Waving the witch off and starting afresh.. Buddies welcome!

[DrMum83]

Wondering if anyone wants a buddy?
I'm ttc #2 (DD 13m)
Just finishing AF and embarking on cycle 2

Come shove 2 fingers to the back of the witch and let's count down to O and POAS psychotically in a few weeks...

I'm going all out this month with SMEP, pressed, EPO, OPKs....

Definitely not implantation DrMum?!

Haha yeah I did say that. We DTD every day for like 8 days or something and then stopped for 3 weeks so I said I wondered if the lads didn't know whether they were coming or going haha! Soon find out anyway!!!

And yeah, amazing to see a BFP!! It always gives me hope for some reason!

Thank you Drmum . Not sure how to tell DP, wanted to try and think of something a bit special, a bit different but I'll probably just waft my pissy stick in front of him like I did last time! May wait until morning and do another FRER and pretend that's the first one? Is that too sneaky?

I reckon that you will defo be covered by dtd those days Mmm, definitely! And going to ewcm I think is a good plan. I never knew vitamins could affect your cycle. You learn something new every day! Let us know how your DH gets on.

Haha I wondered about doing that when my time comes minty! I did my last one alone so he said to involve him this time but I don't know if I could the first time!!! Let us know what he says!

Well I don't think they do for everyone. I have read other people saying the same though. But I was ok the month I got pregnant with DS on them. Hopefully last time was a one off!

They think he's got an infection and has been given some tablets but also has to have a scan to make sure there's nothing. They don't think it will show anything though.

Are these ok to TTC on DrMum ? I need to google properly when my iPad has charged!

The doctor thinks he's got Epididymitis. He's on about not taking the antibiotics because he's read a few bad things. Would it go by itself?

Yeh - they're fine whilst ttc. I would take them as if it is an infection, you don't want it to get worse as he could get really poorly. If anything, treating infection will prevent possible impact on sperm numbers.
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Bfn so doubt it's implantation and a little bit heavier than my last implantation bleed 😟 Oh well, I'm drunk now anyway..!

Btw, how would you guys feel about setting up a private fb group for us all? Just thought it might be nice to chat on there and keep up to date quicker?
No worries if you'd rather stay anonymous here though, it's just a thought.

Epididymitis is really common, loose boxers, antibiotics and some pain killers and he'll be fine in a week X

Sorry minty I saw your bfp at a really hectic time this am, so didn't show the level of excitement I was really feeling!!! How frickin amazing! Have you told DH yet??

How's everyone else doing?

Drmum I'm drunk too. And pissed off at DH so no dtd for me today. I moved out all week so he could do diy and bearing in mind I spent hours in torrential rain in heavy traffic there and back I've just got back to find 3 day old bottles of half empty wine, the baby's milk bottle from the last feed he did which was sometime on Monday festering in the spare room and barely any diy done. He did watch a film though. Fucking fuming. I also kind of feel like mmm and minty have the luck this month so may as well drink and voice my dissatisfaction than fake being nice to get laid. I'll save my faking for a month when I'm feeling lucky!

Totally happy for a fb group as long as nobody ever tells my husband all the moaning I do about him (though he's not on fb so good luck finding him haha) I'm shit at it though so someone else will have to set it up and tell me how to find you guys...

Also I came home and did a sneaky opk - strong positive, so def too late to catch sperm from earlier in the week and will be too late tmrw so I'm out this month. Feels kind of liberating but also kind of sad

That's shit ohno why are men such fuckers?! I guess tonight's the night for you but if you cba I don't blame you after coming home to that! It'll be your time soon dude, honestly. Let's try to be positive about June BFPs together hick
Why did you have to move out for the DIY, was it a big job?
I'll try to set a group up if the others fancy it.

I just can't face being nice to him tbh!

We are having new Windows. I came home and honestly it looks like you and I have fitted them in our drunken states. DH seems totally oblivious and is willing to hand over thousands of pounds tmrw to pay for them. They even broke one of the Windows and it's filled with white plastic instead

Pissed off all round. You're going to get no optimism from me today haha!

Just a quick one you pissheads as I'm totally cream crackered. Will catch up properly in morning thank you ohno and no need to apologise at all

I'm up for fb group too drmum top idea!

Back in the morning zzzzzzzzzz!

Xxx

Just a quick message because DS is awake for the millionth night in a row so I'm distracting myself before I smother him whilst he goes back to sleep.

I'm more than happy to set up a secret FB group in the morning if you all want? If you send me your FB name and what your profile picture looks like I'll add you. I'd be glad to come off MN really. I go on to check this thread and then end up reading others and feeling a bit depressed! I'm always conscious of how unconfidential it is!

Thanks for the ball advice DrMum

Will catch up with all the rest tomorrow. Possibly on FB!

I meant to say send me the info by private message on here. It's early, or late depending on how you look at it zzzzzzz

Thanks malbec I've pm'd you

Hi ladies. Can someone pleeeeeaase tell me how I message on here? Never done it before!! xx

If you click the three little dots under a message on here, it'll open up the option to PM people.
So under malbec's last message at 2.27 on the bottom right there's 3 dots..
Hope you're ok, are you testing again?!

And what did your Dh say?!

Thank you drmum will do it when I get to work!

Oh balls. Yes I did...... Tis showing faintly on the IC too! Never had that before with the shities!

Do you know what, he guessed!! Said there was something different about me and had I tested!! He's over the moon

The opk is just to compare! Poas addict

Aargh that's so exciting, I'm so pleased for you! Isn't it funny how different the lines are on the ic and the frer? I always thought the ics couldn't really be that much different. It they're so vastly different!

You'll all be pleased to hear I was pretty devious last night and when I felt stabbing pains in my ovary area was suddenly nice to DH and dtd however because of the diy we have no curtains and overlook a park so it was a bit secret squirrel, and the kid started screaming just as we were finishing so there want any time for legs in the air (because of course DH couldn't possibly go and feed his child...) but hopefully that will have been enough!

Drmum/mmm how are you all this morning? Will pm you shortly...

OMG!?! I go missing and I come back to some exciting news. 🎊🎉🎈🎈🎉🎊hooray!! Congratulations minty. My word you and dh must be over the moon.

Waves mom, drmum, ohno .here is hoping that June is our month.

I lol ohno. Fx fx

Thank you Mimi! Lovely to see you back, how are you doing dear? I hope you and DH are ok.

Nice work Ohno!!! . Sometimes a bit of deviousness secret planning is needed! I've never had a positive on an IC before, it never showed last time so even though it's a bit of a squinter, when I invert the pic, its clear!

Just going to PM Mmm now xx