TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 17. New Year, new hope for all!

[Primrose16]

Oops the other one got full before new one made. Kept the same name to make it easier to find.

Aarrgghhh does anyone else get pissed at DH cause he appears to be able to get on with life while i am constantly feeling sorry for myself!! He is out drinking with boys watching rugby while i am trying to be soooo good in order to get a baby...... aaarrrggghhhhh men!! Or is this just me 🙈

@keepinghopeful I do it too! I've made him start taking vitamins now though and look up things he can do. I get annoyed that it's just me being proactive

@DaisyMay25 yes ive mine on vitamins too but like a child i have to set them out for him with dinner otherwise he bloody wouldnt think to take them!!!

Sorry to the new ladies who find yourselves on this thread 💗

@keepinghopeful yep I know just what you mean! DH not yet being made to have multivitamins, but tempted. Which ones does everyone use?

Ive mine on the wellman conception ones

@Kingy2910 I was told to test at 3 weeks post MC by EPU. Have you done a test yet since your MC or will this be your first?
I couldn’t help myself and tested at 2 and 3 weeks post D&C which we’re both negative. Weirdly I needed to know and it also gave me a reference point in the very small chance I made use of the fertility Cape this month.

Still no sign of AF for me so will test with. FRER on Monday! Not feeling particularly positive it’s probably just my body taking longer to revert to normal. Wasn’t helped by finding out 2 friends were pregnant almost as soon as they a started trying. Burst into tears when’s my DH told me....and there’s was me thinking I was doing better. X

@strawberrye for now just c, d and zinc. Gonna look at the wellman ones though

No it's most men......have a night off trying. Go get a bloody big bottle of wine, a big share packet of crisps (but don't share haha) and a night with ant and Dec on telly.....that's exactly what I'm doing!!!!

@dulwichdays they just said "in two weeks" that's why I said next Wednesday even though I mc 4 weeks ago....I don't think I've got caught this month if I'm truthful guess I don't want to see a negative test eh but hey ho might be the closure i need

Sorry @17cayerpillars1mouse and @millietant2018 for your losses! Hope you girls get a BFP soon!

@daisymay25 @keepinghopeful @strawberrye I have my DH on Wellmans conception tablets. Only been a month of taking them now so fingers crossed for this month!! But I too have to set them out with dinner to make sure he remembers 🙄

I agree with @kingy2910 we need a night off too!

Fingers crossed for the BFP’s @dulwichdays you’re still in 🤞

@keepinghopeful I know what you mean. It sucked that I was being good and he wasn’t. I changed his whole diet when we conceived our daughter. But that meant I had to do all the cooking.
Welcome @millietant and @3catapillars sorry that you have found yourself here. But we have a lovely supportive group here.

Is it just me that’s getting confused were everyone is at at the mo

Yep @Primrose16 ive lost track of everyone 🙈. @dulwichdays i have a glass of wine in my hand - that old saying if you cant beat them join them! Sh*t hearing about other people that actually is when i hit my lowest whdn i hear of people i know who are preg. I have had 3 very close friends in last month & again no trying at all FFS!!

@17caterpillars1mouse I'm so sorry. That must have been so tough to be that far along. You are very welcome here and everything crossed you fall quickly.
@MillieTant2018 welcome to you as well and so sorry you're here. I also had an ectopic and lost one of my tubes which was very traumatic. I'm approaching fertile week too so let's hope our remaining tube kicks into gear!!
@Kingy2910 taking the test to get the negative was so hard but for me gave me some closure.
I was thinking about getting DH on the vitamins too so will buy some wellmans! I agree with the others @keepinghopeful, go and have a drink!
@Primrose16 it's not just you!! I really struggle to remember where everyone is at.

Hi all. Turns out unfortunately I was right to be cautious about those pregnancy threads- unfortunately miscarried this afternoon. For fucks fucking sake!!!

Aw @Eastend2015 you poor poor thing 😭. Did you have scan?

Oh @eastend I am so so so so sorry. Stupid question I know, how are you? Sending love

Oh shit @Eastend2015!! I'm so so so sorry. I don't know what to say. I'm so sad for you. Sending you hugs xxxxx

No scan, just started bleeding heavily this afternoon right as we were going out for a walk with extended family. Impeccable timing!! Had various clots passed and now bleeding is lighter. Hoping that’s it but as family are here and DS demanding tea it’s all a bit crazy. I have to keep bolting upstairs for a cry!! Just so fucking frustrating!! Sorry for the swearing but it’s what i’m feeling right now. So close but yet so far!

Omg @Eastend2015 that really is awful for you, especially when people there & all you want to do im sure is crawl in a hole. I really am so so sorry you are going through it ... swear away - you are well entitled to!! Xx

@eastend2015 I really am so so sorry!! And I’m sorry this is happening at a time where you don’t have your own space. I hope they are giving the support you need! Swear all you like and vent here! Hope we can help! Lots of love xxxx

@Eastend2015 I'm so so sorry you're going through this 💐 I hope you get some time to yourself soon xxx

Swear away. It’s fucking shit.

i'm so so sorry @Eastend2015 sending hugs your way. I'm here if you need to talk.