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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx

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Hippychic79 · 17/02/2017 10:23

So we've maxed out our first thread, the positivity is building up nicely and we're joyfully moving on to a brand new thread...

This thread is for anyone TTC and is bursting with positivity, love and support as we cruise towards our BFP's.

New rules instead of saying AF due we say BFP due ...
Also you do not have to add your age or what cycle number you're on if you don't want to ...

The ultimate aim is to get everyone to destination BFP ASAP...
however the bus ride may take a little longer for some of us ...
it doesn't matter if you take the scenic route ...
as long you get there.

So plug in your stats and off we go xxx

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BellaMoon · 21/02/2017 21:24

@charley thanks 😁 i had assumed as much but DH harping on did make me wonder a little 🙈 xx

Somethingtotalkabout1982 · 21/02/2017 21:28

@Salem near enough positive, keep testing but also keep dtd!!

So tonight I feel unbelievably tired and moody, like proper angry moody for no reason. I'm hoping this is a good sign...

Hippychic79 · 21/02/2017 21:29

Pineapple science bit xxx

#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx
#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx
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Somethingtotalkabout1982 · 21/02/2017 21:34

These are my nearly positive and then positive ones, nearly positive was on the Saturday night and then positive by the Sunday morning. I had a very feint one on the Saturday morning and prior to that no line at all. HTH.

#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx
Charley2016 · 21/02/2017 21:38

Ooh thanks hippy! I'll definitely get some! X

Blondienut · 21/02/2017 21:49

I've heard about the pineapple before and eaten the core!!! Slice it up fine!

Well ladies I'm D23 haven't a clue when to expect AF (last cycle 18 days and one before 28 days), positive opk this cycle D14 though. Have cramps AF pains- low down and loads of creamy/pale yellow cm (tmi!). Tired +++ this waiting game is yuck.....

Hope everyone is keeping their PMA!

Charley2016 · 21/02/2017 21:54

Blondie that all sounds very positive! Are you going to hold out over the 28days to test?

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 21/02/2017 21:58

Thanks for posting the pics something, it is nice to be able to compare OPKs!
Hippy thank you for the scientific pineapple info - you're so knowledgeable! I did go out and buy pineapple pots from the Co-Op (they're half price!) but not sure if they count or not.
FXTX (added toe crossing!) for you blondie! We need some BFPs on this thread.

So. Tmi. Just DTD. And when I went to clean up. There was pink when I wiped. Quite a bit. Am I giving my cervix a battering with this SMEP? I am sorry ladies but I have officially stepped into obsessive territory Sad.

Blondienut · 21/02/2017 22:14

I am not going to test until at least D28! Not being negative but not getting hopes up- dh was away for a good bit of FW so being realistic!

Salem did you ever have that before after dtd?

ArchiesMamaBird · 21/02/2017 22:33

Salem Could it be ovulation bleeding? I've had that on one cycle before. Especially if you've had cramps too. Maybe the OV test just isn't picking it up?

Charley2016 · 21/02/2017 22:53

Ooh Salem I had ovulation spotting a few cycles back too! I definitely think you're ovulating. My back is agony now. Dtd but was a bit useless to be honest haha! First time in a while that I just really couldn't be bothered and debated just not bothering but persevered. You are allowed to obsess, just do it positively haha likelihood is you ovulated and you dtd. That's all it takes Smile

Hippychic79 · 22/02/2017 06:17

Happy Wednesday lovelies xxx

#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx
#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx
#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx
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NannyGR · 22/02/2017 07:19

@bella
I really thought af had arrived but if it is its the lightest one I've ever had!!
Still feeling sick... especially this morning!
Have decided to test at the weekend anyway just to make sure!
When are you going to test again?

Fx to everyone else expecting a BFP soon Smile Flowers

Charley2016 · 22/02/2017 07:35

Eccentric and EMH how are you guys getting on? Hope you're both ok.

Nanny do you think it could be implantation? Sounds good, especially with the nausea.

Magpie and Glittery I hope AF stays away for you both today and you get your BFP!

