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Halfway through my TWW and looking for company. Anyone in the same boat?

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ero30 · 07/04/2015 19:55

I've still got about a week to go before I can POAS. DH and I have been trying for about 5 months, but I have very irregular cycles so it's all really hard to judge. I usually go about 2 weeks between periods so following that, AF should be due to arrive before the end of this week. But I'm thinking that would be too early to test and am very impatient! I've also been taking agnus castus this month on the advice of a medical friend so I'm feeling tentatively hopeful. Anyone around who wants to wait it out with me and not read too much into every symptom and definitely not take a test every day this week?

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Rememberallball · 01/05/2015 14:49

Hi haquoi, I will be d21 in 13 days time so bloods that day and results available about a week later. In meantime DP will register at my GP surgery and supply a 'sample' of swimmers for analysis!! Oh joy!!

haquoi123 · 01/05/2015 18:47

Best of luck with your sil brown, I'm sorry that that is all happening now. Could you tell her maybe? If it gets too much, honesty might be best.

I wish I had found my cervix, but not quite. I'll try again tomorrow and see - will let you know how it goes!

remember, I hope you get some answers then!

diamondsparkles · 01/05/2015 21:22

haquoi - you are hilarious!! Reclaim the vag!! I love it!! And well done you for rooting around up there - I wimp out of stuff like that but you have a fair point Grin
Well the romance continues in this house:-
DH- I'm not having a shower after work
Me - well we're still doing it tonight
DH - okay well jump on then
.......... Afterwards
DH- so what does the sex diary look like now? When can we stop?
Me - well we should do it tomorrow and Sunday too to be sure
DH - no way, I'm having a night off tomorrow I'm knackered......
Confused

diamondsparkles · 01/05/2015 21:28

brown - how are you feeling now? I'm gutted for you, it's so disappointing. I bet that's the last thing you feel like doing - being around DP's pregnant sister all weekend Sad
I feel like that about a work colleague who is pregnant because she was on the pill and had a tummy bug so the pill didn't work!!! Unbelievable - I have to listen to a million pregnancy symptoms all the time.
Hope you're feeling a little bit better, difficult I know Flowers

browneyedgirl86 · 01/05/2015 21:57

Thanks ladies. I'm feeling a bit better. Still no AF. DP is being very understanding which is nice. Haven't told DPs family as neither of us wanted too until there were news.

diamond Your DH sounds like mine. That's the kind of thing he says!

Thanks everyone xx

haquoi123 · 01/05/2015 23:14

That's hard when they don't want to dtd. It's not like they have to deal with the baby making hormones and stress of suspense and failure, (and that's not including the actual pregnancy of it happens!). All they have to do is have an orgasm. Boohoo! What hardship! I have no sympathy. Whatsoever. and then she let's DH off when he's in a bad mood because she feels guilty for harassing him

diamondsparkles · 02/05/2015 08:10

Morning - how is everyone?
Still no ovulation here Sad, can't believe it - in my other failed cycles at least I had positive ovulation tests - now I don't even have that this month. So fed up. Beginning to think what's the point now.
haquoi - I know - it's not like they have any of the stress is it?
brown - any news?

browneyedgirl86 · 02/05/2015 10:15

Morning!

Still no AF, still feeling scared to test as can't face another bfn.

Aww diamond that's rubbish about ovulation. It really does bring you down.

browneyedgirl86 · 02/05/2015 11:08

I admit I did test again, first wee of the day and held for 10 seconds but still bfn.

I'm just frustrated. I don't think 3 tests can be wrong even if I am 7 days late. Not sure when I ovulated then giving AF is showing no sign of arriving any time soon.

findingmyfeet12 · 02/05/2015 11:11

How frustrating for you diamond. Every month that passes feels like a huge blow to me - I guess it must be the same for everyone.

My OH has been joking about the window of opportunity during the clomid cycle and making sure we make the most of it. I'm starting to feel a bit guilty now - doesn't he usually get as much action as he'd like...!?

findingmyfeet12 · 02/05/2015 11:21

Browneyed, how bizarre! Will you go to see your doctor or continue to wait?

browneyedgirl86 · 02/05/2015 11:26

finding Well I have to see the nurse on Tuesday so will mention it then but seeing my GP on the 15. Don't think I will get an appointment any earlier, he's very popular so he's very very busy.

diamondsparkles · 02/05/2015 11:29

Thanks finding and brown - it is totally rubbish and I feel like I'm broken or something. The months just keep passing and I'm totally sick of it.
So sorry to hear of bfn for you brown - that must be so frustrating for you. At least if af not here yet then there's a chance you could have just ovulated late?
Looks like your OH is up for a good try this month then finding! Don't feel guilty - I'm sure he does but maybe the thought of the clomid is a positive and exciting step for him and you Smile

findingmyfeet12 · 02/05/2015 11:39

One of my DPs close family is also pregnant Browneyed. She's been through a tough time for other reasons and I feel as though I should put my feelings aside and visit her during her pregnancy. It's so frustrating though as shes very young and conceived on her honeymoon and I can't help but feel envious.

She doesn't talk about the pregnancy at all - rather odd IMO. I'm not sure she's doing it for my benefit, I think she's just underwhelmed by the whole thing. She's doesn't appear to be looking after herself either - doing next to no exercise and eating mainly junk food.

