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Had a slight rise again but temps are not much higher than they were at start of cycle! So not sure really? I've attached my chart ladies.. Let me know what u think? Had a tummy ache today so something is still going on?
So many positive opks too? What is going on?

Tee,really hoping its ip spotting! You must be getting anxious. Hope it's a BFP in few days for u xx

Just realised it doesn't show the temps on picture but today was 36.40

Hi Footy - I don't see the pattern yet... give it a few more days?? Cd 15 is still early days yet! I didn't ov until cd23 one cycle. You're probably a bit weird from coming off BC and the clomid and stress of it...

So sorry you are going through this!

Think I'm 12 dpo today... BFN with a 5 miu/L test yesterday (yes, that sensitive!). It's from Germany. Got it off Amazon. Slightly relieved what with new job starting hopefully in Jan. So I think this is going to be me putting this on hold for a bit. Sad, but only right I think!

Might keep lurking, though I hope you are all graduates by the time I am ready to make my come-back!!

Kate do stick around

Footy definitely looks like your body is trying to ovulate - all those positive OPK tests. Have you got much ovulation pain?

Yes Kate, please hang around will be nice keeping in touch.

Jem, I do have lots of twinges and slight aches every now and then today increasingly more as the day has gone on. The clomid can cause false positives as it increases the LH hormone. Just annoyed it wasn't on time as would have been perfect timing with the sexathon I've had!! DH already says tonight he needs rest. So going to give him one night off I guess.. ? if it doesn't happen soon he's going to burn out.. I just know it. So frustrated

I don't think one night off would hurt. It must be incredibly frustrating hope you see another good rise in the morning

Hi all,

I'm afraid the title of this thread is very accurate today. I'm back to square one. I had some bleeding yesterday so had a scan this morning and no heart beat. Baby hadn't grown since my last scan two weeks ago so I'm waiting to miscarry. Going to have an op next week if it hadn't happened since then.

I'm a bit gutted but realistic, these things happen. I'll be back on the wagon in a few weeks with the OPKs charting and dtd. The midwife said that fertility is supposed to be higher after a miscarriage so hopefully I'll be one of the lucky ones and won't have to wait to long.

Glad to hear the new job starting in Jan Kate, that's much better.

How Dh recovered and had more energy tomorrow footy,maybe set the alarm and pounce on him in the morning!

So sorry for you Nim

Oh nim I'm so so so sorry. I am honestly shocked, how many weeks were you?

I am so impressed by how brave you are being. You are right that miscarriages happen all the time - I think I read 1 in 4 the other day. It doesn't make it less heart wrenching for you, but you are not alone.

We will support you all the way and cheer you onto your next BFP. I'm sure it won't be far off

Oh Nim, I'm so sorry that is just incredibly sad. I hope you're as ok as can be. I'm in awe of your attitude. Two ladies I know in RL who are due a bit after me, had experienced a loss in months leading up to current preg. Also another friend last year who went on to conceive a now lovely baby boy not long after a miscarriage.
Here to offer support.

This was awful to hear Nim, I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you and I pray that you continue to have great strength and healing through this time. Also hope your DH is ok and supporting you well.
Nim, you will get your baby very soon I just know it. Lots of hugs xx

I'm so sorry Nim. I really am. I know so many in RL that have had losses it is indeed 1 in 4 but that doesn't make it any easier for you.
My friend in RL had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks a month ago. She is ovulating now again today and like was was told she would be very fertile so is trying straight away.

Oh nim! Poor you! Please be kind to yourself! We're here if you need a chat!!

Hope you stick around too Kate!

Nim I'm so sorry to hear this. You are being so brave, hope you have lots of support around you. I've heard so many success stories of women falling quickly after MC. We are all here to listen if you need to off load x

Oh nim so sorry for what you are going through. Praying that you can get through it and like the others said, we are here for you. Sending you loads of hugs hun

Nim so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending you loads of hugs xxxxxx

I wrote a big long reply which disappeared . Thank you everyone for the support. Believe me when I say it really does help.

We're all here to support and listen so don't feel you need to hold back. Appreciate it doesn't help when the app swallows your posts though!

Hello radders how are things with your family? Hope bubba doing well.

Got an almost positive OPK this evening and came home to a good shag. Will see what cycle 11 brings - I'm feeling like an impartial bystander now!

No temp rise for me here so think my body has gone into shutdown! Feeling really annoyed after effort we both made. Can't seem to sync everything to work at the correct time.

Jem, you'll b busy then this weekend

Nim,thinking of you X

Kate, did AF arrive?

Tee, anything happening your end?

Mimi,hope you are managing some quality time with DH? Any conga?

Due in a day or two! I'm feeling a bit crampy... but no sciatica (which I normally get in the 2-3 days before). Hurray! Cd 33 12ish dpo.

Very mixed feelings this month. I have a very scary meeting Monday where I will probably find out if I will be allowed to leave in Jan or if I have to wait longer to start my new job. Gathering my evidence for why what they're asking is totally unreasonable tomorrow!

Nim - I too am thinking of you.

Morning all
Good luck Kate on both fronts!
I've had a bit of a nerve wracking few days. Was sure I ovulated early again this month, so was expecting to come on yesterday CD27. Cramps since the beginning of the week, so I've been on knicker watch since then. Working from home Tuesday and Wednesday, and it was all I could think about. Was feeling very AF crampy. That tailed off yesterday and last night felt really wobbly, like I was coming down with a bug. Skin a bit hot (eeekk), no energy, and cramps replaced with what felt like really painful trapped wind . Started to feel a glimmer of hope, but this morning I just feel like AF is going to land any minute again. Usual cramps. Keep getting that wet feeling like it's started, then go to check and nothing yet. I'm on the edge of my seat, but 90% she'll show today CD28 which is on time for me. It's only because of my early ovulation theory that I feel a bit 'late', but I'm actually not at all!!
Footy that is such a bummer. So does it seem like Clomid isn't doing its job for you? It's sposed to help you ov right? And last month you felt the same? What's the next step, back to the specialist to discuss?
Happy humping Jem!
Nim really hope you are managing to cope OK. Has the MC started yet? Thinking of you x

Oh tee! I'm keeping everyone crossed for you today! Apart from legs because I'm ovulating!!

Ha! Brilliant

Any rise today Footy? Are you keeping up opks?