had my af 10days early yours is early thats soo crazy

italianwifey ah pants! Hopefully you'll be lucky, along with the rest of us having AFs, next cycle! Nice Jan/Feb babies.

So hard though to relax, I find it so frustrating when people say that because I never relax anyway haha! But maybe it is no coincidence that DS was conceived on holiday when we were both just enjoying ourselves. We move into our new house in May and get married too along with still needing to finish of my MA Dissertation (soooo hard to concentrate on that!) so hopefully I won't get extra stressed with all that but at least lots to take my mind off TTC