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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

looking for nutty fun loving ttcers to share tips!

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thisisouryrfx18 · 08/03/2018 12:16

Wanted to start a thread for slightly bonkers ttcers who can laugh at themselves & boost one anothers moral😉 shy posters scared to talk about the nitty gritty shagging at all hrs and discussing cm in detail need not reply!😜

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thisisouryrfx18 · 28/03/2018 12:19

Aww @susso just seen ur post try sum vit c pills or oj helps af speed along supposedly x

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Hopefulalways · 28/03/2018 12:22

@susso I want to give you great tips and suggestions for positive distraction techniques but as you can tell from my posts, I clearly don't have any 🙈😂👍

Englishpetal89 · 28/03/2018 12:28

Hey, brand new to this so thought I'd join in this thread :)
Still trying to get my head round all the acronyms lol

Started trying last night but refusing to count this month as anything more than a practice run lol

Englishpetal89 · 28/03/2018 12:45

For example, what do FRER and dpo stand for? 🤔

susso · 28/03/2018 12:53

@thisisouryrfx18 thanks so much I'll give it a go!!

@Hopefulalways hahah that made me giggle 😂 we may just have to come to the conclusion that we are going to live and breathe trying to conceive until it happens 😂

Hopefulalways · 28/03/2018 13:02

Haha agreed @susso

Hi @Englishpetal89 dpo means days post ovulation. FRER is a pregnancy test, first response early result 😊

A few more are:

dtd = doing the deed
Bd = baby dancing
Dh, dd, ds, dp = darling husband, daughter, son, partner
Af = aunty flo = period
Cm = cervical mucas

Errrrm can't think of anymore xxx

Englishpetal89 · 28/03/2018 13:05

@hopefulalways Thank you! That's really helpful ^^

susso · 28/03/2018 13:16

Hi @Englishpetal89, I've not long started trying either so we're pretty much in the same boat 😊 hope you get your positive result as soon as possible 😊

TwittleBee · 28/03/2018 13:17

Englishpetal89 hi there and good luck on your journey with TTC (trying to conceive!) There is a list of acronyms under the Talk section of MN (mumsnet). I still do not know all the acronyms either, often having to look them up still haha

Englishpetal89 · 28/03/2018 13:23

@susso I've been waiting so long to start TTC that I burst into tears while dtd last night. My husband was so confused!

It's just scary/exciting to think that I could be at this moment pregnant and not even know it.

Thanks for being so welcoming everyone ^^

susso · 28/03/2018 13:31

@Englishpetal89 it's really exciting, but quite emotional too I'm finding (probably just me being a hormonal cow😂). When my DP decided he wanted to try too I was over the moon but he just wants to go with the flow however I'm a planner so I can't just do that😂 I guess he's right though, it'll happen when it happens!

Englishpetal89 · 28/03/2018 13:38

@susso yeah I sympathise! My dh is also a go with the flow kind of person, whereas I like to plan and track things etc.
We've had to wait a while because I wanted to go back to uni, and then I got onto my course, and then I needed to wait til I'd been working again long enough to get maternity pay/leave etc, so I'm so done with waiting now!

susso · 28/03/2018 13:42

@Englishpetal89 it's quite annoying isn't it, but I guess we need them to even out obsessiveness out 😂 ahh I see, yeah I bet you're ready to give it a proper go now! We've had to wait a while also, because of courses and work etc... but now seems a good time to try as baby will arrive at a good time if all goes to plan!

GoldilocksTheGraceless · 28/03/2018 14:33

hey everyone :) welcome to all our lovely new nutters!! 😂
I think that this forum is what stops my Dp from going round the bend! If I shared all of my thoughts with him he would lose the plot - definitely also a go with the flow person unlike all of us!!!
Little does he know that I've pre-planned a 4 day booster sesh of DTD 🤣 poor thing
Hope you're all managing ok today, I felt quite blue this morning but have managed to distract myself with some training at work. Anyone else got stuff to focus on?

Hopefulalways · 28/03/2018 15:28

Does ANYONE see ANYTHING 😂😂 I promise I'll stop till tomorrow!! Xx

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susso · 28/03/2018 15:44

@GoldilocksTheGraceless thank you for the welcome!! I think my DP is going round the bend at the minute, all I ever talk about is babies 😂 we DTD quite a lot normally anyway but I've told him it's essential we do it as much as we can now🙈😂 sorry to hear you were feeling blue! 😟 sending good vibes your way!

@Hopefulalways I can see something but I don't know if I'm just seeing things 🙈!!!

thisisouryrfx18 · 28/03/2018 15:49

I defo think its a guy thing theyr always more relaxed bout ttc or maybe they just hid it better..ne fots on gd vits for OH i know zinc is gd for swimmers

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thisisouryrfx18 · 28/03/2018 15:50

No probs @susso just a little hint i learned from MN

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Hopefulalways · 28/03/2018 15:51

@GoldilocksTheGraceless I think we are all in the same boat there! But remember not to do it so much you do it every day! X

@susso I don't either, and this is why we should test too early hahaha line blind!! 🙈🔫

susso · 28/03/2018 15:55

@thisisouryrfx18 yeah it's Defo a male thing I think, he's excited just relaxed! I've read up on male vitamins but not sure if it's worth trying or not. If I bring them home to DP he'll take them but he'll just laugh at me😂🙈

@Hopefulalways you prompted me to do another test even though I am CERTAIN I'm not pregnant 😂 thought I saw a line so did 2..😬🙈 BFN obvs!😂

Hopefulalways · 28/03/2018 16:01

*shouldn't

Hopefulalways · 28/03/2018 16:02

How many days dpo are you again? Defo BFN? Pics?

We are nuts 😂😂

susso · 28/03/2018 16:17

My cycle is all over the place I'm literally just checking if I am being hopeful- even worse!😂🙈 I stopped my pill a few weeks ago but before I stopped I was quite bad taking my pill anyway so there is a chance I could be pregnant I suppose😂 patiently waiting for my body to even itself out... we are definitely crazy!!

susso · 28/03/2018 16:18

@Hopefulalways not even sure it's worth sending pics as the 'line' disappeared shortly after 🙈

TwittleBee · 28/03/2018 16:20

GoldilocksTheGraceless so spot on with how I use this to stop my OH going crazy with me too haha! Sorry to hear you were a bit blue but glad you have perked up too. Ah well I am sure he will enjoy that booster sess anyway ey?

susso my OH takes Zinc and Vit D to ensure him and his swimmers are in tip top shape! he actualy was really on board with it too. We leave his and mine (Vit B, D & Folic) out on the dining table ready to take with dinner every day haha.
And don't waste money by POAS yet you aren't even sure you've ovulated haha! Love it though because I cant talk as I POAS throughout TWW haha!

Hopefulalways I stuck it in FF Lightbox Line Reader and it didn't show anything clear. But I am with susso that I thought I saw something which was why I done that! If you have another FRER, do it tomorrow morning 1st pee and report back!

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