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Ttc#1 THREAD 3. Some bfp's, some bfn's, cervical mucus examination class of what was supposed to be January 2016.

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 22:27

Join us. It's a boat. Full of okp's and symptom spotting and insanity! But also much love and support! We were supposed to start next month, we already have a few bfp's! Our dps don't know what's hit them!

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 20/12/2015 22:07

I don't go in for any of the seduction stuff, I usually just climb on, wriggle a but and hope he wakes up for the best! I've said it before, and I'll say it again, he's lucky if I've had a wash! I'm lucky to be married Xmas Grin

Okp was very faint especially when compared with this afternoons, balls only knows, ill try and have another pop at dtd tomorrow morning if Dh agrees!

I've not told him about cm yet I will do at some point I imagine, on purpose, to gross him out! I have no test buddies! Waaaaaaaail! But then my cycle is suuuuch a long one, even if I ovulated today, I've got a 3 and a half weekweek wait instead of a 2 week wait.

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Canters15 · 20/12/2015 22:14

Sorry about the negative dubs. I have bad AF type cramps now but still a bit too early....gonna test in the morning if she's not here!

Runner05 · 20/12/2015 22:16

Stark you still have a 2ww. The 2ww is to 14dpo when the chemicals in your body should be high enough for you to get a BFP Smile If your still BFN by then it's very unlikely that you will get a BFP later (unless you were completely mistaken about your ovulation date)

StarkyTheDirewolf · 20/12/2015 22:22

dub you're not out till you're out, sorry about the bfn but there's still time yet!

pink I think it's something to do with the sensetivity, I'm going to do some research! See if I can find some with the same levels of sensetivity for cheaper!

Welcome turner* you're definitely in the right place for crazy! Symptom spotting, piss stick waving, okp fanatics that we are! Xmas Grin

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 20/12/2015 22:26

runner that does make sense to me! Thank you! I was going off expected af. My cycle is a bastard! So I could technically still test early Jan. However, still have absolutely zero clue about ovulation date! I'm going to have to order some more okps for next month! I've nearly blown through 20 already! Xmas Grin

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KatOnATinRo0f · 20/12/2015 22:37

Yes so the more sensitive a test is the lower concentration of Chemical being tested for it can detect so technically the earlier it can detect, but also the greater chance of getting a false +ve (if I remember correctly). I think they all work though don't they (well every one I have ever p-on has correctly told me that I am NOT pg!)
I can't imagine that they are that much more ££ to produce and I think it is a ridiculous mark up. I think I shall save FR for when I really do actually think I am pg and may have had a +ve from another test (or a late AF)
I've used the sainsburys ones- didn't know if they had bad reviews ... Handy to pick em up with the weekly shopping though! I have some internet cheapies on the way mainly to indulge my increasing desire to needlessly pee on things.

ElleSarcasmo · 20/12/2015 22:38

Still lol'ing at Lara's dirty talk!

ElleSarcasmo · 20/12/2015 22:42

Agree it is a ridiculous mark up Kat, I'm willing to bet they don't cost that much more. I will deffo buy some internet cheapy OPKs and pregnancy tests once I've given up hope for this cycle

Thanks Runner, didn't know that about the 2ww.

KatOnATinRo0f · 20/12/2015 22:54

In right at the start of a shiny new cycle... CD3 for me... So hope my OPKs will hurry up and arrive. Christmas/new year week is going to be busy for me and DH...

Bubbapup89 · 20/12/2015 23:26

Omg so many BFPs!!! Congratulations to you all!!

It's been so interesting reading about your signs and symptoms and seeing the positive test appear! Took forever to catch up but worth it

My AF arrived 2 days late but new it was coming as all symptoms appeared. I have ordered a pregnancy kit from Amazon that has a bbt, 20 opk and 10 pg tests. I decided this month I am going to track my temp and use sticks from the day AF leaves to be able to track if I am ovulating.

Good luck to all testing before the year is over!

Kat I am CD 3 too! Good luck this month X

Pinklily1 · 21/12/2015 06:14

Welcome Turner!

Fingers crossed Canters if you end up testing, let us know how you get on!

