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[juneybean]

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BFPs for everyone!

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Ah victoria, it's a time for excitement not chilling out sounds like you'll have to tell work soon, they know you've been trying don't they because of your iui appointments? Got to put you and that little bean first now Is Dh excited?

I'm still sniffing. over invested

vic I see you dtd either side of your positive opk. Can I be intrusive and ask if you had previously refreshed DHs sperm before this? I'm worried we don't dtd enough pre ov to refresh his spermies.

Sammy I would def dtd tonight lovely regardless. And the next day and the next day! Acidic? Doubtful.Maybe he just has skin irritation? Everyone immune systems are different. Please don't worry about this. Lots of people who live together, families for example, you can find the children bring the bugs in and pass it around but maybe only one parent picks it up and the other is fine. It absolutely does not mean anything is wrong with you! Don't worry. I know it's easy for your mind to go into overdrive when TTC and trying to find a reason that could be the cause.keep positive love. Scan Tomor! Good step ...!

Aux you are moving in the right direction with fb aren't you so that's good. Let's hope these hormones kick up a fuss this cycle and get you your BFP!!! and the soy I like your nuts theory

Boris a sock!!

Purdie ovulation ovulation ovulation! Wooooo! Yes!

mummy I think that could work with the TTC timeline?? Saying about you really starred in jan with the OPKs etc but before you still tried? Re testing, I don't know. It may fuel the heartbreak?! I don't see the point in testing today because hcg won't have changed in 24 hours right?

Night hope you are feeling better

Dizzynorth thanks lovely. Almost time to dtd for you! Good luck with sparkly new bbter!

Spinning how are you? I'm ok. Really drained and just generally feeling yuk.

Purdie how's the lurgy today?? Interview day Tomor so you better kick it to the curb today!

Much better thanks Sparkly :)

Started tem ping today, very exciting!

How are you doing lovely Sparkly?

Good to hear Night now you are temping this is your month for sure!

Night I'm ok. Feeling rotten and still in bed. Nothing of interest to report! Ha

Bless you Sparkly stay strong lovely!

OMG!!!! Vic huge congratulations and happy birthday. This is fabulous news. So exciting

incredible news chops, congrats!!!

Vic are you a cleaner? I love love love this hard-won bfp. What a treat xx

Melon, ask for a referral to a fertility consultant but first demand the gp does baseline tests and sends dh for an SA. Then ask for a scan of your womb and ovaries (HSG) saying you are worried about post-mg damage or scarring. Do not let the cons deny you this.

*post-mc. Dame ewe automatic washing machine

Victoria happy birthday and congratulations, what a fabulous birthday present x

Thanks purds. does DH need checking do you think? I'm sure its me thats broken as i got pregnant last year.
here's what I've written down to show GP

January 2014 came off pill, no period til April
April 2014 28 days
May 2014 28 days
June 2014 28 days
July 2014 28 days
Pregnancy, miscarriage at 8 weeks in August 2014
August - November 2014 no period
December 2014 31 days
January 2015 18 days
February 2015 27 days
March 2015 currently at 39 days

PS. Have already had TV ultrasound of womb and ovaries

Sparkly th'interview is Thursday, you daft poppet. I'm sorry you are in this limbo xx

Just back from Bounce and Rhyme at the library. Thought about you and your braless jugs, Glittery (but not too much cos that would make me a rug-muncher innit.)

Purds bounce and rhyme sounds delightful how much bouncing did you do? Sorry Thursday- scatterbrain!!

OMG, ChopsVic!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so incredibly pleased for you! That is quite a birthday present.

Sparkly, I still have my fingers crossed you will get good news on Thursday. It is such a shame you have to deal with Trunchbull and can't go anywhere else.

Spinning, I love your ham/letter story! I am always doing that kind of thing.

Melon, I really hope AF shows up for you soon. It must be so frustrating.

Sounds like you are timing the AI well, Purds.

I have already posted on FB, but for those not on there, AF arrived yesterday. I am increasingly convinced that I have low progesterone, which is causing my short LP. After having a breakdown to DH, he has made us an appointment with the private consultant I previously got my Clomid from. We are going on Thursday and I am going to ask for more of that, plus some Progesterone tablets.

Melon when did you have the US? Fertility will do an SA as a matter of course; I just thought you could get it done quicker by asking gp. This current cycle is so strange and I feel dead sorry for you. What's your hunch, that the mc has skewed your hormonal equilibrium?

nomio! I love your no-nonsense approach to this shitness. Well dome you. Of course it helps to have money but even so you are not taking any craps. Brilliant. Please don't let anyone tell you that a 9 day lp is ok.

*done. Duck off autodetect.

*craps not craps. I'm not Chinese.

*crap

Nomio oh sorry for AF arrival!! Poor you. BUT! This is fantastic news on the private app. Great great news and steps forward! Your BFP is on the way lovely. So happy to hear you are going to get demand help! Thanks for your kind wishes also

Does anyone know if you have mc how long it will be until the test turns negative? yes I'm already losing the plot.sorry! i promise to stop even commenting on this doom and gloom soon and be back to CM and OPKs!