The April 2015 Bus #2 - bring us our Easter BFPs!

[MissMrsMummy]

For those of us who prefer a bit of scenery along the way and can't keep up with the MEGA-BUS!

Really hope that this is a sticky bean for you Tallula

Tallulah, we are sorry about your mc; lots of us have had them and know how hateful they are. We are, however, always slightly bemused by newbies coming onto a TTC thread awash with desperate women having BFN after BFN only to tell us they got their BFP. Just like that. Never posted before. Not supported any of the rest of us or made themselves known. No. Just came here to say 'I'm pregnant. Not only am I pregnant but I tripped over a condom, fell on a dick and got pregnant. The first time.' Sorry if we're not squealing with joy.

Aux, the person who reported this 'find' was a Leftie humanist cock. Simple.

^ that

Hah! I'll have to go read the article now! Only saw the headline. presumes writer is a cock. presumes cock
and neatly we arrive back at ttc, full circle. ta-daa

tallula I'm sorry you feel like that. It's just bloody hard for us to kick around here, month after month trying anything and everything.

Some months I fear my manager will Fire me for being so distracted at work. With good reason. I'm shockingly bad at work and I'm a terrible friend and wife these days. I'm consumed, eaten by this hole in my life.

I'm sure you can understand why it's so painful to have occasional posters announcing their successes.

I am so pleased for anyone who gets pregnant I am really honestly chuffed for you.

But each month and each time someone else gets a bfp a little bit I me dies inside, I just want to be a mum. That's all. I can't turn it off or not think about it. It's so bloody all consuming. I'd love to know how to chill and not over think it. But I cant. It's raging inside me. Maybe I need help, maybe we all do?

Well said hair

Heart breaks for you Boris, you will get your baby though! Although I have not been trying anywhere near as long as you I do understand the hole as I wanted a baby for a year before DH would let me have one and it reached the point where I couldn't think of anything else and spent most of my spare time crying.

I am not sparkly with her wise wise words but I do genuinely believe that you and all the other ladies on this bus will get your babies, by hook or by crook. Can't wait for the day that I see your bump on fb :)

Ok very sorry I came in here having been trying to conceive the last couple of months myself and I have been on a previous bus so not a complete newby just not posting all the time. Just wanted some advice.

hair nicely put. Brave girl too. It will happen.

Obviously I'm a thoughtless wanker so apologies again and good luck to everybody x

Pretty sure the stats are very much out of date now, could you please look through ladies and let me know of any updates?

tallula I recognise that you posted before (once on the march bus?); your story is familiar. your loss must be heartbreaking. Pleased it worked for you this month.

I am honestly pleased for you and anyone who gets to see a second line. I hope you are still able to enjoy your moment of getting your bfp. It must be An amazing feeling.

Please don't take my response badly. I'm hormonal and desperate, which I'm sure you now see.

I have a bump night but I suspect its Easter egg related

After a baby bump that's the best kind of bump juney :)

night I thought it was just me

Oh god yous are not alone, most of my clothes are empire line and I look fabulous pregnant with food!

juney I avoid wearing anything like that incase I get the oh are you.... Comment. if I've not told you I am please don't guess

Congratulations Tallula

I wish it were so easy for everyone else and I really hope this is a sticky bean for you. It must be scary after a MC.

I guess the most annoying thing with TTC is that there's such a huge element of chance to it. It only takes one time of DTD and unfortunately for most of us, the odds are vastly against us but you were lucky this time, Tallula, it took one time. That gives me hope! c

I'm fat all over so people just think I'm fat. Reckon I'll be 9 months pregnant and having to tell people I'm actually pregnant and no longer just fat.

Also do the food bump thing

Do you think there will be a day I'll login to FB and NOT see a flurry of child related posts? Gah!

So glad to hear it's not just me :)

Evening everyone.

Congrats Tallula! Hope this pg sticks for you.

All this talk of food is making me hungry... And I'm watching Masterchef again! All I have in the house is BBQ leftovers which are a bit miserable now. I do have plenty of Easter eggs though....

Mumof1, I still get so confused by Ov tests! Had s positive yesterday, and another today... Is that possible? When can we stop bonking - we've done it three times since Sunday and knackered! I'm on CD15.

I'm off to clean kitchen (scoff DS choc eggs).

Just caught up phew Congrats to all with their bfp's and to those due to test this wkend good luck!!!! everything crossed! On cd 6, bored - have the headache from hell and only first day back at work after hols How's everyone doing?