Shit, shit, SHIT. Is this positive? :(

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Because if it is I'm fucked.

It looks it to me

Oops.

Sorry if it's not what you wanted it hear.

Yes I'm sorry it is. But you do have choices.

Do you want to talk about it?

It looks that way, I'm afraid.

What's happening with you? Support is here.

I have a 5 month old baby, could it possibly be left over hormones from that?

No. Not possible.

Positive, sorry it's not what you wanted.

No, you are indeed pregnant again I'm afraid.

You do have options about what to do now - don't rush into any decisions if this is a shock.

I had another ds after getting pregnant when he was five months, it is really nice having a close gap and not as hard as I was expecting. Getting into a good bedtime routine now will make life much easier when the baby arrives!!

I can see a faint second line. It looks positive to me. It's unlikely to be hormones from your last pregnancy. Call your GP for an appointment to confirm. It may seem like the end of the world now but once the shock wears off, you'll be able to think straight.

I'm going to test again in a couple of days, but I think you're all right.

DP is not going to be happy

I didnt even need to click on the photo to see it op

Sorry its not what you wanted

Definitely positive. I hope you feel better about it once the news sinks in and come on here for support if you need it. Your partner played his part in this so don't worry too much about how he will feel just now, look after yourself first.

Definitely positive, sorry. Tbf your husband has no right to be unhappy with it/you, you didn't do it by yourself!

It's not hormones from your last pregnancy.
The hormone that makes the line show on a pregnancy test is called HCG.
We only produce the HGC hormone when we are pregnant. The hormone levels of HCG gradually decrease during pregnancy - which is why most women who have morning sickness get it worse during the first trimester. This is when HCG levels are at their highest. And HCG contributes to the feeling naseous / vomiting every twenty minutes.

I'm so sorry that it's not good news for you.
But it's a baby, not cancer. And as the mother you have choices.
Don't rush, don't panic.
But I would look at your method of contraception as it's obviously not working very well since you don't want a baby right now.

I'm not going to tell DP for the time being, I purposely didn't tell him that I had suspicions and was going to take a test. His reaction was so stressful when we found out I was pregnant last time. I have no idea what to do and I have no one irl to talk to

Hope you're okay OP. If you have no one close IRL, perhaps book an appointment with your GP and they can find you someone to talk it through with? Not easy with a baby I know, but there is support out there.

There's always support on here. I'd just sit with it for now and maybe see how you feel in a few days. Do you have any family or trusted friends you could swear to secrecy, a trusted work colleague even?

He reaction was bad last time? Well why didn't he put a rubber on it?!?

Surely he must have learnt by now how not to have a baby.

There should still be time for an abortion if you don't want/can't afford another child right now.

Were you using contraception? Either way your dp has no reason to be angry with you; it takes two to tango so to speak.

It's really not helpful to be suggesting contraception should have been used - even if it was used, it's not always 100% reliable.

OP I think you need to tell your OH ASAP. It's not fair to keep it to yourself. You can make the right decision for you both, together.

I'm EBF and I haven't had a period since giving birth, I thought we were covered. I'm a idiot and embarrassed of myself.

I have no idea what to do. I hate the idea of having a termination.

NC with my family and I don't have friends. So no, no one to confide in. 😔