TTC after MC (#7) - fx for better times ahead

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Fruit get a frer. That should be definitive.

I've had big heavy boobs and a heavy feeling in the uterus and a 'feeling' that I was pregnant on Thursday but not yesterday. Used an IC this morning and though I had a "not sure what colour it is but there is a line of I stare at it for ages it sort of appears". So went and got a frer (because I'm meant to be out drinking tonight)

9DPO BFP

Congratulations mummy that's fabulous news!!! I'm definitely out this month it's been a weird one... spotting on cd 26 and 27 (Monday and Tuesday). Then nothing until the evening of cd28 (Thursday) and since then it's been fairly light... so which day would guys call cd1? Never had af like this before very odd...

Should be - you guys

sakura thanks. Can you be sure it's been AF?

OMG mummy!!

mummy I tested this morning and got a bfn

Welcome Atat sorry about AF .
Welcome Poco I hope you get a healthy pg soon, what a bad run you have had.
Congratulations mummy that's just the kind of good news we needed around here!!
Sakura we really are cycle twins, I had brown spotting last night then red blood this afternoon but very light. It's such a headfuck isn't it?

It so is monkey I'm still getting the occasional twinges bizarre.. I've got a holiday coming up in 6 weeks time so I'm going to focus on getting some more exercise and cut out sugar and focus less on ttc (who am I kidding?)

Sorry about AF sak and atat

Massive congrats mummy fx you'll be changing your username in 9 months

Ah coming on to the thread and seeing your news mummy has made me feel so much better. There hope for us all. Congrats to you...here's to a happy and healthy 9 months!

Hello all!
I'm Ralu and here are my stats: 37, ttc#2, cycle#5 (af due tomorrow and no 6 will start ), after mc#2. We have a ds but would love to give him a sibling.
After 2nd mc my cycle was all over the place. This month I actually ov on day 13/14 depending on app. I took a hpt a couple of days ago and bfn. Roll on August! :)

Congratulations mummy

mummy massively huge congratulations xxx

Thanks everyone!

I never thought about my username!!

Sakura someone on the mega bus got their BFP at 2 weeks late! You're not out til AF shows x

Hi everyone, I MC at 4w+6 and am now on day 39 of my next cycle. I had all my usual AF symptoms a few days ago (spotty chin, crying easily) except period pain, which I usually get quite badly. I've had brown discharge for last couple of days but no red blood. Wondering when AF is going to turn up properly, or if I should count this as it. Did anyone else have anything similar after early MC?

And huge congrats mummyofone, it's great to hear people's happy news, makes me much more optimistic :)

blue have you had a bfn after mc? af won't arrive until then. both times i mced i had bfn 14 days after mc and af came 3-4 weeks after that. on the other hand our fertility is increased after mc so if you ovulated and bded in due time you might as well get a bfp and the brownish discharge could be implantation. i'm not trying to get your hopes up but these are the possibilities.

Hi Raluca, I've done a few tests and all have been bfn. I'm not sure when or if I ovulated in the last month, but DH was away for work for a lot of the time, so haven't dtd since 29/6, which seems far too long ago to not have a bfp by now if I am. I don't feel pregnant either - have had a bit of dizziness but nothing else. Argh, why does it have to be so frustrating! :)

well then you just need to be patient. as I said, you only ovulate after you get a bfn and that can take longer, depending on how far you were when you mced. both times i mced at precisely 9w+5 although once was naturally and once was induced. and both times i had a bfn 14 days later.
keep your hopes up and try to stick to healthy food.

Blue thank you. We have been pregnant before which shows we can do it again. I hope your stay here is short! This was only cycle 2 after my mc

Mummy congratulations!! I have had a break from mumsnet for a while. I found it wasn't helping me in mentally getting over the miscarriage.

I posted on here at the end of June as we had decided ttc.. Well on Friday we got our bfp! We haven't told a sole,but we knew I was before the test because how I had been feeling. The tiredness and headaches.

Fingers crossed xxx

Mummy is was 3rd cycle since the mmc.. Our first of trying tho x

Megan congratulations hun, fc for a sticky one x

Megan we had our mmc's/erpc's around the same time if I remember correctly, well done you on holding out on ttc for a couple of cycles! We tried straight away, and after 1 AF we fell pg straight away!...sadly it wasn't a sticky one, and I mc'd again, this time much earlier than the last, at 4&3 a couple of weeks ago....
Nice to hear from you anyway hun, you will be fine I'm sure...my body's just a bit shitty, probably didn't help I came down with severe glandular fever in hospital the week I mc'd, perhaps I have some sort of autoimmune disorder or something...getting doctors to do bloods to test, hopefully they find something fixable!
Please keep us updated, need some success stories on here! Xx

Congratulations megan glad you started ttc and got your bfp so quickly too. I knew before I tested. My boobs were huge instantly!