These are my OPK from before bed on top and this morning on the bottom! So even more confused. I'll keep testing and dtd today and tomorrow and if nothing else shows I'll class ovulation as today I think.

#2 PMA all the way to BFP xxx
MrsT1234 · 22/02/2017 07:59

Morning everyone! How is everyone today?

I started the morning by liberally spraying my armpits with brunette batiste instead of deoderant. So that was awesome!
I didn't POAS today and trying very hard to wait until Friday - but I have a symptom spotting question.
Is burping really a symptom? I've had mild trapped wind in my chest since yesterday. The only other time I've had this I was pregnant.... but months pregnant not days.
Other than that I just feel pretty normal for this time of the month.
Ho hum - roll on Friday!! Smile

MrsT1234 · 22/02/2017 08:03

Hi Charley - what do you look for on the OPK? Is it 2 strong lines? I've not done them before but will start I think as part of my new proactive stance.

CakesALot · 22/02/2017 09:01

Hello ladies! I'm wondering if I can join you guys? I'm TTC #2 and I'm on cycle 4 (AF arrived today the meany).

DD is 2 and wonderful. No issues conceiving the first 2 times - I had a miscarriage prior to DD, but this one is proving a bit tricky. My cycles have been all over the shop too which is unusual for me. This last one was bang on 28 days though. Getting the OPKs out for the first time ever for this month.

Hope you're all well this morning!

Somethingtotalkabout1982 · 22/02/2017 09:17

I have a really strong metallic taste in my mouth and boobs are tingly. Seems very early though as not due to test until Monday, which would be 14 DPO.

Hippychic79 · 22/02/2017 09:19

Salem Reference your opks, I noticed you’re using the 20 pack dual hormone ones, and you know I’m using the 10 pack which are slightly different. Anyway reference the cost, I contacted CB and asked them why they didn’t just sell re-fill strips and why I have to keep buying the digital reader. CB’s response was that the digital reader only lasts two cycles and that’s why they discontinued the 20pack of the OPK’s that I’m using. So I’m wondering whether the digital reader could either be faulty or be running out.

Archies - that’s really lucky that you got all those freebies, thank you for sharing. Shame they’ve stopped the trial but worth keeping our eyes out ladies. I’m thinking I might need a second mortgage to pay for these OPK’s and PG tests soon!

Charley Looks like you’re close to ovulating, fxls (fingers crossed legs spread). I only test once a day with first morning urine. When I first started with the IC’s I was POAS twice a day and confused myself too much as the lines went from light to non-existent back to light. I know if you drink too much that can affect the result and your supposed to hold your pee for 4 hours…. Like a child, I can’t manage this. It’s only CD13 for you today and if you don’t normally ovulate till 13 or 14 I’d try and stay calm (says the stress head over here who is having the exact same fear thoughts as my OPK line seemed lighter this morning (CD12) and I usually ovulate on 14 or 15).

Magpie Not long to go now, we’re all rooting for you. Do not entertain thoughts of secondary infertility at this stage, just relax (says the stress head over here) and stay positive.

Bella You’re spot on hun, the smiley OPK does add to #PMA. Fingers crossed you’re still testing too early, but remember you have another 3 prep cycles before you have to officially start counting lol. And reference the dtd during the 2ww – I’ve read that when ttc you should have sex regularly throughout the entire cycle to keep the sperm fresh and flowing.

MrsT Yes the pity party is shit, we’ve all been to it and occasionally we pop back, only to be reminded how rubbish it is. Our motto on here is that every month we are one step closer to our BFP. Do not entertain thoughts of secondary infertility at this stage, just relax (says the stress head over here) and stay positive. I have read that burping is a symptom. Eeeeeek fingers crossed for you too

Salem Reference your comment that you worry you won’t be able to have DC’s – I think this is completely normal when you haven’t got any, especially when you’re in your thirties as we’re brainwashed to believe that it gets harder. I’ve read this is bollocks, the only reason the stats are skewed is because over the many years they’ve been collecting data, most women conceive in their twenties and on the whole less women try in their 30’s and 40’s. Don’t buy into this…. Remember we all bought into ‘have unprotected sex once and you’ll get pregnant’ that was clearly bollocks too! I think you would really benefit from meditation and pregnancy affirmations to get your subconscious mind fully on board. Just google getting pregnant affirmations and loads come up. Record them on your phone and listen to them as much as possible.
In terms on your results pics, they look fairly positive so I would just carry on dtd as much as possible and try not to stress (easier said than done from the hypocrite over here)

Dolly If you’ve still got a positive OPK just keep dtd as much as possible I say.

