Cervix checking was quite simple to start. Clean scrubbed fingers. Good position and longest finger. Sitting on the toilet is usually the best. Don't do it in the morning or after laying down too long and try and do the same time of day each time. You will need to do it for a full cycle to get used to what yours does.
It feels like a fat sort of thumb shape and will vary in height and firmness. But every woman is different and feels different. I started by checking mine daily to get used to it and now every few days. It's not an exact science obviously and can be tricksy but it's a handy extra tool to use. I used this website a lot to get used to it - warning though it is very intimate photos but nothing pornographic, just internal. beautifulcervix.com/cervix-photo-galleries/
I do my cheapie opks and cervix check after work each day. Usually been an hour or so since I've drank and in a handy private place at home so it works well.
Ah footy you've joined the cervix club! Lol. You doing well to keep yourself distracted?
tee I'm sure your dh understands but you should take some time for you two when you are feeling back on track. I hope your ovulation gets going quick I had a full cycle messed up by it but the doc said that was unusual.
nim the holiday sounds like a lovely idea. I know we hate hearing it. But relaxing and taking time for yourselves is the best thing you can do. Even though it sometimes seems impossible.