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Thread 24. TTC #1 - It's been a tough start to the year but 2017 is still the year of the BFP

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AlexiaB · 15/01/2017 13:57

Calling all OPK-ers, Temp-ers, Clomid-ers, Femara-ers, IUI-ers, IVF-ers and anyone else on the TTC #1 Bus.

It's not been the best start of the year for most but we're still trying to keep it PMA Star

We've been going a while now so the novelty has somewhat worn off and we're slightly battle scarred and bruised in the cervix area. We've ditched the Gregorian calendar in favour of the TTC Cycle Day calendar, and we don't get a lot of baby dust in these here parts, we just keep it legs spread and fingers crossed (LSFX). We love a baby bomb from a prior bus-mate but if we get told to 'just relax and enjoy it' ONE MORE TIME you will get a punch in the face!

We have a new Grad's Thread. We recently lost a whole load of ttc veterans to the good side and we're absolutely desperate to join in the fun! May 2017 lead us all to upduffed heaven and the Grad's thread, amen.

We don't have rules as such but expect to be talked down from the ledge with kind but firm words if you get too hysterical. But most importantly, don't convince yourself that you're pregnant in the tww. That is paramount!

Hop on board, post your stats and prepare to be dazzled by the wealth of TTC knowledge we long-timeys have to share...

Thread 24. TTC #1 - It's been a tough start to the year but 2017 is still the year of the BFP
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Flashinthepan · 30/01/2017 16:49

Can you save fmu and use it later in the day?

SmittenPears · 30/01/2017 17:25

sk1pper, sending good vibes. Cake

If these aren't PG symptoms, AF is coming in a big way. Had more spotting this morning, it was pinky... becoming skeptical.... :s

Flash, you def can, but I've read if it's for more than a couple of hours you want to put it in the fridge (ew, lol)

kwick · 30/01/2017 18:04

flash I do not want to encourage the madness but symptoms sound VERY interesting!!!

Good luck to the testers - my expectation is BFPs galore!!!!

jam dropping phone in loo is my worst nightmare- well one of many!!! I really should stop taking phone to loo!!

harriet really hope you get it!!!

kathrino whilst not exactly pleasant, scans during AF are generally "easier"...

sk1pper FFS you could do with a break from the pain Angry

Sorry for AF missy Flowers

Exhausted... I want my bed!!!

sk1pper · 30/01/2017 18:16

I think the pain has died down... sometimes I ovulate from both sides, so just waiting for the other side to have its turn...possibly.

Got my fluffy socks on Kwick and chopping up my pineapple. Witness me senpai!

Poppet8583 · 30/01/2017 18:31

Hello everyone! Haven't posted much on here but have been reading the thread. AF is due 10th Feb and I have a regular cycle so won't be testing until after that date if she doesn't arrive (here's hoping). I've been really busy at work recently and I'm going on holiday next week so it's all a welcome distraction from TTC!

As I'm not using OPKs or temping, I don't know for sure when I ovulate so decided to just DTD regularly throughout this cycle and see what happens. Fingers crossed!

Hope everyone is doing well, fingers crossed for all of you waiting to test x

Pyjamas81 · 30/01/2017 18:38

Wow what a busy Monday day on here!

Good to hear ov pain has died down skipper - I've got so much crossed for you!

Lots of interesting symptoms flying around as well - eeeeep!

Sorry to hear about AF missy - she's such a mofo 😡

4dpo over here - this is my favourite part of the TWW. Knowing we did our best in FW and enjoying being temporarily BBT and OPK free, next week will be a different matter am sure! Nothing to report other than some minor womble pains (probably wind), extreme fartyness, and goddamn rash is still on my face. It is actually a rash rather than spots - make up helps, but hate that bumpy look - bah.

CarleyColie · 30/01/2017 19:00

Just having a quick catch up of the thread after not being on a couple of days.. lots of promising symptom spotting going on! I'm excited for the next lot of testers to see some BFPs!

Anyone got any tips for surviving the TWW?? It's my first one and I was sure I'd be cool, calm and collected.. but at 7DPO I've turned into a crazy lady prodding my boobs every 10 mins to try and find a symptom Blush Blush

Pugmummy87 · 30/01/2017 19:21

Sooo many of you in the tww! I am predicting a glutton of bfps coming. London I have a feeling about this being your month, I really would be estastic for you.

flash your chart is fab, I reckon if you get several more high temps than you are probably pregnant.

Harriet good luck on your house offer. Hope it's accepted.

Sorry about AF missy CakeFlowers

Hmmm so cd 19 here. Possibly felt some ovulation pain on my left side this morning. However have also felt a tad windy today, so maybe it was just that! Come on ovaries, pop one out and get on with it will you!

MissyJones80s · 30/01/2017 19:22

carly I'd say try not to preg symptom spot (which is super hard I know) but quite a lot of symptoms of preg are same as AF so it's either confusing or disappointing. Do keep track of how you feel though if you figure out how your body feels at certain times of the month it can help! I'm going to give temping a proper go this month after failing last month haha. Obvs fx for BFP this month Smile

kwick · 30/01/2017 20:01

Well done sk1pper here have some Cake

Oooo where you going poppet major jealousy sets in

carley welcome to two weeks of torture!!!! Apart from following the tops tips (pineapple, warm feet and so on) get plenty of sleep, and try to keep a positive frame of mind Grin remember you cannot trust the boobs!!!