I sound so judgemental!

browneyedgirl86 · 02/05/2015 11:54

Don't worry finding I don't think you do, I think it's natural giving our position. Don't feel guilty about your DP, he's up for it, don't knock it make the most of it!

diamond I know how you feel about feeling broken. I feel the same way. If and when AF makes an appearance im going to start with ov sticks, maybe I have ovulated later but my last AF was the 27 March.

I feel the same though I'm totally fed up of this. It just seems relentless.

Rememberallball · 02/05/2015 15:26

Afternoon ladies. Hope everyone is making the most of the long weekend - I can't as DP is working lates so not getting home before midnight; I had a steroof injection to my shoulder yesterday and am now in complete agony and hardly able to use my left arm - certainly don't want to dtd and having to take pain relief at a time when I'm trying to take as little medication as possible.

I started opks yesterday and, at the moment, they're very faint but today's is darker than yesterday's so we're on the next journey. Now got to wait for cd21 and repeat progesterone levels.

findingmyfeet12 · 02/05/2015 16:31

Bad luck about your arm Remember.

The whole thing does feel a bit like a treadmill.

If anyone is thinking of taking clomid in the future, here are my side effects so far:

I take the meds at night (as recommended by someone on YouTube). The trouble with this is that I end up having a lot of bloating and acid at night which can be painful and has kept me awake. I'd rather suffer at home than at work though.

Some cramping.

Feeling quite sweaty. I sweat a lot anyway but the last couple of days have been excessive even by my standards.

Rememberallball · 02/05/2015 18:11

Thanks for the symptoms list Finding. My GP told me yesterday that, depending on the results of my next lot of cd21 bloods, then I may be prescribed Clomid so it's good to know what to potentially expect. I have a feeling that, because of my age and because DP has 2 adult children, that I'll only be offered medical treatment and not physical assisted conception.

Interestingly my DM needed Clomid back in the 1960's not to fall pregnant but to sustain pregnancy when aged in her 20's and having my DSis's but, just before she turned 30, she fell naturally with me and then, 6 months after I was born, my DB. This gives me hope that a similar path would work for me. However, it's all academic for the time being until the next lot of bloods.

You know what, it's great to be able to offload here as I don't want to burden family with this and would like some privacy in our private life and struggles.

diamondsparkles · 03/05/2015 09:43

Morning - how is everyone today? I hope you are all enjoying the long weekend Smile
remember - sorry to hear about your pain in your shoulder. I will need steroid injections in my shoulder soon too which I'm dreading. Hope you feel better soon
brown - any sign of af or have you tested again?
finding - that's interesting about clomid side effects, hope you're not feeling too bad
How's my cycle buddy haquoi?

haquoi123 · 03/05/2015 10:29

brown, hope you're weekend is going ok. I've absolutely been there, it's so frustrating when AF doesn't turn up but there's no good news! I read somewhere (when desperately trying to find my own reasons) that an embryo can implant but essentially be a dud and not give off hcg and it takes the body a little while to realise. I've heard that at least it's a positive step, that somethings happening. Obvs we don't know. Another thing for me is that the time when I ovulate changes each month, so maybe it's a very late ovulation...?

diamond are you still getting your flashing faces? I'm sorry that this month seems out, it absolutely sucks. When's your next reflexology for? Don't give up, it could just be delayed xx

remember, I hope your arm starts to feel better soon. I didn't know that they have criteria for the physically assisted conception, that sucks! Absolutely fight for it, don't just let them swipe you aside. But fingers crossed the bloods are good news.

finding how are you holding up on the clomid? Those symptoms sound pretty full on! Don't feel guilty about your dp, it's just a new start for you both. You don't sound judgemental - its hard seeing other people not be happy about something you can't have. I know that when I was pg with DS, the 1st 3 months were hell, I had such bad ms and ate whatever didn't make me want to vomit: supernoodles, squash and pears; and hated being pregnant until 2 weeks before he died. I know to make the most next time, but maybe this is an explanation for your friend? And you are in no way obligated to help her out and be there for her. You need to look after you, ttc is stress enough without the clomid and unhappy pregnant people.

Anyone else avoiding the News so they don't have to have a certain person's birth thrown in their faces?

I'm still ewcm-ing! Ridiculous. Definitely not ovulated yet. I don't this month is going to happen and I think I'm going to waiting for years for af. Grr. This whole ttc business is so stupid!

browneyedgirl86 · 03/05/2015 10:29

Hi everyone,

diamond Still no AF but still bfn. Just tested this morning. How's things with you?

finding Thanks for telling us about the side affects of clomid, it may be something I need in the future so good to know!

haquoi123 · 03/05/2015 10:30

Hi diamond, just missed you! I think we are actually cycle buddies still, no sign of ewcm drying up anytime soon!

haquoi123 · 03/05/2015 10:40

finding, just read that back, I don't want you to think that I'm judging how you feel! Like I said, I'm the Queen of bitter, so I don't want you to think I'm in any way trying to say you shouldn't be upset by it!

haquoi123 · 03/05/2015 10:40

sleeping, how're you doing?

browneyedgirl86 · 03/05/2015 10:41

haquoi thanks for that. I am starting to wonder if it's a late ovulation but because I don't test I would have missed it. Must look into doing that next month.

Still no AF, not even a hint she's on her way. DP brought me more tests yesterday as I think he thinks it's the brand getting it wrong.

And yeah I am also avoiding the news for that baby. It's hard when Superdrig emailed me telling me and offering me a lot of baby products!

Just fed up of waiting around for some thing to happen. Feel like I'm having to put things on hold until I find out.

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