Hope you manage to jump your OH Starky! Grin

Runner05 · 21/12/2015 06:31

Stark if you feel comfortable sending me your address I can send you shed loads of opk's. I think I've still got about 60 here bought more convinced I wasn't upduffed! And unless something goes horribly wrong I'm not going to need them Hmm

Bub sorry AF got you.

The best pregnancy tests are FRER and Superdrug own but as long as it's red ink it should be fine. You're looking for the lowest mlu you can find, the packets usually state what mlu the tests are and if it doesn't it means it's high.
There isn't actually any such thing as a false positive but you can get evaporation lines if you crack a test open (because it then dries out too quickly and can cause a line to appear) or if the test is faulty in which case the line won't have any pigment. If in doubt re-test.

Oh and as for FRER being expensive. I don't know about their manufacturing costs but having done many many, many, many tests I do know that their test strip is different to the strips I've seen in any other test and they are well know for being the most reliable test on the market. If a FRER says your pregnant it is generally considered indisputably true. at least that's what I told my OH

And that is the sum total of my pregnancy test knowledge Grin

Canters15 · 21/12/2015 07:10

Did a test, bfn! Urgghhhhh! So sure we did it at the right time and had a really good feeling about this month. Boobs less sore today and cramping like mad so guess af coming to town.

Trying to focus on the positives- I'm getting married next weekend for one! Spose at least I can have champagne on my wedding day.

I've got a thermometer and going to get some opks but think it will have go wait til the cycle after honeymoon cycle as too complicated otherwise.

What are our thoughts on shagging more then once daily? Are we damaging previously deposited sperm or will second showing have less swimmers?

Turnertime14 · 21/12/2015 07:20

canters that's so exciting!! You'll definitely want to have a glass on the big day! What are your honeymoon plans?

Runner05 · 21/12/2015 07:28

Canters how many dpo are you?

The recommendation is to dtd every other day for the best quality and quantity of sperm.

Tbh as several of us will attest, it only takes the once and a bit of luck.

Dubbya · 21/12/2015 07:37

Another bfn for me today, still no af either grr!

Sorry about your bfn canters but we're still in until af shows! Congratulations for you wedding Flowers

Pinklily1 · 21/12/2015 07:51

Sorry to hear of the bfn's Canters and Dub, but as Dub says, you're not out until AF shows!

Canters, a Christmas wedding is so exciting! Are you all sorted for it?

shelbTa · 21/12/2015 08:15

Sorry about the Bfns ladies, hang in there for a few more days and keep testing!

A Christmas wedding how lovely!**
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drinkyourmilk · 21/12/2015 09:09

Ooh, lots of lovely new people! Welcome Xmas Smile

I'm definitely out, af has come 2 days early. Disappointed, but far too busy to wallow the next few days.

LaraG13 · 21/12/2015 10:08

Big hugs your way drink. Keep busy and you never know what next year will bring.

Dub and Canters sorry about the BFNs. Wedding over Christmas will be wonderful!

firstgo1984 · 21/12/2015 10:11

To test or not to test.
First positive opk on wednesday 9th 9am. (Almost positive the evening before). Stayed positive until thursday 10th in the afternoon.

I am so impatient!

Pinklily1 · 21/12/2015 10:19

So ladies, I took another OPK this morning, and thought, why not, if I'm collecting wee I might as well do a pg test as well.... Tell me I'm not seeing things...?

Ttc#1 THREAD 3. Some bfp's, some bfn's, cervical mucus examination class of what was supposed to be January 2016.
Whyissheontheship · 21/12/2015 10:21

Congratulations on your wedding canters !

Sorry about BFN dubs and canters although you are not out till AF appears

Sorry to hear that drink Sad

How are all the BFP feeling?

Still no ovulation for me (according to temps and cm) Sad I was on mycrogynin on CD21 my okp sticks are due to arrive today - may the obsessive peeing on sticks begin!

Whyissheontheship · 21/12/2015 10:23

Congratulations pink that's a really strong line!!

firstgo1984 · 21/12/2015 10:26

pink no way seeing things! That is a line!!!! Your opk sounds like it was positice the same day as me, but i haven't had any symptoms.
Congrats!