April TTC girls! Lots of babies being born! And the rest of us are gonna grab those BFP's!

[Cupcake92]

Thought id start a new thread girls before the old one gets maxed out! :) let this be the thread where we all get out BFP's and babies!! :)

What a vile person he is cupcake will your mom be staying with you? It's probably best your not alone just incase.

locks changed and call the police if he appears!

He is horrible Cupcake. What are you going to do with his stuff when you have packed it?
How will you stop him getting in? Is your mum going to stay with you? You need someone with you and the lock changed again.

Please don't let him in the house again. He is just awful. He is not thinking about what is best for DS at all. And he is going out all night- has he checked that you are going to be in or is he just abandoning DS?

Please go on Monday and start divorce proceedings or at least get a legal separation in place - that is what my friend did and it meant he had no right to live with her and after the amount of time had passed she just quietly divorced him with no fuss.

Hope you have your mum there and are OK. Just got to get through it.

Valentine's Day
DH made me a cute card with drawings of us at various stages of me being pregnant on it
Bunch of flowers, perfume.
I have made his favourite tea and he has made a pudding and got me some champagne. He is having Guinness!
DS has discovered one of his toys and has been holding it- it is a rattley thing. But he keeps dropping it and just forgets about it straightaway; he does not cry for it.

Yeah my moms here all night so it's okay.

N lulu that's exactly what im gonna do on Monday then he won't be able to come to house at all.

The most disgusting thing about this is he's gone out tonight and is staying at some girls house he used to work with. Ha! If he really wanted to make it work so he said, he wouldn't be sleeping at random girls houses after getting drunk out of his mind!
So glad I've made this decision. Can't wait to start mine and DS's new life! :)

N Lulu that sounds lovely :) u and DH are so lovely together. :)

Oh we've had a squabble over towels tonight! He had a bath and when I went upstairs, the bath towels were on the floor soaking. He was busy makng his pudding by then and got really snippy with me and DS started to cry and I got snippy back and took DS upstairs to feed him.

We have made up and have been laughing about it and remembering fights we have had - we don't have many so we can usually remember them. We once had a bust-up at PIL and had to argue in whispers in bed. I made him sleep on the floor and half way through the night he got back into bed and we made up with a cuddle. We fell out in New York queuing to go to Staten Island but had to talk to each other because we are both really interested in History and we had no one else to talk to about how amazing it was. Once he managed to lock us out of the house and we had to drive 40 miles to some friends to get the key he had left there. When we got back, it was an old key and it didn't work because we had changed the lock after he lost a set of keys. So he broke a glass panel at the top of the door- cut his hand in the process- and we got in.Then had to get a friend from his football team to come and put new glass in. Then I had to take him to get his hand stitched. There were some cross words that day! But I did once burn a big hole in his new BCFC top which was his pride and joy and he was going out to a match- should do his own ironing then!

Glad your mum is keeping you company Cupcake. Just keep your nerve. Don't give in again to him.

The staten island one made me giggle
Cupcake, I've got my fingers crossed that all goes well (as well as it can do!) when your H returns

Lilla same here that Staten Island one made me giggle too
Lulu u never fail to make me laugh

Well he's not even here yet. So obviously enjoying his time at that woman's house too much

Don't even think about that woman Cupcake- it is a ploy to make you jealous and annoyed. She is welcome to him.

Is everything packed and your mum still there? Just hold your nerve today ad get the legal ball rolling tomorrow.

Remember, don't look back, look forward.

Lulu it just makes me want him out even more. Moms still here but needs to be somewhere soon but Her parter is staying. He's dropped DS off for me as well. Everything is sorted and im all prepared with getting all the legal stuff done tomorrow :)

Well done you! Chins up!

Could get him out. His dad came along and said Gok's luck at court as I won't get the house. They used an excuse that when I went out last week n got drunk when I was supposed to have Jayden (he was at my moms I had arranged her to babysit like a week before !) but apparently I won't get the house as I can't even look after my son when I have him n I make him go to other people's houses!!
I know I'll end up homeless n they will take DS off me :( they are such a evil family.

