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Hoping for a BFP in May

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youngmummy3105 · 25/04/2017 10:01

I had light brown spotting last night and thought it may have been ovulation as i was 11dpo but nope. AF arrived early this morning! Hopefully May will be my the lucky month!

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HansSolo22 · 02/05/2017 22:07

Thanks imoasta & young! I am still holding out hope and staying positive! I will try to hold out until Friday (although i said that before so we'll see!). Fingers crossed for everyone still in with a chance this month, we'll all get there in the end!!

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robinhoodswife · 02/05/2017 23:01

Haha DontBuyANewMumCashmere yes the womb ache has subsided thankfully! I am relatively convinced my boobs are bigger than usual, all my bras seem really laden down! Am feeling mega twitchy now...

Good luck ladies FX for us all xx

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scruffmacduff · 03/05/2017 16:30

AF is due tomorrow but no sign yet - I normally spot for a couple of days beforehand.
Been feeling sick, boobs feel tingly and I've tested each day for the last 3 days but still bfn.
With DD I got the faintest BFP on the day after AF was due so keeping everything crossed here!

Good luck to everyone still in xx

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PandaCat · 04/05/2017 08:12

Fx AF stays away for you!

I fee like it's coming. Got all the usual signs. Urgh.

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HansSolo22 · 04/05/2017 09:34

I was convinced this was going to be my month and i was getting lots of symptoms but they all seem to have disappeared now. AF is due anytime between tomorrow and Monday, my cycles have been a bit more varied since my MC in January. There's still hope though so I mustn't give up just yet!! FX though for us all who are still waiting, I think a few of us are all due around this weekend so hopefully there will be lots of Bfp's being shared soon Smile

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pocketfullofsunshine · 04/05/2017 16:21

Hey ladies. 8 days late for AF, but now thinking I've ovulated late. All hpt's are showing BFN :(
Was really hoping this month was my month now. Just want to either see my BFP or if it hasn't been my month, would like AF so I can try again!
Plus we're due to go away on 20th so don't want to be in the grasp of AF..

FX for all you ladies this month!!

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PhoenixMama · 04/05/2017 16:39

xTTC It could be an evap line or a chemical pregnancy or they could just be crap tests. You need a FRER!

young & Hans Amazon have 10 packs of the ClearBlue dual hormone for £16 which is cheap! I use just over half a box a cycle...

Welcome Imo well jel that you only have a few days!

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scruffmacduff · 04/05/2017 17:27

Hans and Panda I think we are all in the same boat! Period due today, has not arrived yet.
Pocket I've been getting negative tests too. Have you tried a frer? I might try one on Saturday if AF isn't here by then. This tww nonsense is bloody stressful!

BrewCake for everyone

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PandaCat · 04/05/2017 18:25

I agree scruff! I've driven myself crazy, it's so easy to symptom spot obsessively and test etc.

My cycles very from 27-30 days. Today is day 30 but my app has calculated tomorrow is when it should arrive. I do feel like AF is gonna turn up. Going to the cinema tomorrow so I hope if it is going to show it's face it waits until Saturday haha.

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DontBuyANewMumCashmere · 04/05/2017 18:30

You guys who are due soon (I'm not due for another week) have you been testing too? In which case are they negatives and you're waiting for AF?
I can't wait to test on Sat (5days before etc) and am a ball of nerves.
FX to everyone Flowers

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PandaCat · 04/05/2017 18:33

I've tested, I had an evap and negatives after (how I know it must have been an evap).

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KeepingItReal2017 · 04/05/2017 18:42

@dontbuyanewmumcashmere - I tested too early, BFN, obviously. AF due Sunday/Monday/Tuesday... can already tell this isn't my month as have period pains, sore boobs and PMS! I will probably torture myself until AF arrives that there is a slim hope... Decided that if I go into a 5th cycle of trying I am buying the digital OPK! This is so frustrating Sad

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broodynmoody · 04/05/2017 18:46

Hi ladies...I'm just popping in from the infertility boards. Egg collection and transfer this month..

I'm hoping for a BFP in May!

EC commencing 22nd may and the transfer

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ForeverHopeful21 · 04/05/2017 18:52

I've been stalking the thread for a while.
Hope no one minds me joining in ...I've got symptom spotting syndrome and need to be in discussions where I'm not going to sound too crazy ha!
I had a MC in March at 12 weeks and this is cycle no.1 of TTC ...again. I'm currently in the 2ww and wishing the time away. I have very irregular cycle so I'm due AF anywhere between 13th-20th May.
Fingers crossed.
And good luck those who are due AF soon!! xxx

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DontBuyANewMumCashmere · 04/05/2017 19:11

Hello forever I think we were on the same board together. Bad luck, and fx for you here. Flowers

OK thanks, I have read evap lines on MN before but never really knew what they are - Google has taught me and I will be avoiding that pitfall.
Keeping it's awful as many of my pg symptoms are just like pms so I'm sitting here with a bloated tummy telling myself I can feel my womb I actually said this to myself earlier. What a mug. If I am pg I can only be 7 days anyway!