Speaking of PMA I am PUPO (pregnant until proven otherwise - 8 weeks today).

Peaches8Posies · 30/01/2017 20:28

Evening ladies. Just heading in to FW and trying to not over think it this month (hence the lack of posting, sorry). To be honest I don't think there's anything different I can do. Been there, seen it, bought the t-shirt! Just need to wait and see Hmm.

Looks like there's a good number coming up for testing. Law of averages means we are definitely due a few more bfp's Smile. Fx everyone Flowers.

Looking forward to date night with OH this weekend. Have a comedy night booked, hopefully plenty of laughs to take our minds of ttc.

kwick love the PUPO Grin. Just keep visualising those lovely scan pics you have had and those still to come x

AlexiaB · 30/01/2017 20:38

Missy I think that's a good idea :) You can't forget if you set an alarm for the same time every morning, when you will have had at least 3 hours solid sleep. I don't think different pjs will matter as my temps are either low or high with the same pjs, blankets and sleeping conditions.

Hurrah for new phone Jam. Your symptoms sounds promising. It's such a hard balance between wanting it so badly but trying to protect your heart at the same time.

Carley you've already had some great advice. I keep a note of how I feel for reference but try my best to keep distracted. If you want to test - set a date (like 12-14dpo depending on LP) and stick to it. Some months are worse than others though! It's hard to stop the crazy once it sets in.

Kwick do you have another scan soon? Great PMA.

Thick socks on, hot chocolate and Bachelor in Paradise. That's my evening sorted Brew

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AlexiaB · 30/01/2017 20:42

Hi Peaches - don't worry, enjoy your relaxed cycle. I really, really hope it pays off for you! Sounds like you've got some lovely distractions lined up Smile

Pug hope your golden egg is on route asap!

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kwick · 30/01/2017 20:57

Alexia I just watched Bachelor in Paradise - Aishlee is such a B I T C H!!!
Next scan week Thursday... you think 2ww is bad!

peaches what scan pics? None given so far 😢

Poppet8583 · 30/01/2017 21:16

Kwick I'm going skiing so it will definitely keep me occupied!

Peaches8Posies · 30/01/2017 21:26

Thanks alexia. Staying awatpy from apps, wee sticks etc... see how it goes. Still checking in routing for our bfp's though Smile

kwick apologies. Did they not give you a wee copy of your scan you have had? I've obviously just assumed they did. My friend went through NHS treatment and got a pic of her wee blob/bean at 6 wks. Oh well, something good to look forward too then, your first little pic Smile.

sk1pper · 30/01/2017 21:32

Kwick - you are absolutely, positively and most wonderfully 100% pregnant xx Cake

Flashinthepan · 30/01/2017 21:36

My nipples hurt now and I'm burping every 5 mins. If I'm not pregnant then life is unfair, and I may have a rare and exotic medical condition!

Ahh kwick you're doing so well with the waiting.

Is 11 dpo too early to test tomorrow if I'm due af on Wednesday/Thursday? I have no idea when to test as last time I took a test I was already a week overdue as I didn't realise.

I'm glad other people are symptom spotting with me. jam I have my fx for you, and everyone else too of course!

I went to yoga today, it was lovely. Acupuncture tomorrow. I'm wondering if my acupuncturist will be able to detect pregnancy!

Peaches8Posies · 30/01/2017 21:55

flash if you have a sensitive enough test then you may well get a result tomorrow with fmu. Fx FlowersSmile

harrietm87 · 30/01/2017 21:57

flash I am SO hopeful for you - exciting!!!

Thanks so much everyone for the good wishes on the house! Despite saying they'd get back to us by end of day they haven't. So it's probably bad news but still have a glimmer of hope. It's distracting me from ttc so that's good. 4dpo today and feel just the same as usual!

Flashinthepan · 30/01/2017 22:01

I used an internet cheapie this morning and this evening and they were whiter than white. But I'm not really surprised as I know they rent very sensitive.

Londonjam · 30/01/2017 22:37

Bless you pug that's so sweet 💙 likewise looking forward to seeing your name back on the grads list where it belongs!

Alexia that's exactly it - the heart protection. Drove back down the motorway this evening and was mentally going through all the things to be grateful for if when AF comes

Have spent ages getting new phone set up properly to discover my last back up was September 😳 so am now missing 4 months of period data. The app told me I am 137 days late. I wish!! Might actually have to scroll back through MN to find my day 1s 😩 do not want to relive those!

Good luck good luck all testers 👍🏼

Binkybunny13 · 31/01/2017 00:19

Just having a catch up as I can't sleep...sorry haven't replied to all as on the app and can't scroll back very easily, but thinking of you all!

Oh london sucks to have lost your info!Good luck getting your dates back

Harriet fx for the house! How exciting- great to have something else to focus on (property is my favourite thing to waste time on after mumsnet!)

There seem to be some promising symptoms out there! Really really hoping these BFPs are coming 🙏

Im cd25, due on 10th with recent extended cycles. Boobs were agony this month (I think with ovulation as now improving a bit)- wish my body would give me the same symptoms at the same time every month so I could work out what on earths going on!

Flashinthepan · 31/01/2017 06:19

Massive temp drop and af here.

MissyJones80s · 31/01/2017 06:27

flash FlowersFlowersFlowers

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