MrsB You are a trooper, we’re all rooting for your BFP, you’ve got so much patience. My friend runs a lot and she doesn’t have periods, she’s really slim. Maybe you should eat some cake and run less, but then if you enjoy it and you want to do it, then go for it.

Something Fingers firmly crossed for your BFP. Metallic taste is definitely a symptom …. Eeeeeeeek excited for you

Blondie Not long to go until your BFP. Will you be testing early? How long are your cycles hun?

NannyG This sounds promising, good will power holding out till the weekend! Fingers firmly crossed for you too. Keep us posted please.

Cakes Welcome to thread PMA. Sorry to hear you have AF but you’re in the right place for fun and support from some lovely ladies.

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BellaMoon · 22/02/2017 09:29

morning all

thanks @hippy for the quotes - a smile in the morning can set you up for the day (particularly if it's a sadistic smile that scares the shit out of DH mwahahaha 😈)

i am happy to report that i did not POAS this morn, first time in almost a fortnight haha. i'm now a bit "aware" of my area, not crampy, not bloated, nothing really, just, well, kinda tingly? did i just say that? it's the only way i can describe it.

BFP due anytime from tomorrow til saturday - will keep y'all posted.

FX for all the OPKS and BFPs 😁

@nanny, omg i'm feeling it for you i really am. obviously not psychic sally here (DH calls my psycho sally during AF) but it's all sounding positive

@salem i'm baffled by your OPKS results, i think you're doing the right thing tho and carry on regardless (that'd be a good line for a song don't you think - hardy har)

xx

BellaMoon · 22/02/2017 09:31

sorry @salem OPKS comment was for @charley xx

CakesALot · 22/02/2017 09:31

Thank you hippy xx

For the stats
33
TTC #2
Cycle 4
CD1 (is that right?! Feel like such a novice!)
BFP due March 21st

ArchiesMamaBird · 22/02/2017 09:37

Something I've heard that a metallic taste is an early pg symptom too. FX for you Smile

I'm on my 6th day of a flashing smiley now, so still no peak ov day! Just going to keep DTD according to SMEP and hope for the best.

Hippy I've been using the same Clearblue digital reader for 4 months now and it seems to still be working fine and is accurate for when I OV (according to BBT tracking too). I think Clearblue might just be saying that to get us to part with our hard earned cash even more!

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 22/02/2017 09:44

Thanks for the wise words Hippy. Yes I will have a look for the affirmations. I think I just need some reassurance!
Crazy about the digital OPKs! I can't believe they'd make them so they wouldn run out/ not work. At least it gives me an excuse to use them and not panic about wasting them. Not sure I would buy the 20pc again. They were £19!

Thanks Bella. I am going to do another opk about 2pm and see what I get. I hope it's strong! Good luck for BFP!

Something FX for your BFP tomorrow! Have you decided how to tell your DH/P?

Welcome Cakes and sorry to hear it's proving tricky this time around. OPKs will definitely help, if only to give you piece of mind.

Morning MrsT I can't Say I have heard burping is a symptom but why wouldn't it be?! Fx for you!

Charley they look close to positive - test again around 2pm after you've held your pee for a few hours? And like pp said, don't drink lots.

Nanny eeeek I am excited for your BFP!

Charley & Archies I have never heard of ovulation spotting before, it could be! But I think it is DH being erm a bit too vigorous Blush.

Does anyone have any plans today? It's raining here. What a shame I'm going to have to stay inside and drink tea by the fire all day Wink.

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 22/02/2017 09:45

Bloody hell my grammar and spelling in that is atrocious.
peace of mind not piece of mind...