TTC after pregnancy loss - lucky thread 13

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

Hi guys I couldn't see a new thread so hope you don't mind me starting it off @BertieBotts ?

@mummykezza I'm sure I ovulated about 16 days after my miscarriage started (I passed the sac the morning after I started bleeding so was quite quick really) I had ridiculous amounts of EWCM (like literally the most I've every had) and then had a positive opk then the EWCM went away a day or 2 later. So currently in the 2ww, I guess will only know for sure if I really did ovulate if I get pregnant. With my other miscarriages we waited a month as advised so I didn't bother with opks so don't know if ovulated quite so soon with those ones...

@purplepjs sorry to hear your story. Wishing you lots of luck for the next cycle xx

Sorry I don't know how to tag.. but yeah, fillybee it's very weird. Been crying on and off all day, just so lost and confused. Don't think I could handle another loss. But it's not like my period to be late, ever. Also with previous miscarriage I'm so shocked that my doctor isn't taking me seriously. Probably because I'm already a young mum. Quite unfair really xx

@Fillybee Awesome, someone to share my craziness with I'm not sure, I think I'll try to hold out until 11dpo but I can't promise anything! 12dpo is the day my period is due so I guess I'll know either way! FX for you!

haybay - that's good, fingers crossed it won't take long the second time around either.

We are unexplained, I ovulate, his sperm is great, just no baby

becca I'm sorry your doctor isn't being supportive either. I'm not sure why you are getting mixed pregnancy teat results. Wait until the morning and see what happens. Sorry you find yourself in this situ.

kerry I do have two children but oddly my second took 18 months to conceive. They couldn't work out why, we had all the tests, swallowed all the right pills, didn't drink much etc etc it just took a stupid long time. I guess I'm saying I hope you will get there in the end too.

NoCatsHere I've just started bleeding and got severe cramps so looks like it was chemical. Totally devestated. Thanks though ladies, massive help. Laying in bed looking at my little boy and thankful I've had atleast one successful pregnancy with a very beautiful healthy little boy. Will phone dr on Monday morning and get an appointment to find out when it'll be safe to ttc again. Thanks again ladies x

I'm so sorry becca.

Thanks nocats ❤️ I'm hopeful it will happen for us in the end

I'm so sorry Becca 💔

Really sorry @Beccasx what a rollercoaster for you xx

Oh Becca I'm so sorry 💖 Making babies is so stressful :( xx

purple sorry for your loss 💖 I'm glad you've joined. I love this thread, The ladies are so lovely and supportive xx

kezza i ovulated late this cycle (immediate after mc ) on cd 21 when I normally ovulate cd13 of a 26day cycle.

filly mine was over so quick too. Everything passed within 5 hours. Had a bit of period-medium flow on and off the next day and then spotting on and off for a couple of days then by day 5 after nothing atall.
I'm surprised it was so quick with it being at 12+5 it feels odd.. like it never happened to me. I feel very strange about it all tbh.

Scared my test tomorrow will be negative 😣. I'll update in the morning. Goodnight ladies xx

@Beccasx I’m so sorry 

Hello to anyone new, sorry you find yourselves here. We’re a very supportive group.

@BlueeSpottyTiger wishing you all the luck! It’d be great to have another bfp on this thread!

Aswell as the chemical starting lastnight me and my partner have split up. I'm totally devestated now.. all because I told him it was happening again while he was out at a pub with a few mates and didn't even bother to phone or even text to make sure I was okay. Didn't get in until 5 in the morning. Only person I had for support has turned their back against me. Sorry for having a moan ladies, just feels like the whole world is out to get me right now

Oh becca, I'm so sorry, you poor thing. I think men often have a totally different experience of these things and have no idea of the depth of sadness we go through. They don't have anywhere near the intensity of the 2ww, listening to every twinge and analysing every symptom. and for you this month it has been an enormous rollercoaster of wondering and hoping and feeling distraught. I wonder if, after a bit of space, you might be able to describe to him what a huge and devastating thing you have been through this month....tell him clearly how you hoped to be supported. I'm so sorry. X

becca oh no :( that's mean.
I hope you can sort things out. You need him now more than ever! Why are men so insensitive sometimes 😐 xx

I think I'm actually pregnant again Yellow The test is darker today! Still faint but much more obvious, no squinting needed.. I'll post a pic when it's abit lighter as natural light helps in pictures. I feel abit shocked. X

I'm so sorry @Beccasx. Can you get together with him to chat things over? Emotions can run really high in these situations.

Yay so pleased for you @BlueeSpottyTiger! Great news. Have you had any symptoms?

I'm having trouble controlling my anxiety. I'm around 3 dpo and absolutely convinced that this cycle hasn't worked. I'm completely symptomless. I can't remember how many dpo my symptoms started last time either, so can't compare it to that.

To be honest, I don't really want to see him. Right now I'm just angry and disappointed. First mc he was great, so I don't understand why he's being so insensitive right now. Probably because it's a little earlier he thinks it doesn't matter. Whatever the reason, I'm not ready to hear it just now. Thanks ladies x

flatwhite Thankyou x
Not really any symptoms atall apart from some period style cramps around 3/4dpo, odd pains in my pelvic area on both sides around 7dpo with a warm sensation in the left side as i was falling to aleep and cramps yesterday and the night before.

I never get sore boobs only did with dd around 20weeks.

I actually had a feeling of being pregnant that came over me (as bloody weird as that sounds) I wrote it in my memo pad on my phone on the 2nd of October.

flat 3dpo is sooo early, please don't worry yourself xx

becca I'm so sorry he's not being supportive right now. Like others have said it doesn't matter how far along you are it hurts to see that line, you become a mother in that instant and then have it taken away is absolutely devestating. We all get it, men don't have those feelings in the same way. It doesn't happen to their body. See if you have a break and then can talk about it with him.

bluee that is ace news! Looking forward to seeing the photo! We all love a bfp line on here!!

My af has been really short and lighter this month which I hope isn't a problem. I normally am over in about 4 days or so, but this time more like 3 and very light...

I can see why that would upset you so much becca. Is he dad to your little boy? I'm sorry you're going through so much at once 😔

blue - that's awesome! 🎉 I've got everything crossed for you

No he isn't Hun. And he used that against me lastnight, my sons dad left as soon as I told him I was pregnant

I'm out. Bfn this am at 10 or 11 dpo.

Bean Sorry for bfn
Implantation can take up to 12days and then the hcg needs a few days to build to show on your test. Your not out until the witch is about 🤞 xx

Here's my pic today, Still looks faint but im only 9 or 10dpo. This test is more pink and obvious then yesterdays. I have 2 more frers so will check for the next 2days to see if they darken more.

Maybe this is a better one!?