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oyster, I am so sorry sweetheart

Oh oyster I'm sorry, it's all about April!! I have my fx for you my lovely

Eskimo sending some positive vibes your way, I hope it all goes ok and you get some good news (no cysts)

Purdy I really do hope you get some lovely news soon, it's hard to say anything when really I don't know what to bloody say other than I want you get that BFP!!! (Along with every other lovely on this bus)

Oh no Purdey, the tooth!!!! Do u have an nhs dentist?

Don't worry, I'm not testing tomorrow. It's kind of sad really, but I don't even really believe a bfp will happen now. I mean I get caught up in the 'am I aren't I' in the run up, but when af arrives I'm not surprised anymore.
But must stay positive for now!

Sleep well everyone, and good luck for those still attending the poas party. Xx

Hi my name is frog stands up it's been 3 days since I last POAS. I'm on CD3, I have a 30/31 day cycle. When can I start peeing on the OPKs????

Eeeek. Sorry about the crown Purdey My back tooth crumbled on a popcorn kernel a few weeks ago. It had been through a root canal at the back end of last year and was therefore weak. They're hopefully going to do a crown on it in a few months time.

Thank you lovely frog I have reached the conclusion that there can be no other explanation for coming off the pill in November and having no AF since. I really hope that they don't find anything and that it's just taking my system a long time to realise that it's supposed to actually be producing waves of progesterone at some point during the month

Oyster I'm so sorry about AF lovely.

Purdey oh no your tooth! You get it free still though as you're poor unemployed no? I am so hoping your temp goes up or stays up tomorrow so we can see you test again. I am trying to stay placid for your sanity but I am getting excited.

So I have started pink spotting. I won't be poas tomorrow either as I will be on by then. Will announce it now - New BFP date - 25 April. not supposed though.

I had ewcm today, same as last month on my spotting day. And ff has taken away my solid lines and given me dashed ones

Evening lovelies
Sorry to those who have been visited by AF. Sending big virtual hugs to you.

Oh eskimo sorry you are feeling low. I know it's hard when these things are hanging over you. On the plus side, you only have a couple days to wait and good thing about US is that it shows on screen straight away so you don't have to wait ages for results. I'll keep everything crossed for you. Thing with some cysts is they can actually disappear on their own too. So don't worry. Whatever happens, there's a way to fix it.. And for all you know everything will be fine and it's this stupid pill withdrawal which wouldn't be unheard of. Don't worry until you have to, that's what I say!

Dizzy ha yes I'm with you on the Facebook thing! I remember so many times going to speak to someone about somewhere we had been and them automatically saying "yeh I saw that on Facebook" .. Because maybe someone tagged you in a photo or something!its like the whole world knows your every step!

Purds deal. Do it. oh noooo!! The tooth! Lady, your sweet tooth is getting you into bother . you don't get NHS dentist being unemployed at the mo?!

Sammy I was just thinking this earlier... I know I'm only on cycle 7.. But first few months every month I was convincing myself I would have a BFP. I was doing the whole positive thinking thing to the max! But as the months go by, although I do stay positive, I feel as if I just expect that in the end AF will appear. Which is silly given I did have a BFP in jan and 7 months isn't long in comparison to some of you ladies. But it's strange how the thought process changes as time passes. I'm more than willing to keep positive for all you lot though, so consider the positive vibes for you covered by me! I can't wait to see your BFP come in! And it WILL!

Oh nooooo mummy so sorry lovely. I like the sound of your new BFP date.. It has a ring to it. Sending

Oh no, so sorry mummy . I hope April is lucky for you

Sparkly and Sammy I'm just the same. I do stay positive but somehow I always expect AF to arrive. The closer I get to that time of the month I just know she will show up. At the same time I just know that I will get that bfp. I also know you ladies will get your well deserved bfp's, we just have to keep the faith and keep going because there just isn't any other option.

Purdey I'm sure you can get dental treatment on the NHS when you are unemployed

Thanks Sparly and Dizzy.

I won't be poas at all, my temp plummeted from 36.67 to 36.48 today so I'm out. Af will be here today or tomorrow. Why can't we do this??

Purdey any news from you?

Good luck if anyone is still testing today. Xx

Should I be concerned that that would make my LP only 11 days this month? It's usually 13. X

oyster sorry the witch got you

purdey shite news about the tooth, I still have everything cruised that thou will be entitled to free dental care again really really soon

sparkly yay for the real life sex, that could've been the one!

eskimo good luck with the US, fx for nothing to report

Sammy could it have been just a random drop in temp? Had you stuck your leg out of the bed?

So who is poas this morning? I have my pom poms ready and can start cheering any time. (Lies, I'm too far and old for cheerleading, I'd break a hip)

No AF yet but a drop of .5c this morning. Tested just incase, bfn which I knew it would be. On with the next cycle - at least I didn't have another 36 day cycle, 26 is much better!

Who is testing - someone has to give us a BFP today!

Brockie - not unless I did it in my sleep! Thank you for thinking positively, but I can just tell af is imminent. I'm crampy and feeling sad now Xx

*brickie

and for sammy and mummyofone

I so need to get my arse off the sofa and get ready for work instead of hanging about here. Someone shove me please.

Purdey You're entitled to free dental if you are in receipt of jobseekers allowance (income based), Income support, or ESA (Income based).

frog I have crazy short cycles and don't start POAS until at least day 5. Step away from the sticks girl and hold off a little longer. You can do it.

eskimo for you

oyster sorry af arrived. and for you. April is the month you know. Hang in there.

Morning

Oh Sammy and Oyster, I'm sorry af arrived Oyster. I agree that a honeymoon baby would be lovely
Sammy, sorry for the temp drop, I was really hoping this was your cycle, you will get your baby. For some it just takes that little bit longer

Purdey, you should absolutely get your crown done for free being unemployed. Look into it sharpish before you start work and have to pay!!
Yes I went for coffee with dd and her bf when I bumped into them. It's been a difficult time with dd as she has some mental health issues and is awaiting an appointment, had a couple of emergency ones but the system is shit down here! Bf is 35 and has had a difficult life but he seems to have come through it although as you know these things are a constant battle. Dp and I are going to meet them for lunch sometime soon.

Wotsit, 7dpo is too early for any symptoms, hang in there!

Anyone else testing this morning? Purdey I'm hoping your temp is still high?

FF has put me at 3dpo this morning and my due date will be Dec18th!!! Bring on my Christmas baby

Ooh and the rain has stopped and I can see sunshine, yay! Easter Hols so no school run. Off for a walk on the beach later with ds

Oh and Mrsb, horse show date with your friends sounds fab I hate those 'joke' pregnancy things I don't really post much on fb now although I used to. Have some friends who post a running commentary of their day

A walk on the beach sounds lovely Our Easter holidays don't start until thirty Thursday but since I work term time I'll then get two weeks off

I don't tend to use my personal Facebook very much or update my status etc. I do admin a large breastfeeding support group on there though so I do end up on there most days. Got baby bombed on my personal news feed the other week by a pregnancy announcement at 7 weeks from someone who has had their other children removed from her for neglecting them.

No idea why I wrote thirty Thursday could be because I'm ironing at the same time lol.

and for Mummy and Sammy. Fingers crossed that next month is your month.

Hope everyone else is doing well. CD17 here of what is usually a 26 day cycle, but Ovia is predicting 25 days this month. I am a very impatient lady today, so so if I don't tall much it's because I am at work, then pole fitness class, then trying to distract myself.

Pom poms are firmly out though!