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Rolling rolling rolling, the February bus is still rolling!

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juneybean · 09/02/2015 21:04

Here we are...

Rolling rolling rolling, the February bus is still rolling!
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purdeybirdie · 11/02/2015 20:15

Ahh, thanks to you too, Sparkly Smile

Ginger, thanks very much. I like the sound of your mate; reminds me of that character from Pulp Fiction played by Harvey Keitel (Mr. Wolf) who was a fixer of everything and anything.

I have here a bunch of articles from studies which show BBT readings are only 34% accurate in reading the exact timing of ovulation. OPKs are 98% correct when compared with ultrasound pinpointing. Wanna see 'em, anyone?

Giddymamma · 11/02/2015 20:18

Purds, what's the diff between opks and cbfm, accuracy wise please?

spinningirl10 · 11/02/2015 20:18

I couldn't find your chart sparkly, I shall look forward to seeing tomorrow's Smile I did see a pic of some cuddly koalas though, aww cute.

Georg my german student has told me tonight (with a straight face) that his gf has been to the doctors today with a broken heart, this is because another boy is also in love with her! I nearly spat my quinoa outGrin

purdeybirdie · 11/02/2015 20:28

Eskimo, I loved reading your post. You were so brave and I am thrilled for you that you have found happiness...on t'internet, too!

Purple, I like the sentiment behind your picture of koalas but I can tell you the mob I met at Taronga Zoo in Sydney were vicious little bastards.

Rosebud, knowledge is power and now that you are armed with the facts and the Big Men are behind you with drugs and scans and monitoring, them there zombified ovaries of yours will soon be rising from the dead. You're going to have a baby in 2016 Smile

purdeybirdie · 11/02/2015 20:33

Giddy recent studies for the Journal Of Sphincters and Arseholes found that nine out of ten women who put the thermometer firstly up their arse and then under the tongue didn't like the taste.

Austral, buy a proper fermometer, you loon.

Ginger, I am well impressed by your DIY lengthening of the luteal phase. Well done.

MrsGingerbread · 11/02/2015 20:33

I got fed up of fumbling for my thermometer every morning, so I have installed this very stylish holder into a wicker basket and popped out into my beside drawer for easy access.

Size wise it is perfect. :) Thought you ladies might appreciate it!

Rolling rolling rolling, the February bus is still rolling!
CoffeeTwo · 11/02/2015 20:36

Hello all, apologies firstly for posting without catching up, I promise I'm off to do that now.

This morning at 9dpo I had this test result with fmu. It's literally half a line? Faulty test? Smudged dye? Bfn? Bfp? Half a baby?????

I've had two negative tests since with dilute wee. Ugh this has really messed with my head.

Rolling rolling rolling, the February bus is still rolling!
purdeybirdie · 11/02/2015 20:37

Giddy, no mention of CBFMs. The studies looked at the accuracy of opks that test for LH; don't cbfm's test estradiol too and are therefore different creatures?

eskimolaura · 11/02/2015 20:41

Purdey Thank you so much. It truly was a nightmare at the time. After the seizure (which happened in Italy), he had to stay in an Italian hospital for a week and I managed to get a hotel down the road from there, and spent every day at the hospital. He said that he was going to get better and stay off the alcohol, but he was back on it straight away when we got home. I took him to his mum's and never looked back. That was August 2012 and I spent a month crying and wailing at my parents. Then I went home, did a thorough search of the house and chucked away tons of empty bottles that I kept finding hidden everywhere (I truly was in such denial), joined Match and met my now DH. I did explain everything to him and we went through a few rocky months at the very beginning, where I was completely crazy at times, but he stuck by me, amazingly and we got married last August. Grin

Rose Yay for Internet Dating! My DH's brother is married to someone he met on match and their cousin is also in a long-term relationship with someone she met online. It's ace :) (Again, I am NOT on commission!)

MissMrsMummy · 11/02/2015 20:42

Half-human, coffee Wink omg though! I have not seen that before. Sorry it's happened, how utterly frustrating. But you must have some hcg in your urine for that to show up? Fx it's a bfp but just a bit faulty and your ones since then were not FMU.

CoffeeTwo · 11/02/2015 20:44

Half-human sounds about right missmrs! This is my punishment for poas too soon wah!

Nomio230 · 11/02/2015 20:44

That is genius, gingerbread. Not only do you get an excuse to eat Smarties, but you also don't have to scrabble in the dark for the thermometer!

eskimo I was in a similar situation. My ex was borderline alcoholic & was also abusive at times. After several years of broken promises I left him. He cried, shouted, threatened suicide. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, as despite everything a part of me still loved him. Also we owned a house, had joint bank accounts etc, so was tricky from a practical point of view.

