10dpo BFN - am I out?

[bubblybrit]

So I promised myself that I would follow the advice of fellow Mumsnetters and not test too early....last all week but then couldn’t resist.

AF is due between 1st and 7th January. It will be the 1st if following trend on last cycle! Opk showed positive on 19th December so according to instructions ovulation should have taken place within 12-36 hours?

Hence this is why I think I’m 10dpo but BFN with a FRER this morning.

Do you think that I have just tested too early or that I’m unlikely to get a BFP this month?

Thanks for advice - still pretty new to ttc!

Its okay! Not a lot of people know about it and tbh neither did i until two years ago haha 🙈 tbh i would adopt but not really allowed because of how unstable i am and plus its years of being monitored and looked into they dont make it easy for anyone but it would have been a really good option if i was allowed to. My minds going against my heart lol 🙈
Yeah exactly new job hopefully in a few weeks something to get my head into and doing a masters should keep me occupied n getting stuck into work ☺️ Gave it a go at least!
Whens your fertile week this month? 🤞🤞

Well you never know what will happen in the future so all you can concentrate on is the present. Sounds as if you will have your hands full for a while anyway!

I’m thinking that fertile week start around Wednesday. It’s not a great time tbh as my DH is away on business for most of that week. So we are only likely to dtd once or twice. Not holding out much hope!

Oh no! Well remember from school sex ed it only takes the once! Lol
Today is my ovulation day according to my period tracker because of my positive opks which means AF will be here the 26th and my birthday is the 27th so thats just great haha

How long have you guys been married?

Yeah I wish it was that simple! Lol

Af does have a habit of popping up at the worst time possible. Hopefully you don’t get too many symptoms and that you can still enjoy your birthday 🎉

I’ve been married for 3 years now. You been with your partner long?

I know at school nearly everyone was pregnant im like how the hell did they manage that without trying haha

Yeah i get quite light short periods so wont be that bad ☺️

We got married in september on our anniversary of being together 6 years lol x

My school made you frightened to even look at a boy in case you got pregnant.

Ah that is lovely - congratulations! Glad you have the support of your DH. My DH and I have been together 6 years as well xx

Haha no where i live if you hadnt got a baby by the time you left school you were a minority! Lol
Aww no way must have been a lucky year for us lol i got engaged years ago but didnt want to get married while still at uni n then we saved up for a bit. Married my first boyfriend luckily lol 😂🙈

That’s lovely. I had to kiss a few frogs until I found my DH!

Hows you hun? How many dpo are you now? 🙌🏻🤞

I think mine was on 11/12 dpo x

Hey @Ameliaxx. I’m good thanks. You? I think I’m due to ovulate early next week. Using OPKs so guess I’ll find out soon enough!

Im okay thanks doing ny first shifts as an agency nurse this weekend so bit nervous about that! Oh i thought you were ovulating wednesday thats why i asked lol oops 🙈

@Ameliaxx. Lol that’s fine. I’m not holding out much hope for this month and my DH and I will be in different postcodes for the majority of next week! Oh I hope everything goes well for you 🙂 xx

Omg hun look what happened today x

Oh my....that looks positive to me. Have you done a FRER? Congratulations xx

That was 8dpo and im just getting BfN since so i have no idea whats goin on its never easy is it! Lol no signs of AF yet so we will see what happens hows you? Xx

I think our bodies like to play tricks on us at times! Were you actively trying or would it be a happy surprise?

I think I’m close to getting a positive opk but my DH has the flu so think we will need to write this month off. Unless I can convince him otherwise 😉 xx

@Ameliaxx. I’ve just read your other thread in relation to your recent cp. I am so very sorry as I know that you have had a really tough time lately from our previous conversations. Please share this with your DP and his family. You have said that they have always been very supportive of you and I’m sure that it would be no different this time.

Never put yourself down. You seem like a lovely and kind person who is valued and loved by those around them.

I hope that you are ok.

Bigs hugs and here if you want to talk or PM me xx

@bubblybrit

I see. I’m probably looking at it quite naively as I don’t have much experience of bipolar. The most important thing is that you take care of yourself. At least career/studies will give you something to focus on for now. I’m sorry that ttc hasn’t worked out for you. Would you consider adoption at all?

Hi all experienced ladies.. this is my first month of trying and I am at 10 dpo today and got a bfn on frer which was as white as ever.. got a little disheartened as i have been having cramps since 2 days so was hoping to see atleast a faint line on frer this morning. Any suggestions or leads would really help. My AF is not due until Friday. Thanks much.