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The Bumsnet/Angry Pubes Bus

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Nomio230 · 27/03/2015 13:57

If you like to talk rubbish & refuse to give up your seat for anyone, this is the place for you! Come and ebjoy our Zen Den & a Nutella Cellar. Grin
No LPBs allowed. Angry

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Mummyofonesofar · 27/03/2015 20:16

Ok he wasn't out of his strop at all and we just had a blazing row. Ended by him saying we shouldn't bother ttc anymore. And me telling him good and I'm glad I got a bfn this morning and telling him to sleep in the spare room. He has work tomorrow so will have left before we get up. Sad we don't argue often but when we do we really shout and he always says really bastard things.

Sparkly123 · 27/03/2015 20:17

Pixa welcome! Fingers crossed for lucky 7! Star

Nomio sounds like you have lots of viewings.. Good luck lovely! Flowers

Thanks Juney I just hope tomorrow afternoon will be in enough time as didn't do last night either. Argh! Usually u feel satisfied I couldnt have done more but this time I'm not so sure already! I don't usually have a peak smiley this early in cycle I don't think and I'm having ovary twinges all day which I don't usually get either. Eeek.

GlitteryLipgloss1 · 27/03/2015 20:17

Sparkly it's ok don't fret! The good swimmers would of been right off!

Plus - after the peak smiley face don't we OV 24-36 hours after ? X

nightandthelight · 27/03/2015 20:19

Oh no so sorry to hear that mummy! Flowers what exactly caused the argument?

nightandthelight · 27/03/2015 20:19

Sorry ignore me it was MIL!

Sparkly123 · 27/03/2015 20:20

Glittery no but it's bit that it came out after! I mean it all shot back out the cathetar as it doubled back on itself! Ah! Anyway.. Tomor lunchtime I think yeh?

Sparkly123 · 27/03/2015 20:20

*Bit=not

juneybean · 27/03/2015 20:20

Ohhh mummy :( so sorry you're fighting again!

Pixa · 27/03/2015 20:22

Cheers for the lovely welcome! You all seem like a good bunch. Smile Although if I am intruding, please kick me off.

Mummy DH and I have had those types of conversations about ttc. It's so easy to get frustrated so I feel for you. It's such an emotive subject, it's bound to get tense.

Mummyofonesofar · 27/03/2015 20:23

Yes mil. Just he was stroppy which caused him to be stroppy putting DSL to bed acting like a child. Children reflect your bad mood so DS wasn't behaving. So he blamed me for not teaching him to do as he's told. Then said he is just like his real dad. Then I told him he's had beers and a row with mil and now is starting one with me. Then he said that my dad used to drink so I should be used to it. Then I called him a nob and he said that's what I go for because my ex was a nob so I should expect it. Then said he doesn't think we should ttc anymore. All while DS had just been put to bed and w as listening to every word. He just called me in and asked if we would have a happy Easter because he wants nice things to write about back at school not arguments. Now I feel like a bad mum off a nspcc advert.

nightandthelight · 27/03/2015 20:26

You aren't a bad mum mummy, don't even think that! Sounds like DH is very stressed. I imagine he is still upset about his dad?

ThePug · 27/03/2015 20:33

Oh mummy that sound so awful. Everyone can say hurtful things in an argument. I am sure once he is sober calm tomorrow he will apologise profusely. What's his relationship like with his mum usually? If this is the first time he's really answered back to her then maybe he is on edge about that and just lashing out at you.

Hope you have given your DS a nice cuddle and told him that Easter is not cancelled and he'll have a really fun school holiday.

Sparkly - oh no! I'd do it again tomorrow morning if possible.

Pixa Welcome! Everyone was new once Smile Hope you can keep up!

Nomio Exciting day tomorrow. Fx you find the right one (and can get it before someone else does!)

Sweets27 · 27/03/2015 20:39

Hello ladies!! Smile

I've just been persuaded to join this new bus of excitingness!!

I might struggle to keep up with the fast moving chat, but it'll be so nice to see all your lovely faces all the time.

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Sweets27, 29, ttc #1, cycle 3, BFP due 1 April

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ThePug · 27/03/2015 20:45

Sweets are you a one-month-in-the-future me? Your stats are identical to mine, except I'm cycle 2.

How many DPO are you?

Sparkly123 · 27/03/2015 20:45

Oh mummy sorry you are having such a bad night! What am awful argument. Can't be easy. It's been such a hard time for you recently too so I imagine both you and dh under quite a strain. I hope things will calm down for you later. It's so hard when we say things we don't mean during arguments! Fingers crossed dh calms down and comes to his senses soon. You are wonderful! Don't forget that! Flowers

eskimolaura · 27/03/2015 20:49

Oh, I am so, so, so excited about a / nutella cellar / zen den / angry pubes bus all to ourselves!!! So much so that I haven't read back yet. Just marking my place. We haven't had internet all night. Grrrr. But I'm back on it like an angry pubes bus bonnet now Grin

Sparkly123 · 27/03/2015 20:50

Hi again Sweets welcome to the madhouse! Grin

frogbubbles · 27/03/2015 20:52

Congratulations shiny, enjoy your holiday what a lovely time for you

Welcome Pixa & Sweets

Oh mummy, your not a bad mum I hope you sort things out with DH soon

Sparkly boo to the escape artist style swimmers, I agree with you and try again in the morn minus the catheter

frogbubbles · 27/03/2015 20:53

Also forgot to add am I completely childish that every time I read the bumsnet/angry pubes title I chuckle away

ThePug · 27/03/2015 20:53

eskimo I was just about to post asking if anyone had seen you! Any more ovulation signs today?

Oh and Juney I just remembered your eggy cm comment that I read whilst I was eating my dinner When you say eggy...??

Rainy34 · 27/03/2015 20:54

Hi everyone, this bus is such a great idea, I have been keeping a bit of a low profile but i think this type of bus is great, I have been trying to keep relaxed this month and not get so hyped up and i think its done me good for my state of mind, I do know that i am past ovulation we did dtd on our fertile time but not feeling so anxious about it, I want to join this bus as i miss you all and felt it was silly to pass up the chance of trying,

Rainy34, 34 TTC1 cycle 9 BFP 4th April

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Nomio230 · 27/03/2015 20:56

Welcome Sweets and Pixa.

Mummy, please don't feel like a bad parent. Your love of DS shines through constantly and I think you seem like a brilliant Mum. It is a shame he had to hear the argument, but I am sure he will soon forget it when things get back to normal.

Sparkly, tomorrow should be fine. I am sure there will still be some of the little guys in there even if most of it came back out.

Juney, as soon as I am upduffed, I shall send him your way!

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juneybean · 27/03/2015 20:58

More snotty I'd say... thepug period is due Monday Confused

Pixa · 27/03/2015 21:04

Do I dare ask where 'angry pubes' originated?!!

Sparkly123 · 27/03/2015 21:04

Hi Rainy wondered where you had got to! Glad you are feeling more relaxed this cycle! I hope it's a lucky one for you Flowers