No babe you're like most people lol in fact, I am worried about mentioning it coz I'm scared I will sound a bit kooky and mad 😂 but the way I see it, we are driving ourselves mad with this process anyway so I think we need to have an open mind. I'm putting myself at risk of total ridicule here but sod it!
Basically, I shall try and keep this as short as I can... we know from school and science, everything in the world is made of energy, atoms and waves. We are all atoms and we have our own energy and the most powerful energy we have is our minds. There's laws of gravity, laws of the poles (magnets etc) but hardly anyone knows about the law of attraction. It's just a case of controlling our own minds and harnessing its energy focusing it in the right direction.
Our minds are made from little bits of electric energy which attracts stuff to us like magnets, good or bad, it doesn't matter, it's energy. You know the saying "money goes to money" it's true! People who have money think positively about money so they attract more money into their lives. And the opposite is the same, we all know someone that's always ill, they tell themselves "oh I've got plans Saturday, I'm probably gonna be ill," and guess what, they get ill! Or you're running late for work and you say in your head "oh god I hope I don't get stuck in traffic" and guess what, roadworks everywhere. These are just tiny examples.
Basically, we need to keep a check of our self-talk and our mindset coz everything we think and most importantly FEEL has a frequency! Whether it's good or bad, we are giving that frequency out and attracting it like a magnet! It's hard but we have to keep focusing on the end result, being pg and having a healthy baby 💕 really FEEL it, put yourself there in your mind's eye and really feel that joy and happiness inside how you'd feel seeing that bfp and it WILL happen! But the more we focus on what we don't want (which is natural for most people, everyone thinks I don't want AF to come, I don't want to see that bfn) but that's what we talk about every day, that's what we give our attention and emotion to, that's what we are giving out, and that's what we are attracting.
Mindset is so important and I really hope you all don't think I'm bonkers lol I just figure where we are now, I don't think there's anything wrong with looking outside the box and focusing on the positive thoughts and feelings!! If anyone honestly thinks this is total bollocks, I won't be surprised lol I won't be offended and I won't think anyone is stupid for not believing it 😂
But if you've got some spare time, I would definitely recommend watching this film on YouTube. It's called The Secret. It's very weird lol I laughed when I first watched it but I've seen it about 10 times now and I keep it saved on my playlist coz I tell you what, when I'm feeling down and like the world is on top of me, I take myself off and watch it start to finish and it reminds me to just try and keep my thoughts and feelings on the right side- positive!!
And even if you don't believe in any of it and think it's all total bull, the worst thing that will happen is you at least try and feel a little more positive inside and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that is there 😊