October Bus - More treats than tricks please!

[HolyShmoly]

I'm off the September Bus before it even leaves the station and thanks to my longer cycle I thought I'd start the October page.

TTC #1
Cycle #3
BFP due October 4th

Hi, I’m new to this by thought I’d join in on the bus. I’m 33 on Thursday.

TTC since Jan 2017, had bfp in July which ended up as early miscarriage in August. This is my first cycle trying after the miscarriage. Currently 9dpo. I have wacky cycles ranging from 28-37 days, and luteal phases that seem to range from 8-11 days. This month is super unusual as I ovulated on CD 17, almost a whole week earlier than I normally do. Part of me is thinking maybe my ovulation was better/stronger this month. Fingers crossed right?

Bfn again. I've decided to stop testing, as I'm just too upset to keep going. 2 cycles failed, despite DTD at exactly the right time. No kids to focus on. No reassurance from any previous pregnancies that I can carry a baby. No sore boobs either, so something is clearly going on with my hormone levels. I hate my body so much. 😥

Wrong thread! Sorry ladies. That was meant for a miscarriage thread.

Happy to hear some of us getting Bfps, and of course sorry to hear about any bfns. Am completely deflated today. I caved and tested yday, which was about 11dpo for me I think. I did a cheap line test first and thought I saw the faintest of faint lines, I mean this was practically not there it was so light! Anyway, I then used a CB digital, and got bfn (what a waste of a test!) I know it's still early (AF not due until Wednesday) but I thought the digi would be sensitive enough. Anyway, had loads of symptoms, nausea, smell, tender boobs, also on 10dpo had major cramping, diff to normal tho, more like mini contractions, never get any kind of cramping week before AF. Basically have gone from feeling this could be it, to no, it's not the month Only first cycle of ttc no. 2, so don't know why am feeling so gutted, but I am. Sorry for the long winded post, just needed to say this somewhere. Best of luck to all you ladies

Bfn at 11 dpo this morning. I've decided to stop testing as it's just making me cry! I just want my lost baby back, and all of this is intensifying my loss. It's so so crap. I was so naive before when TTC for the first time thinking it was a bit stressful. Not compared to this!

Oh flatwhite... I'm really sorry you're having such a difficult time at the moment

Hi all,

Glad to see some BFP's have arrived recently and sorry to those who have seen AF or are still waiting. I'm on CD43 and still not sure if I've ovulated. I had strong opks and clear ewcm last week or so, then I got a uti. I had a temperature rise for two days, today it is back to my follicular range and I still have a strong opk. I'm guessing I haven't ovulated but my temp rose to fight off the uti ... but not sure...?

Friend announced she was pregnant yesterday and saw her this afternoon. Curled up on the sofa feeling sorry for myself now, waiting for the mother in law to start her hints she wants grandkids as we're round their's.

I would almost prefer an anovulatory cycle and a bleed just so I could start again. My 'cycle' before last was well over a 100 days, from January to August. I had one regular cycle now this rubbish again!

Thanks for letting me vent! I need this ... though if my temps stay down for the next few days I guess I'll have to move onto the November cycle.

I'm out. AF arrived two days early. I should be looking forward to my 20 week scan, but instead I've got AF (which is completely symptom free, so I'm also worrying my hormone levels aren't right). So down. Good luck to the rest of you.

I did this today with FMU. AF is due today. The only thing we did differently this month is go for a weekend break during ovulation time. It was with family so not even like more sex happened!
Really hope everyone else’s BFP comes soon. This is my 10th month of trying

Congrats @Enwi and I'm sorry @Flatwhite31 xxx

I’ve been lurking and reading here but too scared to post. It’s been a great comfort to read though. I got my bfp today on a digital - due date will be around 1st July I think so i’ve just made a july 18 thread as I think i’ll just miss the June one. Congratulations to everyone with bfps and sorry to those with AF 😞

Ah congrats @HarryPotterandtheSAHM :) x

On October bus :) if you don't mind me joining

TTC #1
Cycle: 1
CD: 25(I think) 26 (ovia)
BFP/AF due: 26th Oct
Currently: 5dpo

I'm so sorry @flatwhite. I hope you are feeling ok

Congrats HarryPotterandtheSAHM and Enwi Good luck Gem173! Sorry Flatwhite31, I am also out this month as AF just arrived this morning . Had a little cry, but trying to be positive now, am off over to the November bus, and best of luck to any ladies here waiting for a BFP x

@flatwhite i'm so sorry, that must be really tough.
Congrats on the BFP's @Harrypotter and @Enwi
I'm in my tww just now so been trying to stay off here and distract myself, af due next friday (27th) Really hoping this is our month but not feeling very hopeful!
When's everyone else due af/bfp?

@merrz due 26th October :)

Bfp here

Let's see what happens...

@60sname congrats ! How many dpo are you?

Thanks Gem173!

I think I am 16dpo, AF was due today. Got a much better line than Monday

@60sname wow I'm trying to wait till 14dpo, got a lonnggg wait

It is @Merrz. I should be 20 weeks today. It's so so hard. I'm not one of these people that falls pregnant straight away either.

I'm 4dpo today and have the worst boob ache of my life. No idea what's going on. I've never had it like this before. Feels like a whole village of clog dancers have set up camp inside my breasts! Anyone else had a weird day like this?

I'm annoying myself now. I'm about 6/7dpo (based on my app and CM) and was copiously sick last night. Naturally this was in no way caused by something I ate - noooo, it has to be baby related! Stupid brain. I mean, I know that it's possible to have implantation at around the 6dpo mark but I'd be surprised if it could cause proper Linda Blair-esque vomiting. It's the hope that kills you, isn't it?

Oh, @Flatwhite31 Lots of and un-Mumsnetty hugs for you.