Just turning into an unhealthy obsession.
First pg so straightforward and this mc has really knocked me for six. Even if it is a +ve I will be totally paranoid until 12 week scan. I plan to get an early scan if I do have a result.

Just starting to really over think everything.
I'm so glad I can post here, poor DH must be sick of me chuntering away by now.

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ImoAsta · 04/05/2017 19:21

Wow a lot has happened in the thread since I last checked earlier hehe!

Han, Scruff and Panda you're not out until you're out lovelies! I hope AF stays away!

Pocket I'm sorry it's so frustrating! I've heard of people having to wait a little while after their missed AF to get a clear result. I hope it's not long for you!

Hi Phoenix! I got a surprise AF last week unfortunately so I'm just waiting for my fertile week again! Not long now hehe

Cashmere hold on in there, I know how frustrating the wait can be. Have you been keeping note of the symptoms?

Keeping I recommend the digital OPKs. I get so confused with the others!

Broody Good Luck for 22nd May! Let us know how it all goes!

Forever sorry for hear of your loss. Flowers FX for you!

I hope everyone is well and not going too crazy if you are in the tww!
Sorry for the long post hehe

Xx

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KeepingItReal2017 · 04/05/2017 19:25

dontbuya and forever I don't know how ppl can NOT symptom spot!

I am making a mental promise to not test until AF is late. And if its not my month, then I will drink cocktails for a day, then focus on the next cycle!

Positive thinking and happy vibes.... (she says whilst obsessively checking CM and boobs!)

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Serendipper · 04/05/2017 19:34

Hi All,

I'm looking for advice and in a bit of a flap!

I've just poas and I can't tell if it's positive or not or just lying to me! What do you all think?

I've been lurking for a while but not really trying yet just not being careful, I'm also expecting to have some difficulty getting pregnant (I've always thought I would!)

Is this a + to you? It's a cheaply Sainsbury's one. Does that make a difference??

Thanks

Hoping for a BFP in May
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PandaCat · 04/05/2017 19:40

Looks like a + to me Serendipper! :)

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ImoAsta · 04/05/2017 20:03

@Serendipper looks like a + to me too!!! Star

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Mayesdanni25 · 04/05/2017 20:38

Today 19:38 Mayesdanni25

Hi guys I'm new here so please bare with me.
I have a question, I have irregular periods, finished af last Thursday but had bright red spot on that day just one bit and only on the tissue. Since then I've had cramps, nausea, sore boobs and major headaches, and I've been sleeping 12+ and still wanting more, when I normally only sleep for about 7ish hours.
I started doing opk test and it's flashing smiley at me the last 4 days which I thought was way too early as I only stopped af last Thursday?? I took a pregnancy test today and it was negative sad
Please can anyone offer advice or been through similar sircs?

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scruffmacduff · 04/05/2017 21:11

Hi Mayes

Opks tell you when you are ovulating, they don't tell you if you are pregnant.

If your Opk is flashing, it means you are near your fertile days (I think it needs to be solid for it to be your day of ovulation).

If you are trying for a baby you should be having sex now. Given that your af finished a week ago, you definitely could be ovulating about now.

It would be unlikely that you have gotten pregnant in the last week and developed such strong symptoms in such a short space of time (and I say this kindly as a rampant symptom spotter myself!!) You need to wait until the day your period is due to take a test - do as I say and not as I do and all that Wink

Ladies correct me if any of this is wrong! Smile

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scruffmacduff · 04/05/2017 21:13

Also meant to say, you could be poorly? That gives me sore boobs, makes me really tired etc.

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Mayesdanni25 · 04/05/2017 21:39

Thank you for your reply.
I dtd 2 days before af I weren't sure if that counted you read so many different thinks on forums it confuses me more.
I'm terrible for symptom checking the slightest thing and that's it I've convinced myself I am. I have been bd the last 5 nights started off both days first two now on every other, it's my birthday at the end of the month I'm praying for a bfp birthday present

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scruffmacduff · 04/05/2017 21:55

I don't think you would have conceived if you've had a period since but fingers crossed for you for this cycle! Smile

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