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TTC for ten months, and the rest. Ten plussers welcome.

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MrsGingerbread · 08/02/2015 02:06

A friendly and welcoming thread full of lovely women.

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loopylou1984 · 09/07/2015 07:41

Haha, how funny! And mine isn't in RL! Xx

lucieloos · 09/07/2015 08:35

I'm sure you will be fine Sammy. I think I just started the cetrotide too later.

Be careful with those clear blue tests kaly especially if you took it out of the bin 3 hours later as they are notorious for evaporation lines unfortunately. You need to get a pink line test like a frer to know for sure.

Kalyissa · 09/07/2015 11:09

The Clear blue test was the one I checked straight away, the one I did where I got it out of the bin was a pink test.

TrixieRay · 09/07/2015 11:11

Thanks for your wise words Purdie, if it is a no then tomorrow will be for despairing and then it will be onwards and upwards with a few months off to recover (and save!) before a frozen cycle.

Thanks Lucie! This time tomorrow I'll have had my blood test- eek.

Sammy, I'm feeling a little bloated still. My work skirt definitely feels a bit tight but then I have been sat around and over eating a bit for the last week! I am still getting some cramping/discomfort which feels like what I had in the days after collection, no idea what is going on in there. Don't really have anything in the way of pregnancy symptoms. I really hope you get some frosties, I'm sure you will.

Back at work and didn't think I'd have a chance to log on but bearing in mind I have been out of the office for 6 days my back log isn't too bad at all.

lucieloos · 09/07/2015 11:53

Good luck trixie will be thinking of you tomorrow.

Kalyissa · 10/07/2015 02:33

Just did a new test m.imgur.com/zUepMzl third time three Positives this one the strongest

Pikz · 10/07/2015 05:51

Sneaking in.

Trixie I have everything crossed for you

Big love sammy and Lucie

Hiya Purdie! Lovely news!

loopylou1984 · 10/07/2015 06:45

It's conclusive then kaly! Congratulations.

Pikz! Hello Smile

My scan is at 11, fx everything's looks right as I'm going by myself! Eek! Xx

loopylou1984 · 10/07/2015 06:46

And massive good luck for you Trixie! What time is the blood test? And how long afterwards do u get the call? Xx

spinningirl10 · 10/07/2015 06:53

Trixie, Good luck today, everything tightly crossed here!

Sammy, I think I saw somewhere that you have a scan today, good luck.

Lucie, good news that your clinic agree with the docs here. Really hoping it all works out for you this cycle.

lucieloos · 10/07/2015 07:21

Eeekkk it's all happening today! Good luck Sammy and trixie. Hope you both get good news.

Hi pixz, lovely to see you here, how are things with you?

Thanks spinning, hopefully second time lucky!

loopylou1984 · 10/07/2015 07:22

Thank you both Smile Xx

TrixieRay · 10/07/2015 07:27

Thank you ladies.

Pikz, lovely to see you. Hope things are good with you.

Sammy, good luck today. You'll be fine. Looking forward to hearing all about it.
My blood test is at 10 15 and it takes 4 hours for the results.
Couldn't sleep last night, think I managed about 5 hours. Actually feel quite calm this morning, what will be will be I guess.

loopylou1984 · 10/07/2015 07:32

Trixie I'll be eagerly awaiting your update! That is a very good attitude to have, wish I could be more like you. Xx

TrixieRay · 10/07/2015 07:36

I have been very up and down Sammy, last night I was really tearful. I am desperately hoping for a BFP and will be absolutely gutted if it's a BFN but we have a plan and that makes me feel like I'll be able to deal with it.

loopylou1984 · 10/07/2015 08:11

I'm sure you have, the tww is awful normally, let alone after an IVF cycle. I'm not sure I'm going to cope very well it! Xx

Pikz · 10/07/2015 08:16

Trixie am holding thumbs

Sammy fingers crossed for scan

I'm alright had a bit of a wobble as we hit 18 month mark so have had proper time out from thinking bout it all and I think I'm going to step away from the buses for quite a while as it's hard month after month. Am 3dpo and we've taken a really relaxed approach. Hit the right days but with less pressure. Nothing we can do but just keep trying :)

loopylou1984 · 10/07/2015 09:17

Pikz - join us here, everyone understands and you don't have to deal with month 1 BFPs all the time.

I can't stay away from the busses though, I have a vested interest in everyone there! Xx

Kalyissa · 10/07/2015 10:39

Pikz we have been TTC now for 14 months and it has been hell. This month since we we planed to go to Poland with 6 friends (there at the moment) and my ovulation time was over midsummer when we were away we only had two times once on the Thursday and then on the Monday and didn't think anything of it.

Confirmed today on third test I am pregnant. I am 31 and my partner is a 34 year old smoker so hoping now nothing goes wrong.

So ye my suggestion is take a step back and don't force it and think about other things (it's hard I know) and fingers crossed for you!

LuLangs · 10/07/2015 11:08

I am so glad that I've found this thread. Reading all your stories is making me feel less alone.

We've been TTC for just over 2 years. I feel heartbroken about it.

I'm 32, and never been pregnant.

We've been married for 2.5 years and I'm sick to the back teeth of constantly being asked when we're going to start a family and having to fob people off with rubbish answers. Every time someone asks it brings all the emotions to the surface and I feel like I have to smile politely, hide it and pretend we don't want kids, or that its not in the current plan.

Why do people think its ok to be so nosey about this?

We're starting the process of investigating why we haven't been successful yet. I've already tried a range of alternative remedies. We're also investigating adoption.

I don't actually know what else to say, but writing this knowing that other people that understand might be reading it feels very cathartic!

Pikz · 10/07/2015 11:29

Thanks Kayla. I am lucky to have a ds after much heartbreak and help so I do get it.

Sammy I am lurking and reading the buses I just don't feel up to joining in

Welcome Lu

loopylou1984 · 10/07/2015 11:41

Welcome Lu, I promise to respond to you properly after work.
Just wanted to update to say my egg collection has been moved forward to Monday! I had 21 follicles in total with 8 being of the right size already, and a possible 2/3 more that might catch up. Agh!!!!! Scary! X

TrixieRay · 10/07/2015 11:55

Eek, exciting Sammy! That's so similar to what I had and my egg collection was brought forward too. You have the weekend to prepare yourself. Get plenty of rest and drink loads of fluids.

On my way back from clinic. Results due some time after 2pm. I'll write more later too, on my phone now but hi and welcome Lu!

LuLangs · 10/07/2015 12:12

Thanks all.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you Sammy and Trixie. Sounds like you are both having an eventful day!

lucieloos · 10/07/2015 12:48

Woo hoo go Sammy!! Do you know what sizes they are? Sounds like a bumper crop for you too. Not much longer to go now trixie eeekk. Hi and welcome lu.

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