A couple of years later I met dh on Match & ten years later we are still going strong. It was worth every minute of the pain to have the happiness and security I have now.

MissMrsMummy · 11/02/2015 20:45

Did someone (purdey?) say sperm does not stretch like ewcm? Even if it's been up you for 24 hours? TMI ALERT but I just checked myself out and I have loads of milky white cm with some globs of stretchy stuff. Do I have ewcm or is it something leftover from last night??? Also it wasn't really clear, more whiteish. Sorry if I've made anyone vom in their mouth.

BowiesJumper · 11/02/2015 20:46

Haha genius ginger. Well done. What was in the clear blue trial box? I've got the forms to fill in.

I've got my positive opk! Woooo. So I should ovulate in 3 days? We'll get on it for the next few nights!

Rosebud, I'm hopeless with blood tests, they can never find a vein! It's great that they're being so proactive with you, very positive!

spinningirl10 · 11/02/2015 20:46

Coffee, I just had a look at your pic. I really want to say that's a bfp but it could be a faulty test. Keeping everything crossed for a bfp tomorrow.

spinningirl10 · 11/02/2015 20:49

Well done to all of you who have left awful relationships. It's so hard to do but it's great reading the positive stories and happy endingsSmile

loopylou1984 · 11/02/2015 20:49

Genious ginger!!

Coffe - that looks promising!! Eek, fingers crossed for you Smile Xx

CoffeeTwo · 11/02/2015 20:49

Thanks spinning. I'm trying not to get my hopes up. This is too cruel though because the same thing happened last month with a different brand. Pink line came up. Then negatives afterwards. Twas horrid and I'm cross that The Sticks of Destiny are messing with me.

BowiesJumper · 11/02/2015 20:50

God coffee how annoying! No idea what that test means.

purdeybirdie · 11/02/2015 20:51

Giddy, ignore my last post.

Here's a taster: BBT and the Fertility Window

'BBT is the waking temperature of the body before any activity. It reflects the ovarian cycle in two ways. Within 1 to 2 days before the LH surge there is a nadir (low point) in BBT (Martinez et al., 1992). For over 30 years, this nadir in temperature has been identified as possibly useful in predicting ovulation (Lundy et al., 1974). Following ovulation, women generally experience an increase in the BBT of 0.5°F to 1.0°F; this is called a biphasic pattern (Figure 2). This increase is thought to be due to the thermogenic effect of pregnanediol, a metabolite of progesterone, which increases after ovulation and is secreted by the corpus luteum. The biphasic shift can therefore be used as a confirmatory marker of ovulation. Advising women to use BBT basically alerts them to this small increase in body temperature, indicating that ovulation has occurred. However, it
has long been recognized that some women may ovulate without a clear rise in temperature; this is called a monophasic pattern (Figure 3) (Morris, Underwood, & Easterling, 1976). This makes the use of BBT as a method of timing intercourse to achieve pregnancy less than useful.

Studies primarily from researchers at the National Institutes of Environmental Health Sciences have provided evidence that there is essentially a 6-day interval of fertility ending with the day of ovulation (Wilcox, Weinberg, & Baird, 1995). They also have shown that the most
fertile day is the day before ovulation and that the timing of the 6-day interval varies across menstrual cycles (Dunson, Baird, & Wilcox, 1999; Wilcox, Dunson, & Baird, 2001). The probability of pregnancy decreases by about 50% during this 6-day window when cervical mucus is not observed Shock (Dunson, Sinai, & Colombo, 2001). Pregnancy probabilities are highest when vulvar observations indicate the presence of the most fertile type of estrogenic cervical mucus [ewcm]
(Bigelow et al., 2004; Stanford, Smith, & Dunson, 2003).'

mustbemad71 · 11/02/2015 20:52

Coffee I really hope that's a BFP for you. Have you checked it again? Has that pink flooding disappeared now and the rest of the line appeared? Hoping it isn't a faulty test. This thread needs another BFP!

juneybean · 11/02/2015 20:54

Oh my goodness, you lot don't half chat on Wink going to attempt to catch up now!

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CoffeeTwo · 11/02/2015 20:55

Thanks all.

mustbemad that photo is from just now so dry and over 12 hours old. This morning it was the same, just a brighter purple. The half-line came up within a minute.

juneybean · 11/02/2015 20:56

Can we talk about mucous again? Today I've got what can only be described as snot... do I record that as creamy?

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