See why I always just carried on with the relationship? He's now out to ruin myife :(

Couldn't get him out *

Cupcake, I see where your h gets it from, can't beleive his dad is encouraging this behaviour! They're chatting bubbles, no way would they get ds off you! And look at him going out all night, I doubt he questioned what ds was doing? Whether you would be in to look after him? He's a horrible man.

call tye police. they're threatening you in your home. The police can remove him

Why would a court give him the house and Jayden? You should start collecting evidence of his unreasonable behaviours. Go back through these threads- you would have dates and everything.

He is a bastard Cupcake and is trying to scare you.

A court will look at the Childs best interests. Doesnt he have a conviction? Or was that Duckys DH?

I would be saving up a deposit for another tenancy. How long would that take you? As he sounds like he's going to try and bully you, if you take another home nearby he can't demand access.

Hi ladies!
Hope you're all doing well, and sorry for the delay....
We really tried to focus on our new family during the last few weeks :)
DS is 19 days today, we're so proud! He is so cute (I've attached 2 pictures)

My delivery story is very short actually...
As you might remember, here in Switzerland, we've a pregnancy appointment each month, and my 36 weeks appointment was scheduled on January 27th at 4 pm. The night before, I felt some contractions, but nothing regular and not very painful. I decided to take a bath in the morning in order to stop them, and when I left the bath, I felt like my water break, but I wasn't sure (I thought it might be water from the bath). I called the hospital and they decided to advance my appointment at 10am. When we arrived, a very nice midwife told me : "You're already dilated at 2 cm, you will meet your little son today". My DH and I were a bit shocked and surprised, but also very happy :)
We ate lunch at the hospital and spent a nice afternoon until 3pm. Before 3 pm, the contractions were manageable and irregular. Around 3.30pm, it was difficult to manage the pain and I asked for the gaz (it didn't help me at all... :(). I finally asked for an epidural around 5pm. The midwife examined me and told me: "Wouah, you're already dilated at 8cm! Right now, the doctor is busy with an emergency, he won't be here before 30 minutes, and by the time the epidural will be effective, you will have your little son in your arms". As soon as I understood that I won't be able to have an epidural, it gave me a huge motivation to do my best to deliver my DH as soon as possible! I tried to manage the pain with my sole respiration and my DH support, and 30 minutes later, I was totally dilated and starting to push :) At 19h05, my DH was in my arms.
No episiotomy was needed, maybe because my DH was quite small (5lb8oz, 44cm).

To hear his voice for the first time was a beautifull moment, very unique.
I'm 100% breastfeeding and a bit tired (that explains the delay to come back here...lol) but the time we spent together when DS is eating is really amazing. I'm happy, filled with love, and so is my DH. I could spend all day looking at him :)

I didn't take the time to read all the thread (but definitely will), but I'm really sorry to read you are having such a difficult time cupcake. I really hope that all the future mums are doing well, and that all the newly mums are having a great time with their little babies :)

He's beautiful Steph I'm glad you managed to pop on to update us, but hope you are less tired soon.

I so can't wait to meet my little wriggler. I'm 30 weeks tomorrow! 7-12 weeks to go. I bet you had a bit of a shock with him arriving sooner.

He is very sweet Steph. You sound like you are having a lovely time with him. You were very brave even managing without the gas and air! I just had gas and air and didn't need an episiotomy either- thank goodness. So pleased to hear it went well and you are all so happy.

DS is 7 weeks on Tuesday. He is a cutie and we are both besotted with him- particularly DH who just dotes on him. He is a very content, easy natured little boy, so far. He's awake a lot but doesn't make big fusses about things and is easily comforted if he is upset. He's a good smiler.

It's weird how you just fill your life with them isn't it? I send whole days with DS doing very little!

Ahh he's sweet Steph

How you doing cupcake?

I keep checking back as I'm worried cupcake hasn't posted, maybe I'm weird but I don't trust her H!